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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 10)

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youremindmeofthebaubles · 01/01/2011 18:50

Had a miscarriage and ready to try again? This is the place for you, support in the form of virtual wine, chocolate and a great big shoulder to cry on (tears not essential). The new year beckons us, lots of BFP's for everyone

UCL= Usual cycle Length
CD= cycle day

OP posts:
youremindmeofthebabe · 15/01/2011 08:59

Hola! Just me!

Sorry the beyatch got you velvet. hope you're feeling ok.

mamap I thought you were poasing this am?

dachs that's bloody fab news! yey for the eggs!

Not poasing til tomorrow. Af was due yesterday, no sign yet!

DachshundsWantPuppies · 15/01/2011 09:03

oooh yrmotb I have everything crossed - no sign of af is great! :)

mamap any poasing?

Velvetcu · 15/01/2011 09:30

Great news dachs

It would seem AF is playing hide and seek with me! Had bright red blood yesterday (whilst dtd annoyingly) lasted about an hour and absolutely nothing since. Dunno whats going on. Have also been up all night with a stomachbug so I feel shite :(

DachshundsWantPuppies · 15/01/2011 09:44

sorry you're feeling crap velvet hope you feel better soon. And I hope af stays away!

Chloe55 · 15/01/2011 10:08

Great news Dachs!

Sorry you are feeling so crappy Velvet.

Well, had my ds's school disco last night, had a really rubbish dat and they were serving wine so despite having a headache and generally feeling like pants I had 4 small glasses of wine but was strangely legless! I got dh to stop at the shop and buy more wine Blush but when I got home I ended up going straight to bed, it was 9pm! Didn't wake up til 9am this morning so I must have needed it. Woken in a foul mood though and now have to go to MILs with my crazy dog whilst dh leaves me all day with dog, ds and MIL to go on the football. Am not happy, I want a duvet day and to not be sociable Angry

Wombat33 · 15/01/2011 10:08

Whoop! For dachs! 9 fertilised is great news! Fx for good development over the weekend!

I've got my suspenders on for velvet and yrmotb!!

Morning to everyone else!

cep · 15/01/2011 10:12

Morning all.

mamap good luck in Kent

dach thats great news, fx weekend goes great for them.

yrmotb fx for you

velvet sorry it's not sorting itself out. and that af stays gone.

Hi to everyone else. hope you're all ok.
off to get dss.

OrangeGloss · 15/01/2011 11:01

Morning all, sorry for being so lame at catching up, and even this is a half assed attempt [guilty emoticon]

Dachs that's awesome news!! And like you said the embryologist was happy and they're normally truthful whether you like it or not aren't they?
Velvet could be implantation?? Ooh I do hope so
Chloe don't think I've said hello, sorry you've needed to find yourself here, but these ladies are truly amazing, and you will find lots of support. Sucks you have to go out, could you have tomorrow at home and have that to look forward to?
Wombat I'm glad you're making some headway with tests, it's a good positive place to be. I hope you're puking in no time Wink Grin

So, who's POAS-ing?? who else was there? YRMOTB fx for you tomorrow

Thanks for the positivity last night, I felt better for just writing something. Promptly followed by bawling to poor dh, which cleared my mind a bit, and I'm back to attempted positivity Grin remembering how lucky I am to have a 10-20% chance of it continuing. Dh is attempting to get me to leave the house for a bit today Hmm said if he drives me to the cinema I'll consider it

BackOnceAgain · 15/01/2011 11:44

I'm out!! AF arrived this morning, bang on day 28. Obviously no surprise after my bitchy emotional day yesterday. Good luck to Mama YRMOTB Pink

velvet hope you find out what's going on soon

Mummya HP just means health professional. Sorry for confusion Smile

AndR glad you are ok in Oz

Pink Ahh well the 'liver' thing would still make sense for me as have had rubbish lifestyle/diet this month too etc too!

dachs wahooo, sounds v v v promising Smile

Waves at everyone else Smile

Right off to get my head round temping!!! Wish me luck

BackOnceAgain · 15/01/2011 11:50

Saturday's List

youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD33
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL28-32 CD29
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD28
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD28
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD27
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD26
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD26
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD25
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD23
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD21
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD21
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD19
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 19
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD19
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD18
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD16
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD12
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL24-28 CD9
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD6
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD1

WTTC
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28

RECENT BFP's
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5 BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle BFP!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 BFP!!

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

BackOnceAgain · 15/01/2011 11:51

(And PS Mummya that video really did make me smile!! thank you)

Chloe55 · 15/01/2011 11:53

BOA - sorry to hear AF arrived Sad

Orange - ooh cinema, now that I could do today. As it happens I have told dh I am not going to MILs so the dog and I are going to get our duvet day at home. He has also walked her for 2 hours today so she might even cuddle up on the sofa and not be so crazy! Grin

Emoo · 15/01/2011 12:32

Happy Saturday everyone!

I am in limbo at the moment, unsure if ov'd or not, seem to have a very slow temp rise on my chart but it was all stuffed up this morning because I had a nightmare, woke up and temped 2 hours too early, then eventually went back to sleep and next temped 1 hour too late. CM signs not helping as unsure if CM proper or leftover manjuice (sorry TMI). Wondering if I should try to jump on DH again today, but could be quite difficult as we are out tonight and likely to be back home late.

Chloe - hope your doggie remains nice and calm and you get your duvet day.

BOA - boooo hisss to AF arriving. I hope your luck is better next month.

Orange - cinema sounds a good plan to take your mind of obsessing, and I hope you are managing to keep those +++++++ feelings going

Velvet - oooh that sounds all really confusing, and sorry you feel so shite. Fingers crossed for you.

Dachs - fab news - well done! I like the sod's law argument.

Ladybee - that's it, one day at a time, each day is an achievement, and gets you that one step closer to where you want to be.

DaddysGirl - symptoms sound reassuring for you, but what a silly thing for your MW to say about forgetting you're pregnant. As if.

MamaP - hope you have a fantastic day in Kent and find what you are looking for.

A&R - glad you are safe and dry. Have fun!

Izzy - thanks for the positive vibes, and glad you enjoyed your acupuncture.

MummyA - you really do come out with some very profound and accurate stuff - I am increasingly knowing what you mean about others thinking I should be getting back to normal, when to be honest, I'm not sure I'll ever be completely back to normal.

Wombat and Jiggle - I also had lots of afterpains after MC (9 weeks), and far more than I remember having after DD (although I guess I had more on my mind after giving birth so may have paid less attention to them). I remember that being one of the particularly galling things about the MC, because every time I got a twinge it reminded me of it.

Nix - hope your family are not feeling too rough after flu jabs, and that DS coped.

Loola - triphasic chart???

ochaye · 15/01/2011 13:13

Brilliant news Dachs - you must be so relieved. Will hope and pray for good news on Monday too.

Have put my suspenders on for all those testing despite them being mega uncomfortable ... see how much I love you?

Sounds promising YRMOTB and velvet too despite initial thoughts.

Sorry for those af got ... next cycle here we come!

It got a positive opk today. Am irrationally excited about my body trying to do something properly.

Mamapower · 15/01/2011 13:24

Hi ladies, we're still house hunting but I just couldn't keep you in suspenders any longer... Yes I poas.... Was it a yes? Was it a no, such a tease!!!! It was ........... A BFP! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin I can't stop smiling Grin Grin catch you all tonight xxxx

Velvetcu · 15/01/2011 13:27

Congrats mamap what a great week for you!!

youremindmeofthebabe · 15/01/2011 13:39

Woohoo mamap That's absolutely fabulous!

Yey! GrinGrinGrin

Chloe55 · 15/01/2011 13:41

Fabulous news Mamap!!!!!!!! Grin

cep · 15/01/2011 13:51

mamap that's fantastic news. So pleased for you. Grin just cheered really loud and had everyone looking at me. :)

MummyAbroad · 15/01/2011 13:57

M GrinA GrinM GrinA GrinP Grin Your husband is psychic!!! SO pleased for you sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!

BackOnceAgain · 15/01/2011 13:58

YAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!! MAMAP [GRIN] [GRIN] [GRIN]

Wombat33 · 15/01/2011 14:03

mamap!!! YEY!!! Grin Grin Grin so DH was right!! Congratulations xxx

Emoo · 15/01/2011 14:09

Congrats mamap !!!!!!!! Grin Your week has got better and better! Hope the rest of your day is as successful.

Emoo · 15/01/2011 14:11

Erm, Aussies, no, erm sussies!!! Aaaaargggghhh

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 15/01/2011 14:36

Woo-hoo!!!! Fantastic news mamap !!!! Grin Grin Grin