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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC 1st baby # Thread no 4

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Newbie2 · 19/07/2012 07:20

Wishing everyone a happy BFP!!!!!

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Newbie2 · 24/07/2012 12:27

Nicola yay for the box of goodies :)

I'm sorry to be so moany but I'm really crampy again just like I was last month 2 days after I got a fake CB smiley face. I'm so fed up :( I'm going to walk to starbucks and treat myself to a mocha frappicino and I don't care that it's coffee...sod trying to avoid so much food/drink when I'm not even pregnant. Rant over :)

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DulcetMoans · 24/07/2012 12:29

Thanks Lisa, sounds the same as what I am thinking. Will be small but don't know when or anything. We have agreed that baby is the priority but not sure what that means for wedding really!

Hope you enjoy your box nicola! I'm three days in now, getting the hang of the routine. Already got a date wrong on my paperwork though!

EchoDragon · 24/07/2012 15:22

Woohoo thanks to AF arrival am eligible for clear blue trial. They finally rang me today. I am no longer a reject! Here's to cycle 3 although it could possibly still be two as the first I was't aware I had ovd. I can stop using my cheapies. DH is most perturbed by prospect of buckets full of wee in the fridge tho!

NicolaHazel · 24/07/2012 17:59

Ha ha...I've not told H2B about it yet. I'll leave that til the box arrives :-)

I don't think I ovulated my first month, echo, so am counting this as proper cycle 2 as well.

woody17 · 24/07/2012 19:04

Hi everyone

Hope you've all been enjoying the sunshine!

I am feeling quite down today - think maybe I'm not coping with the mc as well as I thought.

I think I am going to start using ov sticks - do you just use one each day of the month until you get a smiley face?

Newbie2 · 24/07/2012 19:19

Hi woody sorry your feeling down. I'm feeling really low too. Probably not the best person to talk to :) I understand that you're meant to start using the sticks from CD6. I am using them everyday now because I am on everlasting cycle 1 cd 72. My theory is use the sticks until they run out!

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LisaC2611 · 24/07/2012 19:58

I started my clear blue trial sticks on cd5 and will keep going until I get an lh surge and hope I ov after that.

Sorry to hear you are feeling low woody

woody17 · 24/07/2012 20:01

Sorry to hear that you are feeling down newbie

Hope you are ok.

EchoDragon · 24/07/2012 20:04

Woody I started day AF finished then tested EOD until about day 12 Then would have tested every day. But my CM kicked in so decided not to bother just DID as much as possible. But we are still in early days of TTC.

LoveinNY · 24/07/2012 20:30

Hi everyone. Thanks for the welcome. Went to the FP clinic today just to speak to a doctor and she was reassuring in terms of I'm still in my first year of ttc so should relax and enjoy it. (just hard to do at times as we all know) what are all the detailed listed for people in earlier comments? Still learning the shorthand. @Maclairey, I lots of people don't know they're pregnant at your stage, try not to worry too much. I think it's harder because we are actually TRYING. @Woody 17, I was (and still am) very up and down about my mc, make sure you speak to people about it and don't hold it in. I've been using Ovulation tests since too.

letsdothisthing · 24/07/2012 21:14

Just updating my (hopeful) BFP date as ov'd later than I though so pushing test back a bit - will test on 2nd Aug if no AF :)

Alwyn - cycle 2 - BFP due 27 July
Letsdothisthing - cycle 1 - BFP due 2nd Aug
NicolaHazel - cycle 3 - BFP due 11th Aug
Mumoftwocats - cycle 6 - BFP due 11/12 Aug
Lisac2611 - cycle 4 - BFP due 14th Aug
DulcetMoans - cycle 3 - BFP due 18th Aug
purplefairies - cycle 3 - BFP due 23/34 Aug
Mumbaisapphire - cycle 2 - BFP?
Woody17 - cycle 7 - BFP?
Echodragon - cycle 3 - BFP?
Newbie2 - cycle 1 - BFP who knows!

Also congrats to dulcet on the engagement, lovely news!! Sorry to hear some of you feeling down too xx

Newbie2 · 24/07/2012 21:18

I have this massive urge to do a pregnancy test for no reason at all!! I seriously should not be allowed to keep tests in my house :)

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LoveinNY · 24/07/2012 21:32

Newbie2 I did one yest even though logically I knew it would be negative. Consuming thought thought isn't it? I'm getting too used to poas at the mo. doing a cb ov test every morning patiently waiting on that smiley face. Blush xx

LoveinNY · 24/07/2012 21:41

Can I ask what AF is? And are your cycle numbers how long you have been trying? X

LisaC2611 · 24/07/2012 21:44

Hi loveinny

Af is aunt flo or your period and yes the cycle number is the cycle number we are on for ttc so this is my 4th cycle

LoveinNY · 24/07/2012 21:49

Thanks Lisa, so many abbreviations! Well I guess I'd be on cycle 4 after an early mc. No idea when to expect AF as not been regular since mc. Angry have you been on here for long? X

LisaC2611 · 24/07/2012 22:01

There are still some abbreviations that I don't know!

I've been on here since just after starting ttc and have learnt some invaluable information

LoveinNY · 24/07/2012 22:04

Sounds great. It's good to have people to chat to that are going through the same thing. Smile x

NicolaHazel · 24/07/2012 22:08

Sorry people are feeling down :-(

We need a BFP or two people...particularly from someone who has been trying a while.

Newbie2 · 24/07/2012 23:08

Yes we need a good BFP to lift the spirits!

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EchoDragon · 24/07/2012 23:12

Agreed we need a BFP although not likely in our camp. DH is still feeling v sorry for himself over broken finger distinct lack of DTD.

Nicola think we should call it cycle 2 sounds better.

Dulcet contracts great news.

Lovin the list is when we will test for our positive. Helps us shamelessly egg each other on to pee on a stick (POAS ). Most of us need little or no encouragement to wee on a test stick of any variety. CM is cervical mucus by the way. If not sure just ask on acronyms we're a helpful bunch.

Maclairey does your hospital have an early pregnancy assessment unit might be worth trying to ring them direct. You may be able to get an appointment or something or at least speak to them.

EchoDragon · 24/07/2012 23:13

Dulcet meant congrats obviously.

Roxyjade · 25/07/2012 08:12

Morning all,

Hope you are all ok. Why are we all feeling down in this lovely weather. Isnt it Funny that we are all doen at the same time?I'm quite annoyed this morning, cbfm still showing high, no peak. The LH line started toget darker on cd11 and cd12 and today it is light again. I no you shouldn't read yourself but i thought I would have a cheeky look at them.

Chins up girls someone has to give us BFP soon, please x

purplefairies · 25/07/2012 09:27

Will be interesting to hear how you all get on with the cbfm. How exactly does it work? I've promised DH not to start peeing on OV sticks until I've had 6 cycles - I think he's worried (understandably!) that I might become addicted.

I'm still confused by my weird AF. Came on Saturday but has never progressed past mild spotting (almost gone now)....I'm starting to think maybe I didn't ovulate last month after all, although I was pretty sure I did. I know it's only my second AF off the pill, but I've never had one this light. Does a light AF mean you didn't ovulate?

Worried that it might be all sorts of fertility-related problems now:(

LisaC2611 · 25/07/2012 10:53

Purplefairies have you tested for your BFP? The light spotting could be implantation bleed