bugs he's gorgeous (as are you!).
That's awesome, LP. I'm really happy for you.
I just had my follow up appointment with the foofologist. It's not good news. Apparently the smear he did showed mild to moderate abnormalities (the earlier one only showed mild) and the evil HPV, HPV 16, is present. That'll learn me for sleeping with cheap men in my misspent youth. So anyway, he wants to remove the dodgy bits after the IVF drugs have left my system.
I am really upset. Work is shit at the moment (I won't go into details for fear of outing but loads of people have left in both my office and my global dept in the last few months, which makes everything feel rather unstable), I cant get up the duff, and now I need to have bits of my lady bits sliced off! And although we were planning to take the summer off ttc after teh IVF debacle, in my mind that just meant lots of sff (and a slight hope in the back of my mind that the "relax and it'll happen" thing might just work). Now it means a month of bleeding with no shagging allowed. And over our second wedding anniversary too (I was on a sechs ban for the first anniversary too, as it was just before my HSG). Harrumph.
It seems so unfair. Although I have slept with a couple of men who were promiscuous, I have no other risk factors - low no. of sexual partners, didn't lose virginity young or have first child very young , don't smoke, don't take the pill. And I am the healthiest I have ever been. I've hardly drunk this year. My diet is super healthy. I'm exercising. I am not even drinking coffee ffs. Arse.
Pity party at mine tonight. Please bring gin. Lots of it.