Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 9)

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Had an mc and need some wine, chocolate and somewhere to moan and cry? This is the place to be! We chat a LOT so it can be hard to keep up, but everyone on here is great and will hold your hand until you get your BFP.

loola and kat I also need to lose some weight in the new year - we should join forces and try to keep each other on the straight and narrow.

nix hope you are ok and embracing the relentless puking as assurance of ongoing diffed-ness x

mamac great news - hope the de-stressing works and that you're back to announce some good news soon x

will keep the suspenders on for velvet and orange and hkbaby - hopefully the bfns are just a result of testing too early.

Wombo easy girl... dont peak too early i think you are going for the shaggathon chez izzy crown!! [Ps get in some pre-seed if you are!!]

kat once is all it takes, hope those swimmers are doing their job!

loola could it be ov spotting? Bodies can be such arses cant they! Hope so!! Have you tried temping to help? Might help you if cycles are a little bit crazy!

velvet tingly hot boobs are all good signs thats how mine started then a day or two later, extra boob veins. My norks now feel like they have grown 2 cups and are water inflated balloons better than beestings i suppose!!

Izz yes embracing it! Followed it with 2 rounds of toast and sent DH out to get me a egg/bacon/sausage and tomato bap from the local butty shop...STODGE! I was a bit worried about bug as DSis has had D&V, but nothing since. My coffee also tasted like an old ashtray this morning!!

Orange have you got a FR yet?!

Baubles - hope you are ok too lovely xx

Wow well done A&R, have everything crossed for you orange! Glad consultant put your mind at rest mamap - v. reassuring to hear that everything is all good and that it's just a waiting game now.

Am feeling a bit wobbly - CD31, FF says I'm due today, temps still high so we'll see. Feeling very emotional and tearful. Have decided not to test until Chrimbo Eve if AF hasn't rocked up by then but been here many times before so not getting hopes up :(

Went for counselling today at church - was good, vicar didn't look too scared at me sobbing my heart out for 45 mins so that's good! Have been on a chrimbo prezzie buying mission today and am just sitting trying to wrap it all now!

Hi pink - glad the counselling went well, will you go again?

Am hoping your tearfulness is a good sign - you are being very good holding out till Christmas Eve though, I'm not sure I could. Will keep fx for you. x

Hey Izz not sure - she said I should think about it around my due date but I don't know - it was nice to talk to someone but it doesn't change anything and have basically cried all day since so I'm not sure it's a completely positive step to take..... Just went onto Facebook to see some more people have changed their profile pictures to scan pics.... :S

Evening everyone

Still a BFN, and from a FR too :( which makes me think yesterdays cheapie Internet test was a water mark. DH reckons wait till Wednesday, which I am going to try in vain to stick to as all the BFNs are getting me down. Last time FR was no help either, tho do remember hearing some people take longer I hate limbo

Good going Wombat !! and Mr Wombat
velvet when do you think you'll test? Sorry if I missed you saying
pink so nice to see you, hopefully you might feel if only a bit 'purged' from today? Good plan with the waiting, Christmas eve testing isn't a bad idea
kat fx for those swimmers, you could still be in luck
Nix good work with the stodge! I'm sure yours is pg related not a bug. Adding diarrhoea to my symptoms tho am sure mine isn't pg-related
It's been snowing all day today and I've only had a shower

Hurrah A&R - well done you!! All the best with your little bean

((( pink ))) sorry about the . Maybe you'll feel better for it tomorrow though? Remind me - when is your due date? I guess it might be an idea to think about talking to someone then depending on how you're feeling close to the time x

PS that YouTube link was bloody funny - harsh, but funny

Hey izz you're right, I do feel better for it today, and she was saying that although she agrees with me that i shouldn't dig it back up all the time, it's important to make space to reflect and grieve. DD mid Jan so main thing getting to me at the moment is "new year, new baby" and how different DH's and my life would have been in a month or so... Still, there's still lots of time for new year new baby, just later on in the year! New policy: less thinking about past and what might have been, less worrying about future, more enjoying today hahaha the video cracked me and DH up "ah we know, but we're not saying mmmmm"

I hope the snow hadn't screwed any of you lovely ladies over. I am SO hoping for a snow day tomorrow!!! The different colour light that you get in the bedroom in the morning off the snow is beautiful.

orange I'm so sorry about the shite limbo you're in :( what are your temps doing? Do you wanna hold hands with me and test on wed if the witch has got stuck in the snow somewhere?

Pink thanks that sounds like a plan, and far better than the moping/testing I've been doing [hopeful emoticon]

Hope you're doing a bit better today, there's a lot to be said for allowing time to reflect and not feeling guilty for it - something I need to remember myself

I hope everyone's doing OK today? We had about 5 inches of snow yesterday and it looks so pretty [fbear]

Forgot to say I haven't tempd this month :(

The witch turned up here so I'm out for this month. I am actually ok about it for the first time since the mc! I think it has a lot to do with getting past my dd. This cycle was a similar length to the previous one so hopefully they are settling down and my pre-AF spotting was a lot less so maybe that will stop too!

pink I was in a real state for a month before my dd but I really do feel that I can now look forward instead of back.

Any news from anyone else?

velvet sorry she got you, but glad you're ok about it. I think the due dates a big hurdle, once it's gone it kind if feels like the pressures off a bit doesn't it? x

Velvet sorry she got you, but glad you're not doing too bad, and a good sign they are settling

velvet sorry she got you. Times for some good mulled wine?

anyone else snowed in? 8 inches here!

We've had beautiful snow here but sadly I've come down with flu so haven't been able to enjoy it properly. Hopefully I'll be better by the time the next lot fall.

As a service here's today's list.

Update if yours is wrong. I'm not moving anyone to the BFP list as I know this can be a bit traumatic for some.

SUNDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 57
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD57
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD52
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD48
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD35
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD33
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD33
Tamashii TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC), UCL 33-35, CD 32
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD32 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD31
Hairytriangle TTC#1, cycle WTF (Post MC#2) UCL ?28, CD?26
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD26
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 21 UCL24-9 CD25
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD23
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD21
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL26-30 CD18
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 7, UCL 22-28, CD18
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 30, CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 40, CD17
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 CD16
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD11
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD8
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD7
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD6
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD6
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 4 UCL 35, CD1

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

velvet sorry to hear she arrived, really good to hear you're ok though. Thanks for mulled wine orange although I'm not sure it's a good idea given how much curry I just ate :)

tigger sorry you're feeling horrible-hope it doesn't hang around too long nickster hope you're feeling better too hun

THE APPRENTICE FINAL IS ABOUT TO START!!!!! whoop!!!

Hi All I have been at the Christmas Markets in Cologne, which was fab but the drive back has been a drag - took 3 hours longer than it should have.

Pink Orange can I join your wait? Confusingly when I peed on Sat - nada! I went back to check the first stick and I too am thinking possibly a watermark?!? In any case I need to get myself a first response - a bit hard at the moment as have a friend with me and despite her being a very close friend I can barely voice the whole thought to dh let alone a friend.

Very mememe ... will try again in the morning!

Morning all - updating the list and sticking myself back to the bottom again. Feeling very down about the whole thing now....

MONDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 58
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD58
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 BFP!!!
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD53
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD49
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD34
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD34
Tamashii TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC), UCL 33-35, CD 33
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD32 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD32
Hairytriangle TTC#1, cycle WTF (Post MC#2) UCL ?28, CD?27
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD27
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 21 UCL24-9 CD26
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD24
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD22
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL26-30 CD19
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 7, UCL 22-28, CD19
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 30, CD18
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 40, CD18
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31 CD17
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD12
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 2, UCL 26, CD9
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 3, UCL30 CD8
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD7
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 5 UCL 25-30 CD7
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 4 UCL 35, CD2
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD2

WTTC

Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle BFP!!!
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Shitforbrains
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

((( AandR ))) fx for you, are you trying again today? What an awful position to be in, hopefully you'll get another reassuring BFP
Wombat beats our 5 inches
Tigger sorry you're feeling under the weather, are you in work, or can finish soon/ring in sick to have a rest?

We're waiting until Weds to POAS, I've given my tests to dh under strict instructions not to give back. They are Internet cheapies tho, so am going to try the ClearBlue Digital then there is no danger of me squinting at it in different lights it was quite a relief to get up this morning and not be worrying about testing

ARSE why didn't I take my own advice and wait until Wednesday like I agreed with orange-have faintest of all faint lines on first response arghghghghg. Temp dropped a bit today but that might be because I I've been awake worrying about whether to do a test since about 2am....... Arghghghghgh so I hav cleared up nothing at all!!! So orange aandr digital on wed???? Nob nob nob nob nob

((((HK)))) really sorry AF got you :(

Faint line?!? That's good, no? it's so difficult tho when you have the test and you just wonder

Yes I'm still on for Wednesday, it was the day dh suggested too I've worked out cos I didn't temp I'll be between 5-8 days late then - if the red witch doesn't get me first

HK sorry I didn't notice damn red witch :(

((( hk ))) sorry she got you x

pink and orange and aandr - I still have my suspenders on for you. Faint lines are still lines and therefore good. aandr get your dh to go and get you an FR to test again. pink and orange I'll keep everything crossed for Wednesday for you - sounds like we might get some more good news xx