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so here it is, a new home for us newly updiffed ladies or still seeking that golden egg after a mc part 3

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mrsb33 · 13/06/2011 10:54

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1170413-Coffee-lounge-and-bar-for-MI5-interviewees-little-friends-and-other-CM-studiers-post-MC-Part-II

ladies here it is our new home, ive tried my best, im not very good at the witty banter so hopefully this will do, get yourself comfortable it could be a bumpy ride with me at the helm!!!

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yellowtomato · 22/08/2011 11:56

Morning ladies

harassed and worm sorry you are having DP issues, they can be so inconsiderate at times. My DP loves watching football but that's about it so it's not too bad. Have you seen that WKD advert where the bloke is in the pub and all the guys go quiet so he can pretend to be at work? Not sure why but it really pisses me off!

wellie big ((())) from me too. My DP never had to do a sample (it was heading that way though) and he was less than keen to say the least. I was not sure that I'd ever be able to get him to do it. I had the form from the drs for a few months and was just working up to putting more pressure on him.

ooh must go, boss back

Star82 · 22/08/2011 20:58

There you go Worm Grin!!

Wormshuffler · 22/08/2011 21:07

Nice one star Grin Your nuchal is much better than mine, I'm a 1 in 1000 and shitting bricks about the 20 week scan on friday!

I'm over my issues with DH, and to be honest He didn't even know I had issues, I brooded silently......

Great news about a heartbeat emma

Sorry you appear to have missed this months boat wellie it does put terrible strain on things, I guess we forget that the Men feel the pressure and disappointment too...........

Hope you are well mrsB how you feeling?

harassedandherbug · 23/08/2011 10:47

Star good results! We decided not to have them done, I was worried about my age tbh. The 20 week scan was fine though, no soft markers, so I'm happy. How was the sexing scan?? Did I miss the FB announcement?

Worm I'm also brooding silently for now. Dh has his fight on Saturday so don't want to distract him, but we really need to sit down and have a good chat about several things tbh.

Good news here is that dh finally managed to feel Bug moving! He's def re-positioned himself so maybe that explains the decreased movement over the weekend. It was very weird when dh couldn't feel anything when I was taking such a kicking!! Never had an anterior placenta and dd was back to back so always felt loads and dh too.

Star82 · 23/08/2011 11:30

He was 99.5% sure it's another girl but we will wait for the 20 week scan before we tell people just in case as i am only 17 weeks on friday.
Announcement went up yesterday evening harrassed :)

MarathonMama · 24/08/2011 15:16

Hello ladies, have been staying at the out laws so haven't been around much. Just wanted to say a massive congrats to MrsB and send a big Grin to Emma for seeing the hb. So pleased for you both.

I haven't managed to read all the posts but did see that beans are cooking nicely. My 12 week scan is booked for the 7th, two weeks today. A different kind of 2ww... Feeling very nervous as haven't had any symptoms for a week or so.

Anyway, will be back later when I've got more time.

waves to all

emmaandthestar · 24/08/2011 19:43

Wellie (()) hugs to you, we had that issue the month previously - I spent the night sulking and furious which obviously led to a romantic atomosphere (not).

Boobs really sore and feeling really sick - I am hping this is a good sign as did not feel this awful before :)

Worm good luck with the scan on Friday - are you going to find out whether it's a boy worm or girl worm?

I am wondering whether to insist on an early scan as 5 weeks until the 12 week scan seems like an age away and I am already attached...

yellowtomato · 25/08/2011 18:53

just a quickie to wish worm good luck for tomorrow.

Things are mental at work trying to get everything done before I'm off on my two week hols.....can't wait, if I can just get through tomorrow!

Wormshuffler · 25/08/2011 21:13

Thanks girls, it isn't until half 3 so it will be a long day!...........must keep busy, must keep busy! Not finding out, team yellow here.

Sick is good emma Grin

wellieboots · 26/08/2011 02:05

Hello!
Have fab hols yellow and good luck for later worm!!

Wish us good luck tomorrow DH is off to the clinic.....

Sparklywine · 26/08/2011 08:33

Good luck Worm, long day indeed! Maybe muck out the stables or something Grin Went on the Mamas and Papas site yesterday and there was a toddler boy in the cutest green padded barbour-type jacket, thought of you Smile
Good luck too Wellie, stressful times but you will both get through it. A friend at work has been trying for two years, her dh went in last week to 'crack one off' as he charmingly put it, and got through it ok. His results came back really quickly. Recommend your fella does not make the same mistake of telling all the lads on his team what he is doing though!
Yellow, where are you going on hols? Ooh, holiday-related question for the experienced mums, if we were to take Monty to Miami to see the Outlaws next Spring, he will be about 5 months, providing he is quite a good baby is this a feasible idea or are we bonkers? Also, is a direct 10 or so hour flight better, or should we transit after a few hours (in Chicago say) to get a break and a stretch? Would it be a 'break' or would it be hellish and we'd be better just sucking it up and getting there asap? The thought of bobbing about in a pool with a chuckling Monts is lovely, aware I may well be in a lot of denial but am getting excited about our little bubble-life of cake and cuddles Grin
Hope all are well and looking forward to a long weekend if in the rainy UK x

yellowtomato · 26/08/2011 08:34

Good luck also for tomorrow wellie

I may not be around much for about 10 days, not sure what the internet availability will be like where I'm going Grin

Wormshuffler · 26/08/2011 10:05

Well sparkles there is no answer to that I'm afraid, as all babies are different, however the holiday itself will be worth any amount of suffering on the plane (although your fellow passengers may not feel the same)! Go for it I say. It will definately be a break as I would think Mum-out-law will probably want to take over completely for 2 weeks, with you being on her territory and all.
Have a fun expedition yellow are you off to 'take out Gaddaffi'? If so could you buy me said barbour jacket with your bounty money please! Don't worry I would put it on a blue or a pink worm.
Good luck mrwellie

Sparklywine · 26/08/2011 12:24

Steady on, who said anything about a fortnight! Grin
Yellow, how much are flights to Tripoli then?

Wormshuffler · 26/08/2011 17:01

Baby Worm all present and correct Grin

yellowtomato · 26/08/2011 22:01

Hurrah, great news worm

Jolly hot where I'm going, I'll soon have it all sorted. Will try to dial in via satellite phone. Grin

Star82 · 28/08/2011 00:14

Do it all in one go sparkly. we've done the flight to Florida every year since DD was 9 months and to be honest, they're easier the younger they are in my experience. You'll get a sky cot or book another seat if funds allow. We're considering Australia next year when the baby will be around 3 months or so.....that's bonkers!!!

Good news on the scan Worm. Very glad all well.

Have a great holiday yellow. Myself, the kids and DMinL are off on our jollies tomorrow too. A week in Cyprus :).

Hope everyone else well, x

wellieboots · 29/08/2011 11:36

Hi ladies,

just checking in with my weekend update and funny story, hope everyone is having a fantastic holiday weekend Grin

Well, as you know, DH had to do his SA on Saturday, bit stressy performing to a timetable and all that so it was a bit of a nightmare Blush - they prefer you to do it at home as less stressful but you need an appointment time and it must be delivered within an hour, so it's still stressful really!!

So anyway, DH leaves the house with his jar, already 5 mins past his appointment time (about 10-15 mins drive to the clinic) and very stressed at the idea that because he's missed his slot, they might make him make another appt! So when he gets parked, he runs along the road, with the jar (in a clear plastic bag! :o), into the building up in the lift, and up to the reception, runs out of breath up to the reception desk, plonking his jar on the counter and giving his name! whereupon the embarrassed receptionist says - would you like to put that in your pocket and keep it warm while I take your details!!! OOOPS - Blush

Poor darling was so stressed he didn't even think - it did help us relax a bit though, after all the tension, when he came home and told me and I couldn't stop laughing!!

Wormshuffler · 29/08/2011 16:17

Ahh wellie that sounds exactly like. What happened in the book inconceivable by Ben elton. At least It's done now hope you get upduffed before the results come back. It's your turn next .
I am busy turning dd bedroom into a vamp/gothic cave. Apparently gingham pink is too babyish for a 12 year old so we have just been out to fetch purple satiny curtains and purple duvet set. It is looking suitably like Taylor launtner himself would fit in on person not just on the posters I have just Hung .
Hope you are all well

wombatinwaiting · 30/08/2011 13:36

Massive waves to everyone and a big helloooooooo! Back from hols on Sunday and just pottering about at home this week but can?t believe it?s taken me this long to log on and to hear so much great news!

MrsB - first off, huuuuuuuge congrats ? I will be another one rooting for the theory of starting the thread gets you the bfp so definitely your turn to start the next one wellie. So how are you feeling now mrsb? Are you quietly mentalling or loudly mentalling? As someone else said, we?re here to hold your hands every step of the way and the best advice (if you want it of course) is one day at a time. I?m pleased I had an 8 and a bit week scan this time (first m/c natural at around 7 weeks and second was mmc at around 11 with baby dated around 9) but I have to say it didn?t stop the mentalling that much?. Sending hugs and congrats ? please do keep us posted.

Also, big yay for emmabean heartbeat ? must be a quiet relief. Also great news on a good 20 week scan for you worm, well done for getting to the 10 week mark marathon and fx the next 2 weeks aren?t toooo painful and yay for team (probably) pink star.

Wanted to send big hugs to wellie - well done on you and DH keeping your SOH throughout the recent trials ? loved the sperm bank story Grin ? the boy done good! Everything tightly crossed that next month doesn?t produce the same amount of pressure. Someone once told me that a good tip is to go out for dinner and talk about sex a lot and then you both can?t wait to get back home and dtd ? hope this might help.

Dying to know how your DH got on with his bout harassed?. Hope all went well, not too stress for you and you have had a chance to have a ?discussion? since?.

Loving the sound of dd?s bedroom worm - she will be ultracool amongst her friends and hopefully some street cred points get to rub off on you too.

Well done on taking Tripoli yellow - quite an achievement for 17 weeks updiffed! Hope you are having lovely hols wherever you are.

Good to hear from you sparkly - I thought of you often while away as we have bought a number of educational wooden toys of the type you were referring to for Monty! I have also heard that the earlier you take them on planes the better. All being well, we will have a 6 hour flight from here to Italy in May so with wombatjunior being 5 months so might be able to offer some tips.

Had a truly lovely time away ? we had 3 nights in the Czech Republic, 1 in Austria and 4 in Germany, mostly around the Bavarian Alps which were just stunning ? so nice to get the fresh air and greenery that we desperately miss in the Dubai summer. Did some nice hill walking (bit breathless at times!) and for the first time in a long time, had an ice cream nearly every day of the holiday. Lots of yummy alpine fare to eat too ? loads of pork and potatoes! Wombatjunior seems to be ok although his movements seem sporadic cue mentalling from me and desperate wish he would get into some sort of more regular pattern?. Should be getting a tour of the maternity ward some time this week which will be interesting?.

Apple strudel all round for all!

Wormshuffler · 01/09/2011 08:21

Welcome home wombat I looked at your photo's they are great and you certainly visited some col places.
So it's very quiet around here........... hope everyone is ok..........
mrsb give us a wave there's a dear
Ant news on the test results wellie?

yellowtomato · 02/09/2011 04:33

Hello ladies

Having a fab holiday, phew it's hot here. Have booked a pregnancy massage for tomorrow, really looking forward to that. All this foreign food is playing havoc with my tum.

Be back next week and will catch up properly then.

wombatinwaiting · 02/09/2011 07:45

Hey worm. Thanks for the welcome back. Smile 'twas indeed a lovely break. Good to hear all good though hot with you yellow - any clues as to where you are? Or does mi5 not allow?! How's everyone else? And yes please mrsb give us a wave - you have been in my thoughts a lot. Last 2 days of hol for us so we treated ourselves to an ipad2 yesterday that I'm typing in now so apols for strange punctuation and no highlighted names!

harassedandherbug · 02/09/2011 09:55

Morning!!

Sorry, I'm so crap at posting at the moment! So tired in the evenings...... Had a few days off with dd but back in the office yesterday. That was an effort I can tell you! Although 2 day weeks rock Grin.

Wom lovely to have back and your pics were lovely!!

yellow have a good secret mission holiday! I've also got a bit of a funny tummy. There seems to be no middle road, it's either one way or the other. Tmi!!!

worm how are things??

wellie are you ok lovely??

mrsb where are you??

Oh and dh lost his boxing match! But not a complete loss, his trainer was sat with me and she couldn't call it as they were so evenly matched. I was so proud of him as it was his first proper fight at the grand old age of 36. Hi opponent was 22 and had several fights previously. It was a funny old day, the whole event was just a bit weird tbh! There was kick boxing too and so dh had to fight in a cage instead of a ring which was odd. I was sooo nervous. My heart was pounding waiting for his turn, and I thought I was going to be sick!! I filmed it on my phone, and all you can is me sounding like something out of TOWIE cheering him on Blush......

harassedandherbug · 02/09/2011 09:55

Oh and dd is convinced her daddy won because he's got a trophy. Cute!!