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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 9)

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DachshundAntlersRule · 30/11/2010 19:10

Had an mc and need some wine, chocolate and somewhere to moan and cry? This is the place to be! We chat a LOT so it can be hard to keep up, but everyone on here is great and will hold your hand until you get your BFP.

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HidingUnderTheTreeWithSanta · 05/12/2010 12:58

Hi ladies Xmas Grin

Just a quick check in today.

Good luck tomorrow inbetweener, we will all be thinking off you.

Big hugs to everyone who is feeling a bit down at the moment Sad

My temps look like they are starting to rise which is ace as have had loads and loads of swi over the past few days so hopefully have caught the ov. If not then really there is no more I could have done Wink

see you laters peeps

MummyBellsAllTheWay · 05/12/2010 14:28

Hi everyone,

I am back in Costa Rica, unfortunately by luggage isnt....grrr.

Just read back to see that many of you are feeling low. I wish I could magic away all those feelings for you! Its all so very unfair that we should have to suffer any of this. Lets just hope that is true what they say about what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Very lovely poem mouse I think I will print a copy too.

In gusset news...I can happily report ...I got my period on Friday!

Its my first period since Dec 2009, and has finally arrived after: mc in March, 7 rounds of medicaly management in April,diagnosis of PCOS, retained tissue discovered, infection and high fever, and 4 days of self injecting antibiotics, PCOS undiagnosed and manual suction of tissues performed, diganosis of molar pregnancy in June, ERPC in July, undiagnosis of molar, CAT scan for pulmonary embolism in Sepetember, PE undiagnosed, failed hSG exam, lack of periods unexplained, SELF diagnosis of Ashermans Syndrome in October, hysteroscopy in London with Dr Lower, coil fitted and 2 weeks of high dose HRT.

and now I am finally fertile again!!! (or will be when I have finished the HRT and coil is out)

turkey if you are still reading, just wanted to add that my DH was adamant that he didnt want us to try for another after the mc, he has however since done a big u-turn and is now fully on board. Sometimes people change their minds, I would let him know how you feel and what you want and then give him some time and space to think it over. Hope you are OK xxx

Velvetstocking · 05/12/2010 15:00

Woohooo for your period Mummy I'm sooo pleased for! When are you able to ttc again?

fx for you tomorrow inbetweener

CaribouMoo · 05/12/2010 15:02

Hurrah Mummy - I've been waiting to hear you say that for months!! x

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 05/12/2010 15:13

Yeah mummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IzzyWizzyletsgetChristmassy · 05/12/2010 15:31

Woohoo mummybells !!! Hurray for AF!!!!! (that sounds weird!)

welcome back to the ttc rollercoaster - it's been a hell of a year for you, fx you get some good news soon x

DontEatOrangeSnow · 05/12/2010 15:32

Afternoon everyone, it was only when I came to catch up that I realized I had posted on the wrong thread Xmas Blush

awesome news mummy !!

inbetweener my fx for you for tomorrow

DH went yesterday so that's it for this month. It seems I probably did OV on CD14 but am still testing just in case. If not, I'm already part way through my 2ww Xmas Grin am now actually a but scared to test, I don't want the disappointment :(

HidingUnderTheTreeWithSanta · 05/12/2010 17:22

Hurrah for Mummy. It is great to have some good news Grin

MamaChristmas · 05/12/2010 17:39

Hey all just a quick post... (F'ing landlord pulled out, on fri eve, from selling us the pub and would you believe it, we sold our house yesterday morning so the pressure is well and truly on to find a new pub to convert, we have been trawling websites non-stop today to come up with a suitable short-list, Im exhausted!)

Hey Mummy Big up for the the arrival of AF and that is the very last cheer you shall get out of me for her arrival, all future showing of the red devil shall hence forth receive a big fat boo!!! Xmas Grin

Inbetweener fx for tomorrow

Dachshing good luck at the clinic tomorrow and fx crossed for the promise of another IVF cycle really soon, be thinking of you chiccadee xx

IzzyWizzyletsgetChristmassy · 05/12/2010 18:22

I knew someone else had an appointment tomorrow -best of luck dachs ! I will be keeping my fx for you and inbetweener

mamac sounds stressful re the pub - it's horrible when people pull out/change their mind like that Sad. Hope it works out soon

DontEatOrangeSnow · 05/12/2010 19:38

mamaC what bad timing, have you seen anywhere else yet?

dachs I missed that you had app tomorrow, I hope it goes well

I also missed your post hiding, fx for high temps. Wish I'd temped now

mousebacon · 05/12/2010 20:37

Good luck inbetweener and dachs hope tomorrow goes really well for you both.

Pleased you like the poem, think it will always bring a tear to my eye.

Still haven't told DH [proud] Still no amazon delivery Angry

But, did fall asleep at 4pm for two hours! Possible symptom?!

Happy Sunday - x factor for me Xmas Smile

dAncerandRudolfsMum · 05/12/2010 21:28

So much happening!!! Yipeeeeeeee MummyAbroadAgain. What a fab Christmas present!

MamaC bummer re sale falling through - good news you sold quickly.

Good luck at your appointments tomorrow Dachs and Inbetweener

Well done Orange for timing your ov so conveniently for your dh work schedule!

Nix I never have any real symptoms before 6 weeks. Hope Ds is feeling better. My DMum always put camomile lotion in the bath which I did with my DDs as they weren't buying the whole dab it on thing ESP DD2 who had them all up her bits Xmas Sad

Nothing much happening here!

MrsB33 · 05/12/2010 22:16

ahhhh mummy thats fab news!!! All that effort will be worth it all in a few months when u get your bfp.

Well ladies, i tested tonight and i got my first ever ov line!!! Whoop whoop....
Hopefully all the humping this weekend and the next few days will be worth it, im bloody knackered!!!!

Dach and inbetweener good luck for tomorrow, looking forward to hearing some good news on this thread very soon ladies. X

LadybeenKissingSantaClaus · 05/12/2010 22:21

MummyBackAbroad if there is any justice in this world you will get one round of disappointment and then a nice fat BFP. You need one cycle to make sure everything is back in working order. Otherwise you'll worry again, but just one please. Grin Really pleased for you.

Can I just say I hate my chart. It drives me nuts. I like the ovulation confirmation it gives me, but the tww is hard enough without being thrust into the pit of despair with every temp dip. I wish I had a nice steady LP. But I don't, I go up and down like a yoyo. Here:

LadyBee's Chart

I have the usual symptoms, sore-ish boobs, can manage to convince myself I feel rubbish in the mornings. So frustrating to know that none of this means a tin of beans. Oh well, FF is counting me down already, clearly she/he/it has no faith.

MummyBellsAllTheWay · 06/12/2010 01:25

thanks for all your support ladies Xmas Smile

LadyB my word, that is a white knuckle ride LP! I dont envy your 2WW at all. Mind you, if you want the glass half full spin, day 20 looks like a classic implantation dip...probably should have whispered that, but I feel like maybe if I say it blankly I might make it be true Xmas Grin

I still have one more cycle of "practice" before I can get back in the game, I have to leave the coil in and take HRT for 4 more weeks. I think I will probably book an HSG as well just for added piece of mind, then after that I will put myself on the list. In the meantime there is christmas drinking to be done Xmas Grin

Dach and Inbetweener will be thinking of you too tommorrow, very best of luck for your appointments xxx

cheers!

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 06/12/2010 07:32

dachs good luck for today, hope goes well and the hospital play ball x

lady ooh resembles mine a little..so you never know!!

mamc* never rains but it pours... its usually the other way round! Buyer pulls out! You have done the hard bit in terms of selling house and getting full ap, which is incredible Xmas Grin but how disappointing Xmas Sad...oh i do hope you find something even better xxxxxx could you move into rented for a short while whilst you search? Sorry its not gone to plan lovely x

I am very tired today... spots!! Hes ok, just night times he struggles with. On a plus DH and I went to see War of the Worlds stage/musical production last night and its not really my thing, but it was INCREDIBLE! Totally! I bought the tickets for DH christmas last year, and went to see in Manchester last night. WOW is all i can say Xmas Grin Xmas Grin Xmas Grin

Have a good day folks xxxx

DachshingThroTheSnow · 06/12/2010 08:29

Thanks for all the good wishes people! Appointment is at 10.30, so hopefully I will be back later to post that I can have another go on my next cycle. Otherwise I'll be crushingly disappointed because I'm far too busy at work in Feb - April to have a go then so I wouldn't be able to have another gor for about 6 months if I can do it Dec/Jan...

Good luck for all you people on the 2ww. FX for all of you.

great news mummy

mamac FX you find a lovely new pub that is even better than the one you were going to buy.

DachshingThroTheSnow · 06/12/2010 08:31

inbetweener Hope the scan goes well and that you see a nice little heartbeat.

orestyemerrywombat · 06/12/2010 09:14

Quick one from the train to say GOOD LUCK to Dachs and Inbetweener today!

FAB news mummya! So thrilled for you!

mamac argh about the business! What a nightmare. Hope you find a replacement and better pub soon x

Hello to everyone else!

The old witch got me on saturday so I'm now on cd3 again. Ho hum. Had a lovely weekend so not feeling too down in the dumps about it today. Thanks for all your support last week x

youremindmeofthebaubles · 06/12/2010 10:45

Ooh, hello!

Good luck for today to dachshing and inbetweener.

A massive Woop for mummya! That's really fab news for you. So chuffed!

mamac comiserations, will it be really difficult to find another pub, did you have your heart set on that one?

Oh clever ones, how do I post my chart? I like it and want to share it with you guys as theres nobody else who wont think im mental Xmas Grin

nix how's the chickenpox going? Hope he's feeling a little better. If I remember correctly the worst is over in a week. How arfe you feeling?

I have an infected fingerXmas Hmm how random. I got a papercut last week, and now its all white and red and hot and sore! owww. I need to go get some antibiotics, but are they ok in 2ww?

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 06/12/2010 11:28

baublebabe go to chart, go to sharing, then select something about home page, copy the link then add it on here i think!!

orestyemerrywombat · 06/12/2010 11:34

MONDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD45
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 44
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD44
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD39
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD35
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD24
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD24
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD22
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 4 UCL 25-30 CD21
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD20
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD20
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD20
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD18
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD19
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 1, UCL 26, CD15
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD13
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 21 UCL24-9 CD12
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD10
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD8
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL26-30 CD5
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 7, UCL 22-28, CD5
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 30, CD4
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 40, CD4
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 CD3

WTTC
Hairytriangle
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

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orestyemerrywombat · 06/12/2010 11:36

You may want to check carefully - adding three days to everyone seems to be at about the limit of my mental capacities this morning Xmas Wink Doesn't bode well for the rest of the week Xmas Grin

youremindmeofthebaubles · 06/12/2010 12:36

i hope this works!