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Emmsys over here! Come shake yer pom poms!!!

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VJay · 21/09/2011 12:01

Here we are, it's getting chilly, the slanketsnare out. Were all here to support, laugh and cry with each other.

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bluesatinsash · 03/11/2011 20:27

Lurking and rushing in but wanted to say welcome back and big hug to louey. glad you enjoyed your holiday (well as much as we can enjoy and relax with tiddlers to tend to!) but stoic award of the week to you for dealing with eratic sleeping and taxi refusals and screaming baby in car. I CANNOT bear the screaming baby in car scenario, that must have been hell. You cope so well I just wanted to give you a big sisterly salute Smile. Glad you got a new coat, you deserve it x

soclose - eeek! two of my friends have had baby girls this week and you are th eonly other person I know due this month so a come in threes scenario or with you balance things out? Hmm

Laters x

MummysLittleSunbeams · 03/11/2011 21:53

Louey you are the first one to get a massive {{{hug}}} from me. You poor thing, not only having one stressed out dc who is freaking out at going to school, but then having the guilt of another one in the back of the car, screaming because you've not managed to feed him in the melee. On top of that, being stuck in horror traffic.... I bet your stress levels were stratospheric. On another note - broody Shock OMG you wouldn't try for another one would you????! No I'm not going to find out the sex once again, I'm just going to try out every old-wives tale & mn fad to reassure me that I'm having a girl! Disclaimer - that doesn't mean I'd be gutted to have a boy, I'd just be completely gob-smacked!

Vjay you are the next one to have a {{{hug}}}. You are such a strong lady & seem to get tested from every possible angle. I hope everything goes ok at the doctors for both your endo & your gallstones.

4ever {{{hugs}}} to you too. I'm glad you've been able to find some thinking-space & you are sounding quite philosophical about everything.

LBM I take my hat off to you you crafty lady! I'm definitely liking the idea of home-made gift tags, I think I'll be giving that one a whirl with dd1. As for the wrapping paper idea, it sounds great but too much of a faff for me so I'll be sticking to my 10meter roll for £1 from Tiger!! I've just looked up fudge recipe's & can't believe how easy it is so I'll be making some of that. Would the chocolate bark work with dairy milk?

Cupcake was about to say the same as Louey 'it's just a phase, it's just a phase, it's just a phase'. It's easier to say that when you have an older child because then you realise that it actually is just a phase, but when you are right in the middle of it, it seems like your child is going to be stuck like that forever! Have you been using your Dreamgenii cherry? I've just bought one of these. As for a gift for a 3.5 year old, anything to do with Tangled, Peppa Pig or Ben & Holly!

SoClose if you are still with us then please please please do the baking soda test before you pop! We need to have more controlled test situations & as you are about to go any time now, you can be our first proper guinea-pig!

Barbie Glad you are feeling a bit better. Being poorly when pregnant sucks, even more so when you have a lo running around, needing to be looked after & keeping you on your toes. I don't know if you've already said but will you be having another section, or are you thinking about a vbac this time around?

Neeko my Christmassy friend, I hope you'll be trying out some of LBM's ideas too. We'll have to text each other pics of our handywork! I actually had a sneaky peak at the Christmas threads today. Do people put discount codes on there?

Buddha deffo get pre-seed. I'm convinced it helped me every time. It's so hard to not fall back into that obsessive ttc cycle isn't it?

Curly how are you doing? I hope you are not sending yourself round the bend too much.

Blue what have you been ebaying? I've had a really good week on Ebay & managed to make over £100, one crazy person paid over £40 for a pair of well used boots that I've had for more than 5 years!! Needless to say, most of the money I made has already been spent on Ebay purchases!

Not very much happening here except that I'm alternating between looking forward to & dreading the scan next Friday. I have to keep the faith & keep thinking positively.

As always I'm sending out massive {{{hugs}}}, thoughts, hairstrokes & baby dust to those Emmsy's who are mia. I hope you all check in with the thread occasionally, each of you are missed.

Right, I need a lie down after that long post! Grin

loueytb3 · 03/11/2011 22:18

mls I think we will all be Shock if you have a boy Grin. My hand is here for next Friday's appt, you need distraction therapy until then. Go and read the elf thread that LBM linked to Wink. Nope, definitely not trying for No 4. I'm having a coil fitted when the bloody clinic can fit me in. Its either that or DH gets the snip, and he is not keen (men - such wimps - bah!)

Right, must go to bed in case we have a repeat performance of last night!

monkeybumsmum · 04/11/2011 09:08

Hi ladies Smile

I'm so sorry to have been away for so long, but tbh things were just too tough so I've been trying to stay away from MN. I have missed you all lots though. I have occasionally lurked, and I have to say congratulations to all of you with bfp's recently - it certainly seems a lucky thread at the moment!

I was hoping to be able to come back on here and give you my own good news, but unfortunately am not able to. Our first attempt at IVF did work, but yesterday we had an early miscarriage confirmed by the hospital Sad.

I'm still going to try not to come on MN too much - it's ridiculous I know, but I wasn't on MN when pg with ds, and everything went fine, but the first pg after that I joined up, and they've all gone wrong since then. I am massively superstitious, so thought maybe if I stay away then my luck will change back. Silly I know, but tbh I'll try anything.

I really hope you're all okay - Barbie I have to apoogise for not having replied to your FB message yet, but I have been thinking about you and hoping all is okay with the band. Hope D is feeling better too.

I must go as ds and I are off to try to do something nice for the day. The mc started on my birthday, so it's been a bit of a sh*t week really.

Lots of love to you all, and even though I may not be here it doesn't mean I'm not thinking of you xxx

VJayazzle · 04/11/2011 09:26

Oh monkey i am so sorry lovely Sad. I often think of you.
I pretend not to be superstitious but I am, so don't feel silly I totally get why you want to stay away. Xxxxxxxxxx

BuddhaBelly · 04/11/2011 10:06

SoClose Any news??!!!??
Louey Yes E's sleep is much much muchly improved Grin He's only waking a maximum of twice a night usually just once and resettles quickly, he's been in his own bed for 4 weeks every single night haven't send too much as I didn't want to jinx it but think it's safe now! So sorry to hear of the troubles with I Sad I hope they resolve quickly for you
Barbie Glad you're feeling better now Smile Love the FB picture too, she's such a monkey! 24 weeks Shock so quick! Although I am sure time is dragging with all the complications you've been having.
4ever You know that you have taken your time to reach the decisions that you have made and therefore they are right for you. Oh and btw couldn't think of a nicer cycle buddie to have Smile
lbm Love the idea of the elf on the shelf - do you think it would work for dh Wink Grin as for the craft ideas I think I'm going to steal them all! Clever girl Smile
cupcake I'm sure that it was a one off at swimming the other day, it its any consolation I walked all around morrisons with E in the trolley tantruming! He was proper screaming and shouting I was so embarassed, felt like everyone was looking at me (without sympathy) but I thought no I've not done anything wrong I will lift my head up high and ignore him (although I've never shopped so fast!!)
Vjay Little monkey Ajay Grin
Mls Hope you have recovered from your long post Wink

Ordered my new Iphone this morning Grin so excited!! Will be back to silence over the weekend as still having PC problems, hopefully getting a new laptop soon or my new phone will let me post (my old one just lets me lurk)

BuddhaBelly · 04/11/2011 10:06

Monkey I fully get the whole superstition thing too, so don't you worry what we are thinking about you not being here, just know that we are thinking of you with love and hope. I am so sorry that the IVF hasn't worked this time and you have had yet another m/c Sad I don't really know what else to say my lovely but sending you huge hugs x

loueytb3 · 04/11/2011 10:14

Oh my lovely monkey life is just so unfair sometimes, and crap timing too on your birthday. I am hoping beyond hope that it works next time round. Are they going to tweak things for you on the next cycle - they did that with my sister and it worked for her (she had a chemical pg after the first round of IVF). Totally understand why you want to stay away but just you remember that we are all here for you when you want to talk/rant xxx

loueytb3 · 04/11/2011 12:18

Ahem, my food delivery is here and I have baking soda. That is all.

barbie1 · 04/11/2011 12:59

Pee pee pee women! Monkey I will email you shortly, I am sorry for everything you have been through x

loueytb3 · 04/11/2011 13:18

Hmm, so am I right in thinking it should be girl pee if I'm not upduffed??

cupcakefairy · 04/11/2011 13:20

Oh my gosh monkey I can't believe it :(:(:( you must have been so pleased the IVF worked and then to lose another precious angel is just devastating :( I'm so sorry...words can't express.
But it IS positive that the IVF worked and I will be hoping and praying and crossing every blade of grass for your next round to be a success. You are such an amazing strong woman, thanks so much for coming to update us I know we all think of you all the time. Massive hugs, hope you ahve a lovely happy day with ds xxx

Wow lbm loving the craft ideas I might try wrapping paper with ds though think it will just be splodges GrinGrin ooh maybe could do hand prints!
We make our christmas cards every year and take quite a lot of pride in them!! We're thinking of using some of our pics of the snow last winter for them this year.

Thanks for advice re swimming; we will keep going I think as it's paid for! But was just mortified among all new mums who didn't know that ds is actually a lovely boy and prob thought I'd just brought a tantrumer to their lovely lesson! Lol buddha at shopping super fast Grin been there!!

louey so sorry for all the crap that's happened to you this week too...really hope the taxi situation improves that must be horrible for you to send him off like that :(

mls can't believe only 1 week til your scan...seems to have flown by since you told us dh wanted another baby!! I know it hasn't for you though!

Right must have some lunch while ds is still asleep!

VJayazzle · 04/11/2011 14:11

louey what happened to your pee? Can't believe I'm asking that Grin

barbie1 · 04/11/2011 14:28

Come on louey, it fizzed didn't it Wink

BuddhaBelly · 04/11/2011 14:46

louey I bet you've never had your pee talked about so much Wink Grin

I forgot to say this morning, as I was driving to my Dad's a woman pulled out of her drive in front of me, I slammed on brakes and sat there while she drove round me and then drove off without a hand wave/thank you so I politely stuck up two fingers and said "Thank you twt" just then a little voice in the back piped up with "ank you twt" Blush Oops as you can tell my road rage is bad Shock and although I don't swear at home I obviously need to really sort out the language in the car Grin

VJayazzle · 04/11/2011 16:28

Grin that's so funny buddha Grin
Ajay has finally stopped saying shit and bugger Grin you see cos cjay didn't speak til he was 4 I forgot I may have this problem x

4everhopeful · 04/11/2011 17:50

Just lurked and see our lovely poor monkey has shared her very sad news.. We had been txing so I already knew, but monkey I'm marking my place on here to say again how very sorry and sad and angry i am for you.. Sad Its just so very tragic and unfair after all you have already been through, and all the trauma that ivf entails, that it should work, only for you to lose another baby... Sad There are no words, but there are very big hugs... You have. been so brave and strong... Xxxxxx

MummysLittleSunbeams · 04/11/2011 20:20

Oh Monkey I'm lost for words. I can't believe you keep suffering heartache upon heartache, time after time. I wish I could offer you some words of comfort but I don't know what to say. Please know that you have so many ladies on here that are wishing & hoping for a happy ending for you. Sending the biggest ever squeeziest hug your way. xxx

loueytb3 · 04/11/2011 21:22

Sorry for keeping you on tenterhooks, teething baby. I have non fizzy wee - which I guess means girl peel. I wish I'd tried it when I was pg with Oscar.

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 04/11/2011 21:53

monkey I'm so sorry my lovely Sad that's so cruel. You are so amazing for coping with what has been thrown at you in the last few years. Stay away from mn if it helps, we will totally understand. We'll still be here when u have wonderful news to share. Big hugs and hairstrokes lovely lady xxx

BlueMoon1981 · 05/11/2011 12:39

:( I'm so sorry monkey (((((((((hugs to you)))))))))

SoClose · 07/11/2011 09:03

monkey i am so sorry that you have had to go through this. Sad Sad I can completely understand the need to step back from MN, superstitions are funny things, but can help us feel in control. You deserve better and I hope things are looking brighter for you very soon xx

SoClose · 07/11/2011 09:04

Nothing to report here, still waiting! Does it have to be baking soda? i only have baking powder? Confused

MummysLittleSunbeams · 07/11/2011 09:30

It can be bicarb of soda SoClose.

Lovely to know that Moon is lurking.

loueytb3 · 07/11/2011 16:45

Oscar refusing to nap so this will just be a quick wave to moon and mls and shaking pompoms for SoClose - hope you don't have to wait too much longer. I'm waiting for the results of your pee test Grin