Louise rant and rave as much as you want. If you find it helpful then do just that. If at times you feel you want to look at things differently, then do. Whatever helps you. By that I mean if you feel better one day, don't feel guilty for feeling better, you are not being disloyal to Georgie to feel better. She would want you to.
nicole good to see you again. May the next year be one full of new adventure for you.
TheFairyOnTheTree As ever wishing you all the very best, I am sure this year will be bitter-sweet, there will be memories, good things, bad things, new things. Whatever happens may your darling hubby be there supporting you, may family and friends (real friends) be of good use and may this new baby be a whole new chapter. He or she will not blot out the pain of the past nor can they replace your little sweetheart, but may they be a new sweetheart, in a whole new way, and we will be here to hear and to cheer you on.
Spotty and Hippy you must tell me the difference between Baggy pants and Slanket in terms of phase?
muchlove Thinking of you, how are you doing?
Octaviajolls all the best to you, hope 2011 will be a better year for you.
40someMum I am getting confused are you also frustrated (or are you two different people, apologies. All the best for 2011 to you and to you all.
Diege Hope this coming year will be better and you will get your little one and that we all will.
tel1 Congratulations, on your bfp, had not quite twigged before!
Gum Hope Christmas has gone well, not been too hot for you!
Hairy Hope 2011 will be a much better year for you.
BB How is it going?
May all go well with you guys, Alba, Lunaticfringe, Lia66 and Spiral queen.
Love to TFLS, ILGH and Kiwikat so glad this year brought your new little ones.
I swing between feeling upset or unhappy about things and feeling good. I got a couple of Chrimbo cards saying casually that number 2 or 3 was on the way. Just as I was upset by friends who singled me out for a special 'telling' of their number 3 news in person or by phone - so I am equally upset by getting the casual news in a card. I am impossible to please! Luckily for me the getting upset took a few mins. A moan at my hubby, who has no idea what I mean, and an email to my darling sis, who does!
Actually, I do realise how very lucky I am. I have got my little one and I have a kind, caring hubby and most of the things I want in life. My Christian faith is a wonderful help to me most of the time but at times I still feel very saddened by life (not mine specifically just the sadness in the world and all the injustice). I have recently heard about children whose lives are so terrible and horrific I just feel so sad and it makes me want things to change. So part of my life is about working for human rights for all, and the basic necessities for all. Also, as a Christian I want everyone to come to know Jesus. So part of my life is about mission. As we approach new year I want to have lots of positive and happy and life affirming goals. I also want to get fit. I now have to stop talking at home about weight and weight loss as DD (6) has made some unfortunate comments about weight (saying she looks 'big' in her coat or her friend looks 'slim' in her leotard!) So I am just talking now about getting fit and healthy and exercise! So I have all my new year's resolutions to lose a stone as quickly and safely as I can and to enjoy my life and make the most of it! I feel good about the whole baby thing. I really, really hope we get a donor soon because if it works I want the baby to be born before I am 47 and if we don?t I want to get onto the adoption list before Christmas next year. So if you hear of anyone who wants to be a donor!!!!! No, don't worry, we will get someone through the clinic. Anyway, I feel pretty positive about the whole baby thing.
My daughter has named the hamster Flac. I am hoping it means something wonderful in an exotic language.
Happy New year, one and all.