Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 9)

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Had an mc and need some wine, chocolate and somewhere to moan and cry? This is the place to be! We chat a LOT so it can be hard to keep up, but everyone on here is great and will hold your hand until you get your BFP.

awww, thank you mummybells , I feel special now...

nix stop getting over-excited, it's not good for you in your condition . velvet -do not worry, you are the voice of reason on this point!!

mummybells I think ff is probably right and therefore you're ok - have you managed to speak to dr yet?

Dr emailed me and said not to worry! Phew phew phew! He agrees with you lot that it is probably caused by the coil and or oestrogen. Panic over. Back to eating chocolate and watching weather reports.

FAB mummyxxxxx enjoy your chocolate x

PS have you stocked up on lots of goodies to take home with you!? hope you are shipping lots of tea and marmite and chocolate home as we speak x

That's fab news, mummy. Time to kick back! xx

Can't believe how cold it is, just bought new gloves actually been shopping and all I've bought is stuff for me

Got myself worried today because i'm not sure I've OV or not, but I suppose its only cycle 1, so it could still be WTF we're SWI pretty much every day, but it's just knowing when I can test

mummyB glad you've been reassured, so when do you test? I just want more good news
izzy same question?!

mummybells that's great news! And it's good to know we were right and therefore can claim the collective expertise of your top doctor

I will probably poas on Friday (14dpo) but not expecting anything due to spotting today (boo!). Good news is that AF has not fully arrived yet which means I definitely have a 12 day luteal phase this month. I mean, clearly I'd rather have a 38-week luteal phase, but hey, I'll take what I can get right now!!!

Re whether you've ov'd or not: are you temping or using opks or anything? Just wondered if you could get any clues that way?

Mummybells that's great news. Does that mean we as a thread can rent out our services to the MN masses at £500 an hour?!?!

Still good news then izzy, 12 days is goood

I've OPKd and got a fairly good line day 13 and 14, but nothing today, and my pre-mc CL was 35. I also had EW-ish CM, but not tempd this month

wombat I don't think I'd get a share I'm pretty clueless

wombat at charging, and the really good part is that I came to you lot before the doctor!

orange I am afraid I am not in the running for BFP and wont be for some time yet, just had an op for Ashermans syndrome, (cervix was scarred shut), I have a coil fitted, I am on oestrogen supplements AND dh is 6000 miles away in another country! Never fear though, I will soon have these small hurdles sorted out and will be back on the testing band wagon! hope your ov comes soon, I reckon you must want it about as much as I want AF!

Izz I will be logging in bright and early tomorrow to see what your temps are doing [ wink]

not long now mummy, best hope you get home safely in the snow otherwise Mr Mummy will need a 6000 mile long willy!

Orange if your pre mc cycles were like me, 35 days would your ov date not be around CD20? but i suppose you still dont know cos they are a bit all over the place after an MC arent they. I quite literally tested every day twice a day last cycle til i got a positive over 2 days :) cheapies make it worth it.

Golly its wonderful having a bfp it really is, but my god, every twinge/cramp/tummy ache/wetness down there/ etc etc especially an MC is so highlighted even more.. so worrying. Trying to pretend chill out and relax about it... but thats not working! one day at a time, thats what my mum said.

will too be logging in very early for a temp update izz mcwizzchristmas!

WEDNESDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 39
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD39
Loola2shu TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL40 CD39
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD34
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD34
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD30
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD30
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD28
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD27
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD21
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD19
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD19
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD17
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 4 UCL 25-30 CD16
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD15
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD15
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD15
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD13
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD14
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 1, UCL 26, CD10
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD8
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD4
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD3

WTTC
Hairytriangle
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oc
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

Marking my spot before another thread zooms by and I lose you lovely ladies altogether.

Congrats to Nix and Mouse and Inbetweener

Chrismizzy your chart is a thing of beauty m'dear. And to answer your question, nope, the only time I've seen a rise like that on my chart has been when I got a BFP.
I am of course hoping that I follow in your footsteps this time around - sorry, I did attempt to be more circumspect, but it just makes me feel very positive.

StNix it's such a shame what miscarriage does to subsequent pregnancy. It turns what should be a nervous but excited feeling into the most complicated web of emotions to negotiate. Especially in the very early days when you get lots of twinges and random cramping anyway.

Had a lovely day today, we were going to stay at home but a friend called and invited us for lunch so got on a bus and stomped through snowy pavements to enjoy some soup and see our little ones play with each other while we gossiped over small cakes. Yum. We're both ttc #2 at the moment - she uses IUI and I've had the MCs so we're both quite aware that it's not a straightforward business for either of us. We know each other's cycles roughly so now that one or other of us is likely to be going slowly mad while the other is scraping themselves off the floor and starting over.
I worry a little about what happens when one of succeeds, if the other doesn't. But we'll cross that bridge when if we get to it.

Just counting down the days now.

Donteatorangesnow - I am in the WTF zone too - mild ovulation symptoms and a teensy faint line on the stick yesterday but nothing today. Lots and Lots of zits though - like aobut twenty all down one side and across my skin!! :(

I have booked the acupuncturist that 'got my sister pregnant' so to speak - or at least helped. She says she would like to treat me for three months to make a correct chinese medicine diagnosis and to strengthen my system for the best possible chance.

Roll on a week Saturday!

(although not sure if I will be able to try not to conceive!).

Wave to all.

Bee* its nice that you have the RL TTC companionship/support if you like although wishing better circumstances for both!! Brave lady venturing out in the snow... i am MK tomorrow from home and i am training it!! do not fancy being stuck on the M1

It is the most complicated web of emotions, very well put!!!! It is literally one day at a time...fairy steps i think...

Off to bed xxx

looking forward to..........

izzywizzyletsgettriphaisic tomorrow

Wow! Why are you lot pissed? Oh, I see... Anyway, slightly belatedly, I would like to set up in the corner one of those things you get in European streets that caramelise almonds and make everywhere smell fantastic. Hope we have no nut allergy sufferers. Just in case, I'm also popping a virtual epipen in the corner too. I see we already have peanuts and brazil nuts by the bucketload, so maybe I shouldn't have worried..

Hope you like the Christmassed name (it is December now, at least!)... but can you work out whoo?

Rudolf - you missed one out of your egg-nog survey.... if you have mega egg-nog, does that mean:
(a) you've ov'd
(b) you are ov'ing
(c) you are about to ov
(d) you are about to get very drunk
(e) you are a giant bird and intended to lay an egg but squeezed too hard and cracked it on the way out...
I think the answer to the original question was (c). And I know I can't count.

Izzy - chart looking beautiful there dear... fingers very crossed.

MummyB - hope you get some answers soon about where you are cycle-wise, but glad you've had some reassurance from the collective experts here!

Orange - as long as you don't slap yourself with a frozen haddock... any possibility your cycles have been reset at a different level after MC? Mine were completely different post-DD compared to pre-. Just a thought..

Sunchild - sounds very exciting up there! Are you getting any post through? Internet cheapie sticks?

Nix - LOL at the 6000 mile willy. Trust you to think of that..

Bee - glad you had a lovely day. I know what you mean about worrying about the timing of success of RL TTC buddies, as am in a similar boat.

Hello to everyone else!

Owls??????????

mummy oops sorry I hadn't paid enough attention in that case I hope you get AF soon

nix you're right I shouldn't OV yet on past cycle history, think I'll keep OPKing just in case :) I hope you're all rested and bean is comfy

Owls? Nope, but I can see I led you up the garden path by spelling "who" wrongly... Think more ostrich-sized...

emoo?

Spot on, Kat, have a gold star! And a smiley face .

I was plumbing for owls as well but the language was all wrong emoo of course I think you are right re (c) - still mile long stretchy EWMC so am guessing I will ov tomorrow as usual - dh stayed home late from work to BD - gold stars for him. I thought he had worked my cycle out without me having to say anything and hence the high level of SWI action over the last week but this morning when it looked like he was heading out the door with no action at peak time I realised he had actual just been horny - he didn't have a clue it was ov time! It is so unfair that we are so tied into our cycles ---- but I guess they are tied into their sex drive!

LOL at MrMummys extended penis You loon Nix

LadyB sounds like a lovely day out. It is always a worry when you are TTC with someone else but as you say cross that bridge when you come to it - and possibly agree some coping strategies beforehand (the sillier the better!)

Had a lovely ray of hope today (in a sad sort of way ) I had tea with a lovely lady from DD1's nursery and we ended up discussing mc (my tourettes playing up again). She had one between DD1 and DD2 and was 42 when she had DD2, who is lovely and cuddly and healthy - it is always nice to see!

Huhu you silly turkeys. Im loving the Santa smileys.

I like the biccy of course

have changed name to a xmas biscuit. Hope i get my little baby biccy too for xmas.

oooh still so happy for Nix you sound like youre on cloud 9 my dear.

Started to take my temp yesterday but was a bit concerned that 35.8 is very low..... Im a beginner to this temping stuff. have saved it on iphone on my p-tracker programme and will start ff if i dont cope with following this well for any ovulation help.
ff looks easy. do you have to put things in every day, or can you fill it in once a week etc. - just coz i cant see myself using it so easy as the app on my phone. anyone???? then i would use it, if i was just adding the temps from the past day or so....

Oops I appear to have lost a day somewhere......

WEDNESDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 39
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD39
Loola2shu TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL40 CD39
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD34
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD34
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD30
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD30
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD28
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD27
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD21
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD19
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD19
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD17
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 4 UCL 25-30 CD16
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD15
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD15
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD15
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD13
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD14
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 1, UCL 26, CD10
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD8
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD5
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD3

WTTC
Hairytriangle
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oc
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

Izzy - hoping your temps are telling us you have your special ""Christmas Cake""" in oven