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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 13)

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Chloe55 · 11/02/2011 16:41

This is the place to be for all those wanting to TTC after miscarriage, or have plans on TTC in the relatively near future. This thread is full of support from people who have been there and no how you are feeling so jump on board and share the Wine and chocolate (or water and celery for those of you off alcohol and caffeine Wink)

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Ask any questions that have been niggling you or that you are concerned about, perhaps someone here has experienced the same in the past.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the old thread ref:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1135533-Just-MC-and-ready-to-try-again-Pack-your-cake-wine-and-tightie-whities-and-join-us-for-more-ranting-weeping-and-most-of-all-laughing-All-welcome-Part-12

Stats to follow.

OP posts:
meliesmummy · 04/03/2011 08:56

HeeHee Chloe!

meliesmummy · 04/03/2011 09:03

I blame the phone!

shorty100 · 04/03/2011 09:37

Morning everyone and thanks for making me feel so welcome. Feeling a bit sorry for my self today as really ill, think may have a chest infection off to the doctors in a few hours. Hope everyone is well x

Collie2 · 04/03/2011 09:55

Hi all. Just popping on quickly to update. Had a nice strong line this morning on opk, stronger than the test line do ov must be coming. No temp rise though.

shorty and Brooke so sorry for your loss, this is a lovely thread. shorty Shock and Angry at your friends comment!!

Just off out day with mum so will catch up properly tonight.

cep hope your ok today.... Any more spotting?

Blackkat · 04/03/2011 09:58

Chloe PMSL again - Grin Grin

shorty hope you feel better soon

mel hope you weren't with the milkman like collie Grin Grin

Collie2 · 04/03/2011 10:00

Grin at blackkat

lily06 · 04/03/2011 10:39

Morning ladies

Welcome Brooke and Shorty, hope your stay here is short for all the right reasons. Sorry you're not feeling well today Shorty.

Well, look what I've missed - Collie busy with the milkman and Mel feeling dick !! GrinGrin

Hope you have a nice day out Collie.

Mouse I'm really sorry to hear that you've got to go back again today, thinking of you. x

Wellie Chat, us? Grin Its awful when your cycle stretches that big longer enough to make you wonder. Fx for next time for you.

Oli V impressed with your DH, mine would have a fit if I even suggested it! I think fertility friend has some info on cervix position at different times etc, might be worth a read.

Blackkat how are you today?

olismum23 · 04/03/2011 11:40

Hi ladies just a quick note to say BFN still today I will still test on Sunday, Then Tues, Then Fri, and on like this till AF of BFP turn up getting disheartened was feeling all positive with the cervix position too oh well patience is a virtue (I don't have) :( :(

brooke89 · 04/03/2011 11:51

hello ladies, thank you for all your welcomes :) Well.. ive just got back from the epu and turns out the mw who i saw on wednesday has made a few mistakes recently :S my hormones have gone down from 265 to 84 in 48 hours so no need for another blood test :) so good news for me today!

hope your all having a lovely day!

x

brooke89 · 04/03/2011 11:52

hello ladies, thank you for all your welcomes :) Well.. ive just got back from the epu and turns out the mw who i saw on wednesday has made a few mistakes recently :S my hormones have gone down from 265 to 84 in 48 hours so no need for another blood test :) so good news for me today!

hope your all having a lovely day!

x

Chloe55 · 04/03/2011 11:53

olismum do you know when you ovulated? It doesn't say on the list what cd you are on.

Well, I am only on 6dpo according to ff and have officially started POAS Grin Throw all the fish you want coz I don't care having bought 20 tests for a few quid off ebay!

I have some strange emotions going on today. Dh gave me a 'look' this morning when I asked him to leave a few quid for me to put some petrol in the car which then caused me leap out of bed and tell him go f*ck himself and the romantic night he wanted tonight Shock Not sure where the anger came from - he called me mental Sad To be fair it was a little out of the blue and totally uncalled for Blush

Then I cried on a friend whilst telling her the story about the Comic Relief program I watched last night Blush So, I have come to the decision I am either pg or about to come on!

OP posts:
meliesmummy · 04/03/2011 12:08

blackkat the milkman is WAY too expensive and our postman is really unreliable so i stuck with dh! :o plus I wouldn't want all the vitamin c we've been buying go to waste!

Sorry you're still getting bfns oli

Get well soon shorty

Glad it went well Brooke

Fingers x they're pg hormones Chloe

Looks good for ov collie

We've just got back from a lovely long walk to the playground and duckpond in the sunshine, grrr to the inconsiderate b*ards who think they can block the whole pavement with their car/van so I have to push dds pushchair out into oncoming traffic! (okay it's safe, rant over!)

olismum23 · 04/03/2011 13:03

I think Sat i cant be sure as i am on my WTF cycle but i had lots of ewcm and 2 spots of pink in mucus

shorty100 · 04/03/2011 13:15

Back from the doctors, have a throat and chest infection, poor me! Its driving me mad not knowing if i'm pregnant. Day 44 now, not that i'm counting!!

Chloe55 · 04/03/2011 13:25

Ah I don't feel as bad for POAS then olismum as I think I ovulated then too.

shorty Boo for your sore throat! The WTF cycle is a right pain in the backside, I was almost thankful when AF turned up just so I could get back to some sort of normality.

OP posts:
olismum23 · 04/03/2011 13:33

I would not feel bad Chloe i have peed on about 10 already :(

Ninunina · 04/03/2011 13:50

Olismum and Chloe, I would send a great big wet fish your way, but I'd be a massive hypocrite if I did since I POAS this morning too. I only ovulated on sat or Sunday too.

I don't know why I did it. I used an internet cheapy which only turned +ve after 1 week after cb and SD tests, so have no idea why I thought this would turn +ve after a few days.

olismum23 · 04/03/2011 13:55

OH what are we all like! Did you use ov sticks ninu? Well Im POAS again on Sunday and every couple of days thereafter I just feel like i am sound odd i know but I have to hope. Dh bought 4 asda ones yesterday they are the most sensitive i have found so if i am pregnant i should know by Tuesday :(

cep · 04/03/2011 14:12

afternoon all,

shorty sorry you're feeling unwell hope you get better soon.

brooke yay for the blood test

mel Grin that's all i'm going to say.

chloe infact one would say you have to feel dick to get pg. Grin on top form today love. definately sound hormonal to me, have you made up now?

collie yay for the strong positive. temps shouldn't go up until afterwards hon. just keep dtd.

oli sorry for the -ve this morning. as you said just try every few days until either af or bfp. 6dpo is really early, i didn't get +ve until 13dpo.

lily good to see you hon, hope you're ok.

well i'm still here. Smile no more blood during today, but some odd aches and pains in stomach which again seem to have stopped now. the weirdest thing was i had a dream last night i was still ttc and was convinced i was pg and went to loo and wiped and loads of blood and felt gutted. then woke up and got a bit of blood.

sorry if i've missed anyone.

FRIDAY'S LIST

Shorty ttc#1? cycle 1, ucl? cd44
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD26
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD25
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD25
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD24
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD23
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD22
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD18
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD18
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd18
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd17
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd17
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD14
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl28 cd13
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD11
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD10
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 10
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 6
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, ucl random cd5
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD2
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? wtf

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

cep · 04/03/2011 14:14

oh you lot. Hmm

oli the first response ones are supposed to be from 6 days before af due and they both showed neg at 11 dpo for me.

olismum23 · 04/03/2011 14:15

Cep hun have you spoke to your epu maybe they could give you a tv scan and put you at ease? xx

olismum23 · 04/03/2011 14:19

first response are 40muli and asda are 15muli make more sensitive you have to read the inside leaflet im sure they will put anything on the outside to make you buy it because i have and checked all the leaflets Grin

cep · 04/03/2011 14:34

oli i'll only be 5 weeks tomorrow so way to early to see anything. am trying to keep strong for my dr's appointment on the 21st where i'll mention the bleed and beg for a scan.

i read instructions on how to use but that was about it. Grin

am keeping fx for all of you now poas.

olismum23 · 04/03/2011 14:43

Just past i had a TV scan at 5 weeks and they saw the heartbeat etc just a thought, Doc should give you a scan anyhow. The MW up here said if i fell pg again they would give a scan at 6/7 weeks but i wouldn't then have a booking in scan at 12 weeks so i think me and Dh are just going to pay 99 pound for our early scan if god willing i am as lucky as yourself to get pregnant again. I sure everything will be fine ((hugs))

cep · 04/03/2011 15:02

oli i think part of it is that last time i had a scan just before 7 weeks saw h/beat which obviously wasn't there the next time, they reckon had stopped just after the 7 weeks date. i'm a bit scared to have a scan before the 7 weeks again, i know it sounds daft considering. You will be lucky enough, you all will be. i'm staying to see it. Smile