Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 10)

[youremindmeofthebaubles]

Had a miscarriage and ready to try again? This is the place for you, support in the form of virtual wine, chocolate and a great big shoulder to cry on (tears not essential). The new year beckons us, lots of BFP's for everyone

UCL= Usual cycle Length
CD= cycle day

LADYB!!!!!!!! I knew it!! Brilliant Brilliant news!! I guess it took having your plan in action with the consultant to make you get pregnant! Very very happy for you after all you've been through!

Big Congrats to Pretty too! Glad to hear you are getting the best of care and monitoring too.

Dach So, if they grew faster at first, then had a slow spurt, does that mean they are growing at about the same time rate overall as last time? Glad DH is doing the right thing, can you send him over to have a word with mine?

I am another one who got it in the neck for listjiggling (even though it wasnt me who suggested it!!!) so I'll just keep quiet...

Just another oldie poking her head in to say massive congrats to ladybee, owl and my girl pretty. Am still here waiting patiently for my turn

Waves to jolls liking the new improved look lovely! And a big hellloooo to those of you that remember me!

Thought I might have a go with the list? deleting a couple of MIA's that I haven't seen since my arrival in May/June and re-ordering. And adding a special recent BFP's section for all our lovely ladies who have BFP's (wooohooo) but aren't ready to grad yet? All to stop jollster's teeth itching

All complaints within an hour, or I'm doing it anyway!

Nice to see you all, BB jolls and Cariboumoo.

well teeth itching is a nasty complaint! ;)

I have no complaints yrmotb

(I'm beginning to feel like the old lady of the thread now absolutely everyone except me seems to be graduating!)

no no dont do it... YRM only joking!!!

NOW... NO SQUABBLING children.....

dachs you could be graduating this month if your ovaries behave

nice to see some oldies popping back xx

yrmotb just do it!!! I hope everyone knows that's it's an open door here anyway so they can always hop back on.

I've been here since July so also starting to feel like a left-behind oldie (if that helps dachs !) but I'm sure there are some names I've hardly seen...

dachs sorry the scan wasn't more positive, but everythings going in the right direction, fx the higher dose will help x

Hi sorry for selfish post and no catchup (again), I just got the blood results, had doubled which is good. But then I had a weird pain like I needed the loo but all around below if you know what I mean? Since then I've had red blood. It seems to be stopping, and the pain is getting better but I'm pretty shaken. Surely this doesn't look good :(

I'd like to come off the list whoever's redoing it, i don't feel like having a BFP when I think I'm on the brink of losing it :(

Wednesdays list

HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD25
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD24
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD23
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD23
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD18
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 1 UCL28-34 CD18
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD17
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD16
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD15
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD11
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD9
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD8
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD6

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL26
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28 GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 UCL 27 - 44

RECENT BFP's

Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD41 BFP!!!
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!

RECENT GRADUATES

BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Right, I hope I haven't offended anyone. Especially freezing and getdown who I am sure I see around, but don't think I've seen here for a while...

Me too izz and daschs, but don't worry, we SHALL get there!

Oh bugger sorry orange Xpost.

Doubled HCG is good though, and blood isn;'t always a bad sign. Are they seeing you again?

Lovely to see Jolls and Moo and BB :)

Wednesdays list

Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD41
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD25
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD24
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD23
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD23
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD18
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 1 UCL28-34 CD18
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD17
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD16
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD15
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD11
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD9
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD8
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD6

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL26
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28 GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 UCL 27 - 44

RECENT BFP's

Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5 BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!

RECENT GRADUATES

BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Have I got that right?

(((hugs))) for Orange - doubling sounds promising, but clearly is worrying for you having the bleeding. When is your next appointment/scan? Fingers crossed for you sweetheart.

If you would like to be taken out of the BFP section, where would you like to go instead? I was thinking of listjiggling myself to the TTC section. I'm TTC even if DH isn't! If anyone else beats me to it, the info is:
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD9

Aaaargh x-posts!

Wednesdays list

Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD41
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD25
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD24
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD23
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD23
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD18
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 1 UCL28-34 CD18
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD17
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD16
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD15
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD11
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD9
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 9
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD8
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD6

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL26
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28 GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 UCL 27 - 44

RECENT BFP's

Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5 BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!

RECENT GRADUATES

BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

orange fab that youre getting the doubling hcg levels, which is exactly what you need. Can they get you in for another scan, seeing as you are having sharp pain and blood loss? I was getting a lot of cramping at that time, at the same time as the brown loss. It could still be burrowing lovely, Is it coming and going? (((hugs)))

My scan's on Monday. The Dr didn't seem overly bothered as the bleeding and pain is stopping. He said it might be my cervix is still sensitive from erpc. It just came on out of nowhere i really thought it was the start of a MC :( DH reckons it was because it was the first time I had relaxed that my muscles went weird

Sorry to be a bother but could I just not be anywhere on the list at the moment and just be left off? I dont feel like i fit in. Next time, doesn't have to be now

orange sorry to hear you are feeling so freaked out. The doubling really is fantastic news, its not just a "good sign" it really means that your pregnancy is progressing totally normally. Obviously you are going to worry that things could still go wrong at any point, we all would after what we have been through, but RIGHT NOW everything is OK.

Hope you get a scan date soon to give you the reassurance you need. How many weeks are you? Would you consider getting a private scan done?

No need to apologies for selfish posting, Come on here and post as much as you like, we are all here for you. xxx

Wednesdays list

HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD25
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD24
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD23
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD23
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD18
BackOnceAgain TTC#3,Cycle 1 UCL28-34 CD18
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 40, CD17
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD16
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD15
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 6 UCL 24-30 CD11
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD9
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD 9
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD9
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 (but WTF cycle only 2 weeks long, so maybe it's only cycle 1 really?) UCL28, CD8
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD6

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle

MIA

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Getawiggleon TTC#2, UCL26
RunForTheHills TTC#1, UCL28
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 UCL28 GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 UCL 27 - 44

RECENT BFP's

Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 BFP!!
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27 BFP!!
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5 BFP!!
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30 BFP!!!!

RECENT GRADUATES

BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Hooragh, lovely tidy list, well done all (I feared another lashing so t'was great Jolls suggested and thanks YRMOTB for kicking us off).

I remember you BB one of the first to welcome me ages and ages ago!

How r u getting on missey?

Oh it's lovely that some of the original gang that started this are popping back or perhaps, BB (on the wttc list at the mo)/ Jolls (not on any list) even re-joining the ttc list???

(((( orange )))) big hugs, chica, you must be frightened x I know it's scary but bleeding isn't necessarily a problem (hard to believe at the time though I know!). How far along are you? Sometimes you get breakthrough bleeding around time you would normally have af - could it be that?

I think I remember you saying you had booked an appointment - when is that? Any chance you could bring it forward if it's not in next couple of days? xxx

X-posts; I see it's Monday. If you're completely freaked out you could look into going private sooner, but at the early stages an extra day or two can make a big difference in terms of what you can see and to put your mind at rest.

Also, as everyone says, the hcg doubling is brilliant x

Big hugs for Orange I second what Mummya says (she's otherwise known as the oracle around these parts!), doubling HCG is a REALLY good sign. Lots of women have bleeding and their pgs progress fine. I know it's really scary, especially given your history, but I'm keeping everything crossed that you're one of the lucky ones xxx

orange just to mention, you can go directly to EPU and you dont have to go via your gp if you feel s/he isnt being as helpful as s/he could be. MW will ask normally 3 questions and get you in for a scan asap. Im sure you know this already, sorry for repeatingx XXX

Hello BarrenBrook I remember you too I have been here since June. Perhaps we need an "oldies" section (joke - the new list is lovely)

Ladybee absolutely fantastic news. Wooopwoooop lovely!!!
take it easy!!

Love the shiny new list and thanks to YROTB and Jollster for initiating

Owl fab news for you too dear. :-)

Thanks for all your comments about DH and his lack of sensitivity about due date. Suppose that really just is men. Sounds as if you lot have the same problem so thats a bit comforting.

Feeling like a lazy cow today. Went to ikea, diy store and now having a bit of a migraine. Will chillax on the sofa.
No SWI today. I even forgot to take my temp today but its only day 9 so not all is lost.

bye for now

Hello,

Like Mr Benn I am magically appearing seemingly out of nowhere. Can I just stick my oar in ....

Firstly to those with BFPs that remember me (and those that don't) - huge congrats - wahoo!

And to those still waiting, good luck - keep positive. The rash of BFPs recently are fantastically uplifting.

The reason I've been MIA is because I got a BFP and then freaked out and daren't jinx it by talking as was too terrified (even to come on here) but am now 13+2.

Which brings me on to thirdly. Orange , I don't think we've met so 'hello'. I know that you can Google and/or (probably both) and find stories about 1st trimester bleeding which result in good and bad outcomes. Having literally just come through the first 12 weeks I wanted to say that I had two lots of bleeding and so up to this point have had 4 (yes 4) scans. I had red bleeding at 6 weeks (was scanned) with continuous brown spotting up until 7 weeks when then another heavier red bleed and lost a small clot and so was scanned again. At the second scan, the sonographer said she couldn't really see why by could see a dark patch which was more blood and so 'wouldn't be surprised' if I bled again. Though there was no inference I took this to mean 'you've been here twice in a week, if you bleed again please don't panic, just stay calm . . .and at home'!

When I asked why there was blood/I had bled she said that it could be blood hanging around from implantation and/or that early on when the bean is getting settled in and things are moving/stretching/growing some women bleed a little internally. She said that it's akin to some people bruising easily and others not. She also said to try and stay calm and not over-worry (uh-huh, swimming against the tide.
You've probably read similar stories elsewhere but having been lurking for a while I hoped that my recent first hand experience might at least be empathetic if not a little assuring.
Hope you don't mind.

Waves and quietly leaves again.

Hi again - gawd having you all celebrating is lovely but it sure does make it feel real. I think I've gone back to sit and stare at the stick 20x today.
I called consultant secretary and it seems a bit of hoop jumping is required. Because he only wrote the medication in the letter, not the needing a scan to confirm secretary said I need to referred by gp. Gp isn't there today so have to book a phone consult for tomorrow to get a quick referral to epu for scan and letter to consultant. And around in circles I go @@@

Anyway just goes to show all types of charts can lead to a bfp - mine wasn't jaggedy at all. I did:

• sex day before ov dip and day of ovulation.
• b complex vits
• a few glasses of grapefruit juice pre-ov, and a few glasses of pineapple juice after
• progesterone cream after ov
• drank wine, gin, champagne etc throughout cycle
• lots of chocolate, cake and coffee although mostly decaf as went thru hell cutting caffiene and don't fancy those headaches again
• no cbfm this cycle
• charted as normal
• metformin

I had my usual AF symptoms but was hoping I was heading for bfp and not straitjacket after welling up during peppa pig, and at 3d narnia

Lovely to see you moof, clareanna jolls