Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 9)

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Had an mc and need some wine, chocolate and somewhere to moan and cry? This is the place to be! We chat a LOT so it can be hard to keep up, but everyone on here is great and will hold your hand until you get your BFP.

ooh good luck pink, orange and aandr! I've still got my flashing suspenders on (now under thermals, fleeces and snow boots )

morning everyone else out there this morning!

Oooh thanks wombat

After totally confusing temps yesterday, FF finally drew crosshairs and told me I'm 4dpo today, so am into the 2ww. This is good as dh and I are quite frankly fed up of shagging and abortive swi attempt last night ended in a row. Isn't ttc really crap sometimes?

so is anyone joining me yet on the 2ww? wombat where are you cycle-wise?

Izz I'm not really sure! I normally get two days of smilies on the opk then a temp rise on cd 18 ish. This month I had one smilie day (yesterday) but my temps went down today... To be honest they've been all over the place this month so far so I've no idea what's going on! I'm guessing I'm oving today (nearly didn't try to get into london for work in case I don't make it good for swi ). We'll see what temps do tomorrow! Either way, should be about to join you I think.

don't make it home for swi

I'm with you on ttc being crap sometimes! The whole sex on demand thing is not conducive to romance!!

izz sorry about the row, it really is shit-I have the same thing too that we always start too early in the month and then by ov time we're both exhausted and definitely not in the mood any more

Thanks for bacon sardines wombie, yum!!!

Hehe I showed my DH the pee stick this morning, he was less than impressed that that was all the second line I could muster!!! In his words 'hmm I'm not sure I'd get my hopes up based on THAT - you can only see the line if you hold the stick up to your face, squint and tilt it at the particular angle.....' hehe he makes a good point.

nix you still alive hun??

Bacon sardines????

pink I remember getting the same reaction when I woke dh up at 5am to show him my bfp with dd. As I told him then though, a line is a line, and you're either pg or you're not. You can't be slightly pg, in the same way that you can't be slightly dead.

'Tis one occasion when the digi tests get a better reaction because you don't have the arguments about the darkness of the line, it's just pg or not pg. Men cope better with that.

I heard from nix on the charters thread (and I hope she won't mind me telling you girls) that she'd had some brown cm and was going to try to get to epu to get checked out. Fx it's nothing and she'll be on here later breathing a huge sigh of relief - however much we know it's quite common we all know how worrying it can be.

Just updating - I seem to have lost a cycle.

Sorry she got you HK.

I'm thinking 2010 has been a shite year so I didnt expect any good news for me - we will get some in 2011 - we have a whole 12 months of saying that ahead :)

MONDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 58
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD58
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD53
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD49
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD34
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD34
Tamashii TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC), UCL 33-35, CD 33
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD32 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD32
Hairytriangle TTC#1, cycle WTF (Post MC#2) UCL ?28, CD?27
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD27
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 21 UCL24-9 CD26
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD24
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD22
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL26-30 CD19
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 7, UCL 22-28, CD19
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 30, CD18
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 40, CD18
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 CD17
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD12
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD9
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD8
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD7
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD7
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD2
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD2

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

Hehe thanks izzy you are so right-it needs to be a definitive preg/not preg for them to get their heads round!!

Awww poor nix I so hope they've got reassuring news for her :( bloody hell, that combined with the lurgy is a lot to deal with in the week before chrimbo :(

Hola, doc for now seems unconcerned unless it gets darker or red and won't send me to epu unless it is. Was worried as have had a high fever which he says was viral but I had a fever last time!! Ds and dh have also had fevers saying that!!

Have gone from vomiting and nausea to fever to brown discharge, my head is totally shredded :(

aww nix big hugs to you. I booked myself into epu last time - maybe you could give them a call?

Awww nix try and stay hopeful if you can- DH and DS had fevers too so hopefully it's just from the flu. Are you able to rest up and take it easy for a few days?

nix he's probably right, but it doesn't stop you worrying does it? Why don't you try ringing your midwives direct - even if you're not yet registered with them for this pg they might help (my dsis had to go thus route and they did refer her). Explain you've already had a mc and they might be more sympathetic - cry if you need to.

I know it sounds cynical behaviour but it'll do you no good to be stressing about it, so I would get seen if you can x

Nix you poor thing, take very good care of yourself - lots of treats and relaxing as much as you can. If doc is messing you about do not feel at all bad about wailing at him until he writes the referral out of desperation to get you out of his office! x

Rudolf hoorah for the bfp :) The line I got on the first test I did was so puny I didn't actually show DH until 5 days later when I got a reasonably convincing one. He doesn't know I've been testing again every 3 days since then; I've got enough piss-sticks to make a fecking nativity scene out of now

Nice flashing suspenders, you lot, by the way

Aw Nix BIG hugs lovely xxxx I'm keeping everything crossed it's just a touch of flu and you'll all be absolutely fine xxx

Velvet hugs for you too. Sorry 20100 have been such a shit year. Roll on 2011, eh?! 'twil; be a fab'un for all of us on here I hope!

Pink keep the faith! Wishing you a sticky sticky bean and some really strong lines to show DH in a few days . You can keep your sardines though thanks :)

Izz at least your on the 2ww now - you and Mr Izz can have a bit of time off!

• you're not your (what is wrong with me this morning?!?!)

There I was just lurking away and thought I couldn't ignore this... Nix sending you a big fat hug my love. Stay in bed and take it easy. BTW, you don't need anyone's permission (GP referral or otherwise) to seek advice from the EPU, if you want some reassurance just call the nurse directly via the hospital maternity/EPAU ward!

In other news the biatch showed yesterday as expected! Can someone put me down the bottom on the list CD 2 today and also I've lost some cycles too... should now be 6.

Waves to all and goes back to lurking!

Thanks for the support girls, makes me feel much better to know someone out there understands.

Am struggling to keep up but do we have pink, A&R and Orange all with faint lines? I am sure you will all get your big, fat, unmistakable soon. Any line at all is a positive really though isn't it?

Nix sorry you have this worry and are feeling poorly. I hope you are able to get some rest and have someone to take care of you.

Velvet we are at the bottom of the list together both on cycle 5 and similar cycle lengths. I am hoping January brings us both some good news.

Sorry she got you mamac - just updating list.

Let's hope we've got some bfshinyps with bells and fecking tinsel on to cheer us all up as we limp to the end of 2010 - and that 2011 proves to be a luckier year for all the rest of us x

MONDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 58
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD58
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD53
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD49
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD34
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD34
Tamashii TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC), UCL 33-35, CD 33
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD32 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD32
Hairytriangle TTC#1, cycle WTF (Post MC#2) UCL ?28, CD?27
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 21 UCL24-9 CD26
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD24
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD22
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL26-30 CD19
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 7, UCL 22-28, CD19
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 30, CD18
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 40, CD18
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 CD17
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD12
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD9
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD8
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD7
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD7
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 5 UCL 35, CD2
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD2
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 6 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD2

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

Pink did I miss that you got a faint line??
A bfp line???

Ok so I forgot I had 2 cb Digi pg tests upstais. Have just peed and it's saying pregnant 3+ which puts me at the Max for those tests but at least it's gone up! Ok it only shows 5+ weeks and I am 7+ tomorrow but it's reassuring!!

Glad you're getting some reassurance Nix. I think those Digi tests can be quite accurate. Certainly before my MC when I thought there was something wrong but before I had any bleeding, I took one and it seemed quite accurate (in my case it showed me that I had lower levels of HCG than I should have done) so getting a 3+ is good news (I was 7 wks and the test said 1-2 :(.

Pink, Pink, Pinkety, Pink I'm doing a small wriggle of excitement for you and the rest of the 'Am I? Aren't I?' faint-liners. Gawwwd, how exciting in the run up to Christmas. What a nice present that would be.

What I need for my present is some action in the bedroom - CD12 here and it's like DH & I live on separate planets. I've been working late most nights and he's managed to get addicted to a new PC game. ARARRRRRRGH this is NOT conducive to relaxed, chilled, what will be, will be approach to TTC. The assumption that you shag when you feel like is that both of you will actually feel like it occasionally. Sheesh. Right. Am going to have to tap him on the shoulder and make sure I cross off everything on my Big List today

HongKong phooey. Sorry you can slap me. Take time to feel down, and give yourself some treats. It'll be better in a few days but it's rubbish at the moment isn't it.

Izzy well done on making it to the TWW with some sense of relationship still intact, sounds like it was a close thing though. Did you go for it every night or every second? I'm tempted to try to get him to agree to every night for next 4, but think that might be counterproductive.

Right straw poll ladies. I normally OV day 14 or day 15. Am not using CBFM this month, so just have to go on stats.
Am day 12 today. Mornings are not so good for us now, as DS gets out of bed and comes to say hello. What would you recommend as the the best combination of best chance and not freaking DH out with 'every night' demands?

Velvet sorry lady I missed you'd been got this round too. I fully expect to be joining you with the '2011' is definitely going to be better thoughts. You too MamaC, why are you lurking, have I missed something?

Nix I really hope it's all fine for you. Was it you with friable cervix?

how are you?

Hello lovelies! I am a leetle playing catch up, and a leetle confuddled. Are piank and dancer having faint lines? Whoop and massive hugs and congrats to both, and apologies if i've missed anything!

HKB sorry you're down. I am not loving cycle 5, but on the upside the year is nearly done, and we can look forwards. Hope you feel a bit better today.

nix ((hugs)) my lovely, brown disharge not lovely, but try not to worry, just get down to EPU, bypassing the doctor, if anything changes. So difficult to do, but I demand of you not to worry! Are you feeling a bit better, ill wise? Ds is curled up on the sofa now with a bowl to be sick in, what is it about Christmas-time and Illness?

izz yey for your 2ww! That'll take you up to new year, hey? Got a good feeling for a new year bean for you.

wombat you seem happy. That's good.

I have spent most of this period drinking, and imagine it will continue till new year! I am going to knock it on the head completely in January, at least for 3 months, and see how it goes. Detox, here I come!

Is everyone else well? What do you all want/ getting for xmas? (apart from the obvious )