Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 13)

[Chloe55]

This is the place to be for all those wanting to TTC after miscarriage, or have plans on TTC in the relatively near future. This thread is full of support from people who have been there and no how you are feeling so jump on board and share the and chocolate (or water and celery for those of you off alcohol and caffeine )

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Ask any questions that have been niggling you or that you are concerned about, perhaps someone here has experienced the same in the past.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the old thread ref:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1135533-Just-MC-and-ready-to-try-again-Pack-your-cake-wine-and-tightie-whities-and-join-us-for-more-ranting-weeping-and-most-of-all-laughing-All-welcome-Part-12

Stats to follow.

PMing does sound rude doesn't it!!

Mouse been thinking of you today, hope fanjocam brings positive news tomorrow ((hugs)) xx

olis try and stay calm, I thought you were going to wait until Sunday??

I'm not on FF, perhaps I should be charting, perhaps that's where I've been going wrong? I also don't have any sticks of any variety in the house, ever. Waited until I was a week late before I tested and got BFP, this isn't normal right?

Waves to everyone and chuckles again at Mumtum in her closet!

wildsheep, Laylas how are you?

Waves to ninu sorry we're always xposting! x

Forgot to send ((hugs)) to Mouse Good luck with fanjocam tomorrow. Hope you get the all clear.

Blackkat do you have a regular cycle? I never bothered with FF, Temping & Opk's before. My cycles were quite regular after coming of the pill (every 28 days), however in Nov & Dec my cycle changed to 35 days. When I had my scan they noticed that I might have PCOS, which I know I didn't have 6 months before, so that would explain the longer cycle. I've only started temping etc since MC since I don't want to miss ovulation day in case my cycle screws up again.

Yes i was going to wait till Sunday and really should have BFN :( Will wait till Sunday if it kills me!!

blackkat I think you'll find your the normal one, rather the rest of us who have an OCD compulsion to poas! I think it's a healthy choice not to temp, it's a blooming headache and I question the benefits but once you've started you're hooked!!

mumtum I am very at your stable chart! Mines all over the blooming place!

olis did you test? cep administer fish please?!
Glad to hear you'll wait til Sunday.

Ninu I have bonkers cycles, sometimes annovulatory. I do have PCOS. OPK's don't work bcs my LH levels can be all over the shop, I keep an eye on CM as that seems the best sign and also know when I feel more like DTD anyway
Just remember that bcs you have polycystic ovaries doesn't mean you've got PCOS and just bcs you've got PCOS doesn't mean you might have problems conceiving, worth getting a bit more info from your GP or gynae??

mouse so glad the service went well. and good luck for tomorrow, hope it goes as well as possible.

oli glad that you did the test previously means any new +ve is definately a new pg. hon this time of night is not the best time to test. you need to use fmu. i got a +ve with fmu 2 days after a -ve afternoon wee. i reckon you should still wait for a few days. it's only been about 3 weeks.

I'm glad people are getting the comfort they need from here.

oils I am impressed you are still waiting having sent OH out for tests! ?>

mouse so glad service went well today. good luck for tomorrow.

Collie will try to remember I'm normal

olis ceps advice sounds very good, much better than mine!

temping is addictive, but it made me feel like i was doing something to help. it took me so long to write my last post i xposted with everyone. it's whatever makes people feel better.

Thanks all its hard to wait but i think it will be the right thing to do I so impatient Fish slap well deserved sad now :(

oh hon, please don't be sad. keep dtd just to be on the safe side.

ochaye has just joined the nov 11 thread, so will need to move to recent bfps in tomorrows update.

mouse glad it went ok and good luck for tomorrow.

vegas I remember you from the Oct bus, so sorry for your loss, everyone has been so supportive on here and they are always there if you have questions or want to rant :)

Blackkat You're totally right. The scan only showed that I have PCO, not PCOS (I'm so used to researching PCOS). I've emailed my gyni and he's told me to see if my cycle returns to normal, and if it doesn't I should go and see him, but he's not too concerned since I conceived spontaniously last time.

I understand how difficult PCOS can be. My friend has a very bad case of it, even though she's a size 8 and not hairy at all.

My temp dipped again today

Collie ((hugs))

Oli Hang in there

Great news for ochaye

Ninu pleased it was only a PCO - FX the cycles resume normally.

mouse thinking of you today x

Waves to cep lili, lily, chloe, melies and everyone else

ladybee We're very sorry to hear about your loss, we are moving you because we thought that is what you would want, hope that you don't mind. Hope you're ok.

WEDNESDAY'S LIST

wellieboots cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD33
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD25
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD24
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 CD24
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD23
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD22
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD21
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD17
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD17
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 cd17
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cd16
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd16
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD13
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, ucl28 cd12
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD10
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD9
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 9
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 5
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, ucl random cd4
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

morning ladies,

ninu glad it was only a pco and not pcos.

collie don't worry hon, it could be that you're just going to ov a bit later than normal this month. It could also be that maybe you got uncovered during the night, or colder, it's all frozen down here so maybe you were colder during the night. Try and treat it as an experiment this month, so you get to learn your "normal" temp throughout the cycle. I know it's difficult, i was exactly like this my last 2 cycles. it makes you wish you'd been doing it for months even when you didn't need to. since my bfp i've stopped doing it which is really bad cause if anything happens i'll have to start all over again.

hope everyone is ok this morning.

i had my last dose of the cream last night so yay it's all done with.

Good morning.

oli well done for your patience, seriously, what's your secret?!

ninu you can email your gynae?! Wow, I wish drs round here were that easy to get hold of! I hope your pco doesn't make things more difficult for you x

blackkat you are not normal you are amazingly patient? :) I want whatever you and olis are having! I spend an absolute fortune on peesticks then wonder why they are neg!

collie :( about the temp thing, maybe cep is right tho, it was v cold last night.

cep yay for no more fanjo cream! Do you have to do a repeat swab?

Best wishes again for today mouse.

chloe how is ds's head?

My dds in nursery this morning so I'll be having time to myself cleaning and going to sainsburys. Then this afternoon I'm going to see my friend and her new baby, which I'm actually looking forward to, I haven't seen my friend for a while bcos she lives an hour away and she's been too ill to come and see me and I've been too ill to go and see her, plus I know she'll be gentle with me bcos she's been here herself.

Oh no, what sad news for ladybee It is almost unbearable having to go through it again I hate to hear these stories.

Is 5dpo too early for stick peeing???!!! Yes, I know it is so no, I won't

Xfactor was brilliant!!! The best concert I have been to and it would have been even better if there had been less of Cher involved. We had amazing seats too and were in spitting distance of the whole thing, I loved it.

mouse glad yesterday went ok for you and hope today brings you the news you are after.

Where are you all??!

Chloe I'm here for a few mins before the nursery run (got told off a few weeks ago for being late, in my defence:

1. they changed it from 1:30 to 1 after Xmas; and
2. The first week I got there at 1 and they hadn't finished lunch, I just had to sit there like a lemon waiting; and
3. No one else is there at 1!

So I'd better not be distracted by mn and face another telling off!

I just realised I made myself sound like a terrible mother who abandons her poor child at nursery, I'm not! It's an all day one so it doesn't close at 1, she's not left out on her own or anything! The morning session finishes at 1, I always got there by 1:15 and it was only bcos I felt a bit silly watching them all eat lunch from the corner! Now I've had my telling off tho I'll be there at 1 on the dot, apparently lunch has been brought forward (and btw it still costs the same even tho the session is shorter!)

When ds was at nursery they were real sticklers - if you were a minute late you got a £10 charge. When I was childminding I maybe should have took a leaf out of their book though as despite having a £5 late charge I never enforced it so people took the piss a bit. I think they thought as I was already in my own home that it didn't matter if they were 10/15minutes late but they forgot that I had a ds who wanted some 'just mummy time' before bed and a dh to prepare tea for

How can they alter the hours then not knock off any money