30's TTC - BESH fight club. Come and get your anger out here.

[MadameBoo]

The first rule of the BESH fight club is that you don't talk about how easy it was to get updiffed.
The second rule is that you don't talk about the BESH fight club.

There you go. We have a destroyed spa to fight in - we just weren't relaxed enough.

Bring it on bitches.

Tsk Tsk. These blimmin' youngsters Do your research into the annals of ESH dearheart. I am a relative newbie compared to some. Save your jealousy for facebook friends and work colleagues. It's a bloody joyful miracle when an ESH gets diffed.

I'm only a little bit posh and I am currently sipping a Tanqueray and Fevertree tonic with lime. In a martini glass.

Pah. No you are not the only non-diffed one, but pretty much every single ESH has had a long and arduous journey to get pregnant. In the last 18 months, we have had loads of MCs, a couple of ectopics, some MMCs and I seem to remember a molar pregnancy as well. We have had miracle FUFC diffments, diffments after three long years of trying, IVF baybees, ICSI baybees, and heartbreakingly, an MC after a successful fertility treatment, which was the worst thing I can remember

As Boobs says, it's a joyful occasion when a BESH gets diffed and it's great when they pop back in to cheer those of us still waiting on. I luffs them all.

And there I crossed threads with about three others.

Had a heated moment. I am an Aries, what can I say?

Meds has a gorgeous wee baby girl.

I am not diffed, BL. I was a BESH, took a year to conceive my lufferly daughter, so was then a PESH and now a CRESH. I mainly lurk here to quietly will a diffment for Aries.

All this talk of gin made me want one. But we don't have any. So I am drinking some red wine. In a massive glass.

Once she's in bed I can - I'm still breast feeding.

Don't you dare flounce Bugger

It's an emotional bizznizz. We'll help you to keep it real, innit.

So, in other news, I have now done 4 coats of paint on the bathroom wall and I think it still needs another. Is Dulux shit? Next time it's Farrow and Ball all the way and hang the expense.

Medee I used to BF with smallboo on one boob and a glass of Guiness in the other. Bliss! Guiness has never tasted so good (gets all wibbly and nostalgic).

Cross post sorry. Timing was never my strong point.

Bugs as a newbie BESH myself best advice I'd give you is to remember that everyone here is in or has been in the same tough boat.

I know. I am painting a mustardy yellow over a dark green - and my BIL (who does it for a fecking living), told me that I didn't need to use an undercoat. He was wrong. I feel like Adrian Mole painting his room black over his Noddy wallpaper.

Just for Aries Medee?

FCFU - Fertility Clinic Fuck You. Where one gets diffed whilst waiting for fertility treatment. What I want.

Boo he had to felt tip over the bells on Noddy's hat

of course not, Boo - every BESH diffment is a happy and welcome one that I celebrate, I've just "known" Aries the longest.

Do you remember when his mum went to a Well Woman clinic and she came back depressed, and he presumed that meant she wasn't well? What's a Well woman clinic?