Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 12)

[KnitterNotTwitter]

A safe place for everyone on the TTC after MC rollercoaster. Welcome and come in - virtual wine and chocolate for all, and lots of support and hand-holding until you get your BFP!

The thread moves fast but don't let that put you off - feel free to come along and stay to chat; or dip in and out with any questions.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

For reference here's a link back to the previous thread

Latest stats to follow in a moment!

Hi Knitter and everyone. I've just been reading through your last thread and would love to join in. I mc in dec and am almost certainly ready to ttc again soon!!! A bit of moral support and inspiration would be lovely!

I'm quite new to mumsnet, only joined after my mc, so I'm still learning all the jargon..... That's my apology in advance if I'm a bit slow and for any stupid questions!! Xxx

Hello collie I thought I was all alone there Weclome to the thread, and sorry for your losses.

Lovely new thread knitter !!! Let's hope it's as lucky as the last one!

Sorry you've been having such a hard time, hope you're finding the time off work helps? I think sometimes you just need that space to think about how you can start trying to get your head around everything that's happened, especially if you didn't have time or weren't in the right frame of mind to do that at the time. Sending big (((hugs))) your way x

Welcome collie - I'm sorry for your loss, hope you're coping ok x

you must be on a real high, yay! for the 5* uterus!!! Now put your clothes back on, you'll scare off the newbies

I hereby name this thread The Poisson Of Good Fortune - bless her and all who sail in her. May she be as lucky as the last thread.

collie welcome, and sorry to hear of your loss. I too only found mn and this forum after my mc. These lovely ladies have helped enormously. Ask away, vent away, do whatever you need to do to get through this difficult time.

Izz Yep, high is the word! I keep re-reading the email just to check its still true! I am also 8DPO which is "hopeful phase" isnt it?

Knitter sounds like you are doing all the right things, I hope counselling helps you feel in a better place quicker. I had just booked some sessions myself this week, miscarriage + infertility was just getting too much to deal with and seriously affecting my relationship with DH. I am going to feel like a bit of a fraud now that I have just got the good news that I am no longer infertile but I really believe talking helps. Big hugs xxx

Welcome collie do you want to join our stats list? If so the current one is below (unless I bugger it up) so just copy and paste it and add your details :-)

THURSDAYS LIST

BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26 WTF cycle CD41?
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD34
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP!
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD33
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 32
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD30
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD25
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL24-28 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2,cycle5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD19
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD14
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD13
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD9
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD8
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD7
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD7
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle6 UCL35-38,CD5
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD3

WTTC
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2

MIA
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

RECENT BFP's
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Thanks MummyAbroad, Izzy and Emoo. I'm coping much better now, ups and downs as I'm sure you know. I've spent the last couple of weeks in the pg loss threads and found tremendous support but would like to move on to new beginings now though.

MummyA congrats on your 'clean uterus', having caught up on why that would be good news, I can understand your running around practically undressed!!

I think we are all one day ahead, no?

What's the number after ttc ?

erm... I picked up the last stats - posted yesterday... Wednesday... and added a day for Today - it being just after midnight and all...?!?

TTC is 'trying to conceive' so for example I'm trying (very hard) to conceive number 2!

Gotcha thanks. Ok will copy, add (as best can) and repost in a mo x

yeah, I think they were a day ahead by accident? (it did say Thursday) or is it just my stats? (I am CD 23 today, WED so CD24 tomorrow)

Welcome collie do you want to join our stats list? If so the current one is below (unless I bugger it up) so just copy and paste it and add your details :-)

THURSDAYS LIST

BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26 WTF cycle CD41?
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD34
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP!
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD33
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 32
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD30
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD25
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL24-28 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2,cycle5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD19
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD14
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD13
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD9
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD8
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD7
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD7
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle6 UCL35-38,CD5
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD3

WTTC
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010

MIA
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

RECENT BFP's
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Morning all!

Morning all, I missed so much! I can't hope to catch up with everyone :(

Cep I would totally do the same, I have selfishly avoided a friend with new baby over Xmas as I couldn't cope. She's quite insensitive too, so wouldn't trust her not to say all sorts of things
Dachs fx for Monday test to confirm your BFP
Mummya so glad to hear you have the all clear, must be such a relief after all this time
Wombat I wonder if from the old thread you have had your scan yet? I've always been told brown is old, I've had lots of brown goo this week, am hoping it's the last of the implantation clearing
Mouse I am so so sorry for your loss, I would agree with everyone else to get a sick note. Screw work, you're more important

Welcome to the newbies I have missed, this is a lovely thread and has got me through such difficult times

I've been so tired going back to work I've been in bed early every night. I had a top up counseling session yesterday that helped. I think I'm going to have to speak to LM about workload [nervous emoticon]
I'm now in full on paranoia and want another scan which DH says is excessive

Morning all and hello to collie. Looks like we are in the same place...I MC'd in December TTC my first.

Onwards and upwards! < wanders round the fishy new thread with a hopeful look >

morning all,

mouse am so sorry for your loss. regarding work nothing different to add from everyone else, they can't do that.if i remember correctly someone told me that if you have a med cert signing you off from work you're not covered by works insurance.

wombat you'll be fine. fx

mummya have you composed yourself now??? [bgrin]

orange it's normal to want loads of scans, especially when things haven't been plain sailing for you.

knitter i'm sorry things have been so tough for you, glad you're getting the help you need.

collie welcome, sorry you have to be here

ok another meme moment again sorry.

actually managed to have 3 straight hours sleep this morning so know my temp is correct 97.58 one of the highest on chart, when i went to the loo it wasn't proper blood
but wet like bloody urine, there was no blood in toilet. I'm only on day 21 my cycles has never been this short. have put an st on to see what happens, but has anyone had a really shortened cycle after m/c???

Morning all!

Cep - I think all sorts of strange things can happen after MC. In my WTF, I bled throughout my LP... see here but aren't you the cycle after that? I guess it could still be weird.

Back later... need to get chickie to school
x

Morning all

Lovely knew thread knitter May it be blessed with lots of bfp's

Sorry this is a post and dash, just leaving for Kent, see you at some point over the weekend.

Mouse thinking of you xxx

MOUSE can i just say i am so so sorry for your loss my lovely :( life can be so fcking cruel at times. You are in my thoughts my lovely x Please please take the time you need off work to recover, grieve and come to terms with your loss. Sod your boss...arseholes like that shouldnt be allowed to run departments.... seconding what mummy* has said they cannot use it against you. Im so sorry you have all that stress and pressure on top of everything else you are going through x

Look after yourself xx

ok. took the plunge, called the clinic, have scan on 22nd.

They've told me to test again on Monday anyway - not really given me the option to go in for a blood test or ask anything about my concerns though :(