Sparkly - so sorry to hear about your DH's problems and issues, at a time when he should be so happy with and for you! Has he got any (male) friends or relatives that he might be able to talk to, to get out what exactly is bothering him? I think we often forget how ttc/being pregnant affects the other halves - could it be that he is worried about you and projects it onto the pregnancy? I hope he will be able to get some help soon, and that you can be happy together!
greenlizard I have never checked my cervix, I always thought that this is the one thing I will give a miss when ttc, brrrrr Wouldn't even know what to look for in the first place
gum fingers crossed for you!
I'm still very wobbly, it's all a rollercoaster at the moment! After the brilliant news last week, I have found myself reining myself back from getting too excited and happy, how sad is that?!? But I'm so scared that it might go wrong after all... I'm still bleeding/spotting and cramping on and off (today was pretty bad again, but no red blood, so trying to stay calm).
They never found out why I was bleeding, and believe me, they looked very thoroughly . One theory is that I might have been carrying twins and lost one of them, but we will never know what exactly went on. All is good so far, according to the scan anyway.
However, they measured the foetus being 6 weeks at the time - 2 weeks behind what I should've been. I am very certain about my dates, so this worries me because I keep thinking that at the next scan they'll tell me it stopped growing altogether, and it'll turn into a mmc, but more so as now the midwives and hospital are going by that rather than my actual gestation. I have now received a letter inviting me for the dating scan at the beginning of Feb, when I really should be having it mid-January! Very cross about that - I worry about missing the window for nuchal fold measurements and the blood tests. I think I will have to fight my corner with the midwife on Wednesday, when I have my (re-booked) booking appointment. If they can't/won't being forward my dating scan, I will insist on getting another early scan. I really don't think it's accurate at all at this stage - if they went from seeing nothing to a 6-week stage within less than a week, how can they assume it'll now go by the book?!?
Planning to call my GP tomorrow, to see if they can write me a sick note... I really don't feel that I should be using up my annual leave for all of this, it's so draining, and I am exhausted. Hoping to see a sympathetic doctor. Might have to postpone our planned trip to IKEA (DH is delighted at the prospect of that), but I don't feel I want to go there anyway, if I'm still cramping and have a sore back.
Have a lovely NYE all of you, wishing you all a BFP in 2013!