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TTC after recent MC

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posypoo · 24/07/2012 11:27

Here we go everyone - a place for the recent MCers to chat and share all our NOT waiting stories!

OP posts:
Lolcbcblemonlime · 01/10/2012 07:29

Yep the one you eat a million apples! Have the 3 juices of the day ready and will take a big flask to work. I'm just doing 5 days though as I'm away at the weekend. Might do another 5 next week doubt ill have enough willpower

scaredmummy2B · 01/10/2012 09:31

So anxious today guys dunno how I'm going to possibly cope until 12 week scan 7 weeks away I'm a nervous wreck I really am trying to do wedding planning to take my mind off it but getting little twinges so its hard to forget x

YorkshirePeanut · 01/10/2012 12:52

Scared, poor you. Can imagine the waiting is a nightmare x

Lol, am on second juice of the day, had to lastminute.com it so have random fruit and veg assortment, this one is MINGING but realised this morning I can't do my uniform trousers up any more so staying strong despite the quality streets in the staff room!

Lots of cute babies at work today, and I'm managing to be more 'aww' than 'grrr' for once. Progress!

messtins · 01/10/2012 13:34

((((scared)))) first trimester after a previous loss is really tough.

Lolcbcblemonlime · 01/10/2012 13:41

My first juice was also minging! It had apple, cucumber, celery, carrot and beet root. The one I'm having for the day is better- apple, pineapple, lime, avocado and cucumber. Think it will become harder tomorrow Sad

scaredmummy2B · 01/10/2012 13:43

After 2 losses in last 9 months messtins so so difficult just wanna fast forward 8 months and have a healthy happy baby here!

Well done peanut I'm still grr now even though I'm pg Im finding it hard to be happy about it and look at it more as a potential mc rather than a pregnancy :-/

littlepinkfizz · 01/10/2012 14:39

Aw scaredmum < hugs and hot chocolate>. Yes you get your BFP, but it's like a double edged sword as then you have a whole new set of worries to endure. Just one step at a time. For now, enjoy being pregnant x

YorkshirePeanut · 01/10/2012 16:06

Haha lol mine was apple, pear, lime, cucumber, fennel and spinach! Bleeergh. Never mind, I'll be size 8 by the weekend haha! Even though I want to be pregnant NOW I can see the benefit in getting healthy again first. Swimming tomorrow! Halo firmly in place and feeling totally smug

scaredmummy2B · 01/10/2012 16:42

Thanks little pink I'd love to enjoy this pgcy but don't think I'll even come close till at least 20 wk scan :-/ and thats a long way off x

littlepinkfizz · 01/10/2012 17:02

I understand scared x< hugs>

babyjamesblackberrycrumble · 01/10/2012 18:08

Seems my joy was short lived. 2nd MC in as many months :( :( :(
Life sure sucks sometimes.

scaredmummy2B · 01/10/2012 18:31

Ah baby James I'm so sorry to hear that life sure is tough sometimes. Xx

Lolcbcblemonlime · 01/10/2012 18:35

Oh no baby that is cruel. I'm so so sorry!
Scared I feel exactly the same tbh. Don't think I'll enjoy any of it.
Peanut my second one was nicer and I just had apple strawberry and kiwi. That's not on the book but I figured better than crisps!

scaredmummy2B · 01/10/2012 18:39

Mmm strawberrys you made me need strawberrys lol

Different to my normal recent need for cheesy wotsits mmm could make a strawberry wotsit smoothy:-) lol

It's horrible makes you feel not normal anyone else gets a bfp and jumps for joy I just mentally prepare myself for wat might happen next! Its not right it should be a really happy day a thing to celebrate yet I feel I can't :-(

Thanks little pink for hugs xx

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 01/10/2012 19:10

Oh babyjames I can't say how sorry I am. Hope you have a lot of support.

Again I'm so so sorry.

BettyFlutterbly · 01/10/2012 19:19

Baby I am really really sorry to hear about mc. How many weeks were you? Was it the same as the previous one? (Don't have to answer if you don't feel like it).

Good luck with the detox Yorkshire & Lol! I seem to be hungry all the time at the moment so no way could I survive on juices. I think it's the cold evenings and I am still bfing dd.

I am now 8dpo and am allowing myself only two cups of tea a day, no alcohol or cured meats etc just in case. I'm really tired but I think that's more to do with dd never letting me sleep more than a couple of hours in a row! Almond I wonder if I can hole out til the 10th. I promised myself I wouldn't test so early this time but my hands are twitching already!!

littlepinkfizz · 01/10/2012 19:19

Ah babyjames I am so sorry < hugs> . Be gentle with yourself. Thinking of you x

woollywomble · 01/10/2012 19:33

So sorry babyjames that you're having to go through it again. Take care of yourself.

kittykatskumkwat · 01/10/2012 19:43

Oh babyjames that's terrible, we are here for support should you need it Sad
Life can be very cruel sometimes

MunchinMango · 01/10/2012 19:47

Oh no Baby I'm so terribly sorry to hear your sad news. There are no words but just be kind to yourself.

YorkshirePeanut · 01/10/2012 20:15

Aw baby I'm so sorry. Big hugs xxx

YorkshirePeanut · 01/10/2012 22:14

betty how many dpo are you waiting to test? Not that I know mine but I'm never sure how many dps (days post shag haha) is reasonable to wait!

scared strawberry-cheesy-wotsit smoothie. I reckon you could sell the recipe for that to Maccie D's.

lol my evening one was carrot, orange, pineapple, beetroot, ginger and chilli. Was nice! Can't wait to wake up skinny tomorrow morning Grin

Lolcbcblemonlime · 02/10/2012 07:14

Morning all. Any poas today?
Peanut I'm feeling like a size 8 this morning Grin
Last night had a warm apple and cinnamon and it was lovely. This morning I have a spinach/beet root/apple/pineapple so I'm not looking forward. Are u having juices or smoothies- ie are u having the pulp of just thin juice? I sieved the apples abc spinach but nothing else.

scaredmummy2B · 02/10/2012 07:23

Lol peanut sounds good to me but anything with wotsit's sounds good to me at the mo lol I dare ya to try it tee hee wreckon a bit of peanut butter in there too :-)

MrsJLS85 · 02/10/2012 07:33

so sorry baby. Big hugs x

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