Hi ladies. It's been a while, but I need to rant to others who understand my frustrations.
I had my NHS fertility appointment a few weeks back and the Dr I saw was nice and said oh yes you will have to have IVF you have been through so much, but I'll need to discuss with my colleagues and I'll call you in 3 days time. Next appointment to refer for IVF booked for end of April. She calls today 2 weeks later to tell me that actually upon discussion, no I can only get 3 IUIs on the NHS and that's it. Apparently no IVF (where I am you can get 3 goes) as my AMH is too low, but IUI is better for me and has more chance of working than IVF! You have to be kidding me??? I am absolutely furious and distraught. Unfortunately my Drs was just closing as I got there tonight, but I want to find out where I stand on this. I don't think they even tested my AMH and believe they just took my private result from last summer. It seems every possible obstacle that can be put in my way is put there...miscarriages, uterine septum, very high NKCs, low AMH, and now this. I have been living this nightmare for 4 and a half years and each time I think we might take a step closer to the dream of having a baby, wham we get knocked back. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I have given up with the SO, pred, hydroxy and various other supplements as I don't see the point. We have the funds to go privately but them my OH just doesn't seem keen, so i may just have to book the appointments and tell him to turn up!! Ari he is a little like yours I believe in that he tries to blank out anything to do with the whole TTC debacle and isn't interested, which makes it even more difficult and depressing for me. Anyway, apologies for the ranting and raving I am just a little upset!!
Brown glad to hear follie scan went well. Mr Mahfouz is lovely. I have seem him twice for scans. Let's hope this is the month!
Mel how long does it take to get your tnf alpha re-test results back? And if all is well can you just get right back in the saddle, as they say?
Pebbles where did you go before for your previous IVF cycles? Any advice for me on clinics? Obviously ARGC would be wonderful but perhaps not the best one to start out with..
Waves to all!