Just MC and ready to try again? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Recently graduated from the mosh pit? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake!

[MarthasHarbour]

Continuation of the last thread.

There's cake for scoffing, backs for patting, and screeching death metal for all your metalling moments. All welcome so come on in and get settled into the plush sofas!

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So settle into the mosh pit, we have special VIP area's for those on the 2WW, the new bumps metalling with segregated areas for the first/second/third trimesters and the club class cocktail bar for those who have just got AF and can get-pissed let loose for the first two weeks!

And we have a recently refurbished Mosh Pit Nursery for the graduates IQ Manda and Blue, we are currently running a rota for babysitting so those three can go and get-pissed have some rest! I have done my bit this week so i need the next volunteer!

Hello, it's all good. Little baby girl Jaffa has grown, has lovely heart beating. Could even see her tiny ribs. I am so grateful, and so relieved. Keep crying, but in a good way.

Bless you jaffa and bless the little lady too. glad it was such a lovely scan!

Oh enormous congrats Jaffa! What a relief it must be - now you can relax for 4 weeks and have a huge glass of wine juice!

yay! congratulations jaffa! how lovely! :)

Yes Jaffa! Chuffed to bits for you!

Yay Jaffa well done on your little girl - 16 weeks!

martha so sorry to hear about your friend thats truly crap and kind of puts a lot into perspective....

I'm just a bit behind you and icequeen (date fixing withstanding!) can I ask you did you have much MS before 5 weeks? Did you have days with loads and days with none, or was it pretty constant?

Great news jaffa xx

That's fab news jaffa

Great news jaffa

Martha I'm so sorry what a sad situation I hope you make the very most of this precious time with your friend x

Wow lots of newbies I'm sorry that you have all had the need to join us but bundle in and settle down and have some and [tea] depending in where your at I can also highly recommend the club cocktails I've had a few myself this last week and really help . Wilderumpus well done

Manda how's the measles house ???

Boris and yikes how you both holding up ? I'm still pretty mixed up emotion wise bawling one minute then cope the next cos I have to physically I'm no longer I pain though do that's a blessing

Gp didn't get back to me about my appointment though so and that I've somewhat been left wondering will give it til Thursday before I phone again ......

Have a good afternoon all xxx

Hi wilde - fancy meeting you here!!

squeaky - I haven't been having any symptoms, hence my metalling. I had a spot of brown the day my AF was due, but nothing since. No sore boobs, no MS, no nothing. I am sure with my other pgs that MS had kicked in by now, but some wiser person than me has pointed out that all pregnancies are different. The only slight sign might be that I am snacking constantly due to lack of energy. In answer to your question - with my other pgs the symptoms changed depending on how tired I was and how physically active. I suspect that it's only if they disappear for a longer period of time that it might be of concern?

ted - hope this thread brings you luck too. There is an 'up the duff' chair I believe. martha - who did you pass it on to?! (martha so sorry to hear about your friend. horrid time for you and her family too.)

jaffa so pleased your scan was fab. How exciting to be excited by a scan iyswim? Am slightly nervous of scans too after the mc.

fatas - welcome, but step away from the sticks!!! Too early!!

yikes - getting hitched on Saturday!!! Very exciting - hope all sorted and ready for you. Am sending an anti-rain request for you now...

mumtum glad to hear that you are coping with the roller coaster emotions. it's such a ghastly time. Good for you - and cocktails.

marking place :)

Jaffa - great news re the scan. State - good luck for tomorrow, fingers firmly crossed.

So sorry to hear about your friend Martha.

Well I'm officially in the WTF cycle now as the bleeding seems to have finally stopped (sorry TMI) so feeling better physically although head is still all over the place.

Brilliant news jaffa :)

I've managed to really hurt my back :( I've had niggles every morning for around a week but today woke up fine, spent the morning on my feet sat down for 10mins and couldn't get up, made the mistake of falling asleep on the sofa and been in agony since unless I lie down in a certain posistion, its up high around my bra strap, right hand side back of ribs, when I stand up I can't stop gagging?

Any advice?

I'm beginning to think that AF is on the way .

Evening all. Had a lovely day on the beach and eating cream teas and have barely thought about TTC/2ww at all. I bet I'll be going crazy by the weekend though - I've a stash of Internet cheapie sticks waiting for me back home.

Fantastic news on the scan Jaffa. Hello fatas and Tedmundo - It seems there are a few of us here who had losses in early March. Let's hope the summer is a bit kinder to us.

Martha - hoping your trip to see your friend goes ok.

Sorry posted too early. Squeaky- I didn't have any morning sickness until about 8 weeks when pregnant with my daughter- but I went off coffee way before that. I think it's quite rare to feel sick before 5 weeks.

Hope that helps x

Confused I feel the same - I always start getting low back pain about a week before I'm due on, and it started this evening

Oh well, we shall see...

State perhaps you have pulled a muscle and it's gone into spasm? Can be agonising and of course you can't take much to help except paracetamol of course - can you get DH to massage/rub it better??!

hi ladies
jaffa lovely scan news :)
hope everyone is ok.

welcome to the newcomers! so sorry you have reason to join but i am sure you will find what you need here, whether that is advice, comfort or some chit chat to talk over the metally hours :)

i had a lovely birthday!! im currently posting on my brand new tablet PC!! i was spoilt rotten by everyone!!

i am too drained to catch up on the thread, suffice to say that today was but we both feel kind of calm now we know that the end is near IYSWIM i love her so much and i had the opportunity to tell her, we dont all get that opportunity so i feel kind of blessed. she has been a wonderful friend over the last 21 years and i will always miss her.

thank you all so much for your support and hand holding, needless to say DH had a cheeky glass of ready for my return, i figured that bean would be ok on one glass

oh and my friend was over the moon about my news, i told her as i always promised she would be the first to know.

i will shake myself off and come back tomorrow, and will try and do a name check or catch up.

thanks again ladies xx

For some reason you're not supposed to hug on MN (I've no idea why). But sod it.

AF is officially here.

I am surprisingly ok with this. AF arrived exactly 28 days from my mc. (I'm a bit sad, but didn't expect to fall pg straight away - although I did hope). I know from reading this thread that this is relatively quick and others have waited much longer for AF to return. My body seems to have snapped back into my regular cycle length and this is can only a positive thing.

Goes off to buy vitamin b to add to pregnacare and vitamin d supplements.

However, by my calculations I will be ovulating around the weekend of the 9/10th June when we are staying with some NCT friends who've moved out of town. I'm not sure about the layout of their new house, but let's hope the guest room is somewhere secluded . Though I'm sure they'll understand as she is due with DC2 around the time I was and knows about the mc...

Another bonus is that I can really enjoy the bank holiday weekend by drinking lots of and eating mouldy cheese.

backs improved slightly after a bath and some pottering about, i just feel so sick and tearful, im actually terrified of tomorrows scan.

(((martha and confused))) big hugs x

Good Lord - I have eaten so much food I look as though I'm at least 16 weeks preggo ... does that count?!?!