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We're not cheap but sore bits are on special this week.

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Fairygodmother1 · 05/02/2011 09:51

Our new home Chavettes...by starting this thread I hope it's my turn do win a baby Grin

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harassedinherpants · 05/02/2011 12:07

Worked for Lou didn't it?! My turn to thread next please.....

I was going really well with my housework and then just popped on check mn, and the rest is history lol. Just me and dd today as dh is on a boxing course, so we're off to see Tangled this afternoon Grin.

I looked into counselling and have a couple of numbers to call on Monday after work. Hard to do now I'm back at work!!! I'm off Wed-Fri though as dh is having an op.

Off to change my top... it REALLY does look chavvy lol.

Fairygodmother1 · 05/02/2011 13:34

Welcome Pants was thinking of decorating with pink pouffes???

Fingers crossed Smile

Ooh I want to see Tangled. I have also been cleaning house but now was Tudors that I plussed. Do love that show.

Embrace the chavviness!!!

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UmBongo · 05/02/2011 14:08

Oooh pink pouffes would add comfort to the pit! I hope they are frilly!

I ought to be cleaning my house - does that count?

Good luck to Mr Pants for this week, hope the op is not in the pant region! (keep the top it looks fine by the way!)

I love the new Wine I had some last night to celebrate but didn't want to waste a post on our old thread in case FairyG hadn't thought up a new name yet and we got booted out!

Fairygodmother1 · 05/02/2011 14:19

Ooh Wine and pink pouffes!!! I was thinking either faux leather or faux fur??? Grin

The Fred warming is in full flow. MN we need a Chocolate icon!!

Now on to the school work which is going really slow!!!

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notheroldie · 05/02/2011 15:48

I will come and say hello, I'm (genuinely ) wearing grey velour tracky bottoms to blend in.

Hope this is a lucky thread for all.
I won't linger, might be bad luck for me!
So good luck chavvettes.

See you in a PG thread soon!

HalleLouja · 05/02/2011 16:44

We went to see Tangled and it was fab.

I like what you have done with the park - adds more cans of diamond whites and passes round new pack of thongs to show when we bend over.

Wine Wine Wine

harassedinherpants · 05/02/2011 20:43

We thought Tangled was fab too. Also want to see Gnomeo & Juliet and Yogi Bear. I love having kids!!

Should it not be faux leather and faux fur?! Lets not ruin it by getting all tasteful ladies....

Fivealive it's on his nose/sinuses. He gets really bad polyps so they're removing those,and drilling out his sinus cavities. It's about a 4 hour op, so mid range for him. He's had 3 major ops in four years so far....

Love the thongs Lou!!

Icedlemonmuffin · 05/02/2011 22:23

Leopard print thongs and Pouffees! I like to match.

Fairy I started the first fred and have now got mini muffin so fingers crossed this is your fredSmile

Big hugs to all you ladies, sorry I mean chavs, I wish I'd had got some help after my mmc but found ranting and crying to dh really helped. He did some crying too which I had never seen him do. It will be two years on mothers day since it happened and I found last year really hard, didn't want to do anything but dd1 gets really excited.

Had a bit of a bad day today, lots of tears and snot, had bad PND with dd1 so terrified of it happening again. Dh been great again and told me it's just because I'm very tired.

I hope you don't mind me hanging around but if you do please say and I will just stalk you all instead with my fingers crossed .

Fairygodmother1 · 06/02/2011 09:02

Gnomeo & Juliet does look really good!!!

Ok I'll get both the faux fur & leather.

Pants give our love to DH! I know how horrible rubbish sinuses are. I often get sinusitis & know exactly when I'm gonna get it! Bloody horrible.

Hello Lemony Thanks for the vote of confidence. How is Cherry Muffin?
Keep chatting to us Chavs & we'll scare away any PND! Which means you have to stay!!!!

Wink
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harassedinherpants · 06/02/2011 13:45

Lemony I had pnd with both boys, but not with dd. Be aware, but it doesn't necessarily follow that you will get it. I'm into alternative therapies and have recommendations if you're feeling down.

Thanks fairy! Consultant thinks he has sinusitis 90% of the time, but that his body has got used to it. He does suffer sometimes, but doesn't moan. He says the worst bit is can't taste or smell much! Unless on mega steroids which isn't ideal.

I'm ok today as busy again, but did have a sob over Amanda Holden's terrible news Sad.

Icedlemonmuffin · 06/02/2011 15:46

Pants my dh is worried 'i will talk myself into it' because I am so worried about getting it again. Was going to start taking vit b complex and magnesium again ( it helps with my pmt) but not sure if I should because I am breastfeeding. I would be grateful for any of your alternative therapy recommendations.

Hope your dh op goes well.

Amanda Holdens news also made me cry and really grateful for my fussy mini muffin .

Fairygodmother1 · 06/02/2011 17:24

Pants I hate their weird smell that I can't describe & horrible taste I end up having.
I couldn't bring myself to read the story about Amanda Holden. Were any reasons given?

Lemony just keep talking & sharing, that sshould help Smile

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Squeshie · 06/02/2011 19:24

Hello :)

Away for a weekend and we've moved! Hope we are all okay?

Rubbish about feeling blue, and about sinusitus (I have small ear canals so have horrid probs with my sinuses, awful pain!).

Lemony I do hope you're okay, it's hard not to worry about things like that but at least you're aware of it, fairyg is right, this here pit is the best place to share and offload, you've all helped me tons!

FairyG - love the thread name, fingers crossed for a tiny one xxx

For the pit warming I offer cherry lambrini, pink fizz is ever so classy don't ya know?!

Oooh and finally on SW1 for Feb :)

harassedinherpants · 06/02/2011 19:45

Ever tried cherry lambrini and vodka?? Very yummy, but totally lethal. Tastes like pop!!Tres chavvy.

Lemony - my very best recommendation would be for Reiki. Not in Hampshire by any chance are you? Could treat you myself then. Second would be kinesiolgy, which is just the best, but can be pricey.

My dh has no sinus cavities in his forehead which just exacerbates the problems! I'm quite glad because otherwise he'd be having very major surgery to knock them into one cavity . The aim is just to minimise the time between ops now, hence the work on the size of the cavities, and he's on constant medication to try to reduce the polyps that way. He's knackered really.... lol.

Seriously, I'm terrified!! I just feel that nothings gone right: dd had flu just before and on Christmas Day, then I came down with it 2 days later (blaming this for mmc), then dh got it, on NYE our little cat was run over and killed, then just when we thought things were getting better the mmc. Can't seem to see anything good at the moment. I'm really hoping they postpone it as he's just getting over a cold, plus has a cold sore. I know I'm being daft, but totally terrified...

Sorry, another me, me, me rant Hmm.

Fairygodmother1 · 06/02/2011 19:47

Welcome home Squeshy

SW7!!!!!! Must be my record but also possibly too late in the month now to be counting! I should be due on about 13 or 14th Feb!!! Hmm

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Fairygodmother1 · 06/02/2011 19:53

I'll have one of those pants I'm game for anything to give me beer goggles the horn for Dazza

Wish I lived in Hampshire now! Reiki sound relaxing.

Big hugs, all that bad luck must be moving on by now!!!

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harassedinherpants · 06/02/2011 21:11

Lol @ sw7, go chavette!

Go and find some Reiki, it's good stuff. Can make you very emotional the first time or two though. More if you have ishoooos.

So... those of you that have had mc's, did you start swi'ing straight away or wait for first RTD. There's a post on mmc board, and I'm wondering if I've jumped the gun. Tbh birth control was something I hadn't even thought about!!!

Icedlemonmuffin · 06/02/2011 21:30

Pants I'm up north so too far away to take you up on your offer. I waited for rtd after my mmc before trying again even though doctor told me to wait 3 to 6 months. Only waited because I wasn't ready in my own head to try again.

Fairy I never ever managed 7! The most was 3 and that was a really good month for us, now my bits are sore and I can't imagine ever doing it again.

Hope you had a good weekend Squeshy.

Fairygodmother1 · 06/02/2011 21:40

Yeah my bits are sore & not from pushing!!!! It doesn't feel like we've hit the target tho!!!! As hospital is crap & metformin not exactly helping, I need to find something else to help!

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UmBongo · 07/02/2011 12:04

My hosp said just carry on swi after mmc, if I felt like I wanted too, or take a break if I wanted to. We carried on and still no bfp (do feel very pre-rtd now though) The rate we are going I will never have to worry about birth control ever again.

There was a report about more bfps the month immediately after mc than other months, but that was maybe connected to squeshies horny feeling!!!!

notheroldie · 07/02/2011 16:11

It worked for me!

After my erpc in nov, we just got on to it!
I didnt have AF so tested about a week after I thought I should be due, got a neg , tested the next wk got a BFP. So dating was hard but hey thats what scans are for!

If you're up to it go for it.

harassedinherpants · 07/02/2011 17:54

We're just going for it - what will be will be. I'm not farting around with contraception when I want to be prg!

Be back later, just cooking dinner Grin.

Fairygodmother1 · 07/02/2011 19:19

Umb I'm thinking I'll never need contraception EVER either!
My friend conceived before her RT after a stillborn!!! I don't think she'd recommend ever doing that & she was very surprised!

Well I'm a total Chav! I woke with cystitis! No. 7 must have really rubbed! lol. I aint had it in years. I've had it since being with DH!!!

You go for Pants!!!! Grin

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harassedinherpants · 08/02/2011 09:44

Well it's decided - we're just seeing what's going to happen.

I am a chav too, I've had thrush Hmm. Blaming the antib's after my infection.

I've got a stupid cold lingering in the back ground iykwim. I wish it would either go, or just come out!!

I'm not poas stick. I don't have any prg tests in the house for the first time since June....

Fairygodmother1 · 08/02/2011 19:19

Well went to dr with Cystitis as saw tiny spots of blood when I wiped this morning. Wee tested & no blood, everything normal & the infection not bad - got antib if I want to take them. See how I am tomorrow!

Asked about why I've still got EWCM this late in my cycle & he gave me gel for down there for a bacterial infection!!!! Hmm There was no examination or any discussion other than me asking!!! How helpful is that? Just wanted to know when I'm seeing the specialist next! I said that no-one has even checked if I'm ovulating & he said no they don't...NHS lottery again!!!

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