Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 10)

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Had a miscarriage and ready to try again? This is the place for you, support in the form of virtual wine, chocolate and a great big shoulder to cry on (tears not essential). The new year beckons us, lots of BFP's for everyone

UCL= Usual cycle Length
CD= cycle day

Thanks for the kind words and advice. I'm feeling ever so slightly less freaked out and just a bit numb. I have a scan booked for Monday, and both EPU and Dr said wait for that. By Mondays scan just gone I'm around 5 weeks. The way the pain and blood just came it really scared me I thought I was MC, I even rang DH and told him to come home to take me to hospital but now it's going. Weird

I don't know what I'd do without you all

Oh my goodness completely missed a squillion posts including orange and barrenbrook and lottie - am so thrilled to hear your news but I think I will need a little lie-down after reading about all that bleeding.
Amazing. And congratulations.

So I'm just going to be over here - under the duvet in the corner for a bit.

Lottie huge congratumulations!! WOW! Awesome news. You did make me laugh the last time you popped in You have reassured me also... so thankyou for that!

bee i cannot eat chocolate...... of all the things to not want to eat, my most favouritist thing in the world! Tis real hon, just a shame the docs are gonna stress you out for a day or two when you should have feet up !!

orange lovely.. having a bfp is fantastic, but it is terrifying, never going to be easy after suffering a loss, then having bleeding :( Nothing anyone is going to say is going to reassure you, but do try to relax and put your feet up, if you can xx

oooooo, lottiecrumpet! How fantabulous! Congratulations love x

hello everyone was just wondering if i could join. I had my mc beginning of dec and am now waiting for my af so i can start again. so no idea of my stats at the moment. Am getting a bit annoyed as af seems to be teasing me getting the odd wipe but then nothing just want to get it out of the b**y way (no pun intended) so i can start.

Thank you Lottie and nice to meet you :) and congrats!

I think it's the pain that worried me, but as you said Nix you had pain too?

Ladybee I'm sorry in my pit of despair I haven't congratulated you it's good to be getting such good news at the moment. Sorry if my bleeding is scary, not what you want to hear on the day you get a BFP

OMG! the BFPs just keep rolling, I hope this is a sign Huuuuuuge Congratulations lottie

Welcome cep sorry you are here. The wtf cyclye is a real pain, it'll all go back to normal(ish) soon.

Whoo hoo!! Congrats Lottie!!!

And welcome Cep. I'm so sorry you find yourself here but really hope your stay will be short - BFP's seem to be catching on this thread at the moment

I?m trying a new tactic ? writing my update in a doc and transferring it over when I get to the end of the thread. Think I?m going to like this .

I don?t have a strong opinion on the list but am LOVING the list banter. Hello to the oldies too ? it?s nice to meet you. You must be very proud of setting up such a supportive thread. I?m so happy to have found these lovely ladies.

Lovely news from Bee and Pretty. How exciting to be starting on that roller coaster again. I?m hoping for nothing but ups for you both (realistically there will be worries but NO downs please!). I?ve given up all hope of a bfp this cycle having done some reading, but will probably continue with my mission anyway.

orange - hope you?re doing ok hun. It still could be nothing and on the plus side, now you?re already in the system, hopefully there won?t be delays getting ongoing checks. I hope you?re not feeling like you don?t fit in because you can?t keep up or comment on everyone else?s posts? You?re going through some really difficult stuff right now and the important thing is that if you find it helpful to post what?s happening and get responses, then please keep doing that. Nobody expects you to be worrying about them right now.

Hello there cep. You?re so patient waiting for AF to arrive. I wish I had that quality.

Hello lottie and congratulations ... I love how you snuck in and out. Hope you?re starting to feel a bit more confident now.

Thanks for the choc offer nix but it really is the LAST thing I need right now so I'll politely decline and stick to my carrot juice .

thanks mama i hope so.
Hey wombat i remember you from before, i'm glad to see you're doing so well.

cep welcome sad you have to be here but as you can see its a very busy, positive place. even with a messy list!! Hope you are doing ok x

Rack em and stack em bfps i think......

Wow congrats lottie what fab news!!

Welcome cep I'm sorry for your loss but it seems you've come at the right time...

I completely forgot how quick this thread goes. Phew.

How amazingly good things seem to be happening too.

Orange hope everything is ok, definitely vouch for the other advice on here and fx for you.

Ladybee and lottie Waaaahoooo! Fabulous

welcome cep its fast and friendly over here, sorry you had to come at all.

Nickster wow yes we were mc buddies, doesn't seem like half a year ago nearly!! Madness.

Dachs fx for your next scan

Waves at MummyA and everyone else i haven't tagged.

hello and welcome cep I am very sorry for your loss. Hope this welcome pack helps

lottie congratulations! Thanks for coming back to give us good news Our grads list is gonna be huge!!!!

and talking of lists - I want in!! After AAAAAGES on the WTTC list I am back in the game! Just had my coil out - all post AS surgery treatment is finished. I can officially TTC! I am still going to send of my scan pics to the specialist in London to see what he thinks of my endometrium - local doc here says it looks fine.

cep I will put you in Waiting TTC if that is alright? and if you havent seen this already, you might find it useful
www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm
www.pregnancyloss.info/trying_again.htm

adding me and cep

Wednesdays list

HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD25
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD24
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD23
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD23
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD18
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 1 UCL28-34 CD18
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD17
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD16
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD15
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD11
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD9
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 9
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD8
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD6
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD2

WTTC
Cep MC#1 Dec 2010
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL26
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28 GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 UCL 27 - 44

RECENT BFP's

Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5 BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!

RECENT GRADUATES

BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Have moved lottiecrump!

Nice and tidy list!

Wednesdays list

HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD25
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD24
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD23
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD23
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD18
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 1 UCL28-34 CD18
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD17
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD16
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD15
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD11
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD9
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 9
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD8
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD6
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD2

WTTC
Cep MC#1 Dec 2010
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL26
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28 GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 UCL 27 - 44

RECENT BFP's

Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5 BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!

RECENT GRADUATES

BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Lottiecrump BFP September 2010

Nice one Nix! looks great

thanks everyone for the welcome, and thanks mummyA for the pressie and putting me on the list, i was looking at it and was a bit overwhelmed. Just about to click on the link.

It's funny i've never more wanted a bleed in my life.

mummyA Thanks for the link, not sure if i'm a bit calmer or a bit more scared. :)

MummyA fab news that you are back in the game. Come on!!

Nickster lovely tidy up,neat and to the point. Perhaps I should do the same to my ladygarden make it more enticing for dh hahaha

(and yes, I opened the wine.....)

firstly v v v v remiss of me, Ladybee whoop whoop whoop my love. And to the other recent BFPs too, many congrats you bastards.

secondly apart from a missing BFP date for Littlemiss and an evening up of exclamation marks required on the BFP list, my irritating pedantic but oh so satisfying work on list reform is done. Well done!

Muchos lovos peeps. x

ooh sorry cep I had hoped it would be calming!

How is your recovery going? Has bleeding stopped for 20 days or more? Have you done a home pregnancy test yet to check all the pregnancy hormones have left your body and you are starting to cycle normally again? How many weeks has it been since your mc/erpc?

Hope AF shows up quickly, I know exactly how horrid the waiting is.

@ ladygarden

Can you pass some of that wine over this way?