Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

[YourFriendBrian]

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads.

Lots of love
Brian x

lady I am crying for you :( I am so so sorry my lovely. I don't know what to say, but you're in my thoughts and prayers xxxxxx

Oh bee I'm so very very sorry. xx

Oh bee I had to delurk to say I'm thinking of you. I went through very similar circumstances recently and know how wretched you must feel

If it's any use to you I opted for the erpc but you need to come to your own decision about that one.

I'm so, so sorry for your loss xxxx

oh beewords cannot describe how devastated I feel for you. Huge enveloping hugs for you and your dh xxx

Bee its so considerate of you to worry about us, but dont worry about us, just concentrate on yourself and i really hope you recover quickly both physically and emotionally. My thoughts are with you and your family and my heart just breaks for you

I wish i was able to give you a great big hug :(

Bee as I said on the other thread I'm so sorry. I wish I could say something that would help but there are no words. Hope you find the strength to deal with this xxxx

Not sure what to say Bee apart from we're always here to share news with each other, whatever it may be. Big hugs for you and yours ((())). Times like this I could do with a . Eisberg's just not quite the same

Ladybee I'm so sorry to hear your news. I really hope they manage to find a solution.

oh lady I'm crying for you, I am so so so sorry, I have no words that will comfort you, except to say, as with Hairy we are all here for you, and will support you as much as you need and want us You and your dh and your much wanted bean will all be in my thoughts xxxx

err x-posts pink and we said the same... this has to stop!!

Ladybee, am so sorry to hear your news. Sat here with tears rolling down my face. Life can be very cruel. Thinking of you. xx

ladybee just so very sad for you

ladybee, so sad reading your post; words are not easy to find, just to say thinking of you and your loved ones right now.

Bee I am so so sorry to hear that, especially after seeing a heartbeat but even if not, like you said it's heartbreaking. Please don't worry about how to post, you have enough to deal with. I'm thinking of you both but wish I could give you a big RL hug xxxxx

ladybee so so sorry to hear your news - so unfair . Will be thinking of you x

Nix I understand and appreciate what you mean and no upset taken. I'm a bit sensitive at the moment. Do you have anything planned to take your mind off Monday?

Mummya I am very, very pleased to see you here especially after everything x

LadyBee crap and bollocks - that is just so unfair. Big big big hugs.

ladybee words fail me how life can be so cruel. I am thinking of you and your DH, and wishing I could put my arms around you and give you a big squeeze xxx

Ladybee, I am so so sorry. Just heartbroken for you. Take care, my lovely, and sending lots of hugs.

Ladybee Your post made me cry. I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling right now. I'm so, so sorry for you and your dh and thinking of you at this sad time. You'll find plenty of sympathy and support on the common room thread too if and when you feel ready. Huge hugs my lovely xx

Ah ladies, your words are like little pillows cushioning me. I just want to curl up and howl at the moment. It all feels very unfair, but if there's one thing I've learnt on mumsnet, there are always people who have it worse. I have a beautiful miracle of a son, with some time I will probably try again and with any luck will get pg again within 6 months without assistance. Then it's up to luck and maybe a few more drugs.

I think I will probably request an ERPC, I found my natural MC extraordinarily painful and distressing and I don't trust that medical will be complete given that my body seems to like to retain its pregnancies.

I've written to my boss and colleagues to let them know what has happened. Manager has always been good with previous MCs, feel like I want colleagues to know this time as it's 3rd in a year and will be another longish absence I expect.

I do wish you all the very best of luck, and will probably lurk for a bit to hope that you all make it through these terrifying times, especially those that are suffering nerve-wracking symptoms. MummyA even in my sadness I was thrilled to see you writing of the faint line. It's brilliant news and I can't tell you how much I hope it all works out for you after your long trials.

LadyBee You're too lovely to have this happen to you again. Truly gutted for you. Sending you all my love and the biggest hug.

LadyBee Howling is good - I honestly think that after my MMC I a, didn't do howling long enough b, didn't do howling loud enough.... seriously.

I had an ERPC and it was fine, sad but fine - I definitely couldn't have waited for my body to sort itself out.

Just told DH and he says that he's really sorry for you both too.

Hi LadyB thank you. I didnt want to chime in earlier about your management decision as I know its a very personal choice, but I am glad you decided on the ERPC. I had medical management with a bean about 9 weeks big and it failed and I got an infection. In my view its much more likely to be successful with smaller beans, so I really think you are doing the right thing. Hope it all goes smoothly xxx