Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 8)

[MummyAbroad]

A safe haven for those just off the mc rollercoaster and thinking about getting back on or are already on the TTC rollercoaster. Be warned these lovely ladies chat, and the thread moves lightening fast, but all are welcome to join in any time

For those who have just mc'd, there is great info about your first cycle here

If you want to add yourself into the stats, just copy and paste the lot, change everyones CD (cycle day) if necessary and add yourself in.
WTF = first cycle after mc
WTTC = waiting to TTC
CD = cycle day
UCL = usual cycle length

I just had the call. 6 have fertilised. They will call me on Monday to let me know how they're looking. They'll either be going back in on Monday at 12 or Wednesday at 12.30

Fab news dachs

Great news dachs that's good odds already from 9. Thanks for explaining [grateful grin]

We've decided to try but not get carried away 1st month with a view to snowboarding in Jan. Not quite so sorry for myself on way to gym might help. He's still convinced it'll happen straight away tho, hope he's right but don't want to feel a failure if not, and I know how difficult it is anyway not sure he does

Sorry, it's not all about me, and I know others have a lot more to deal with

hope everyone's having a good morning

Yum posh m&s bids! Have just been there for tonights Chinese!

dachs that's fab!!!

My dsis also opted for two to go back: hers had divided really well and got to blastocyst so she was under a lot of pressure to just go with one, but stuck to her guns. I think secretly she too would have been quite pleased with twins - after 5.5 years ttc I think it would have been a relief to not have to worry about whether #2 would take as long iykwim. Hers didn't work out unfortunately but that was later and nothing at all to do with the ivf which worked great - both implanted. Fx you get two good ones and they go back on weds to make two mini-dachs ...

Ooh orange just noticed the biccies...yum!

Whoo hoo!! Dachs! 6 fertilised - that's fab!! Keep us posted on whether we need our flashing suspenders on on Monday at 12 or Weds at 12.30

Mummya - hope your flight goes well!

Hello everyone else! Just updating quickly as PIL will be here any minute. Had dinner last night with a fiend who is 30wks. Was lovely to see her and chat babies for a bit, but as she and her hubby have no idea about our trials and tribulations it was a bit bitter sweet too.

It's CD10 here today and the SWI has begun. No EWCM but creamy (sorry for TMI) so I think we're heading that way. I've run out of OPKs though and the loss of 'control' is doing my nut!! DH has gone on an emergency run to buy more while I'm 'working'... :)

I have a good feeling about this month... DH is in the country for 10 days straight which has got to help, plus if I get a BFP this month it will balls up christmas parties and the baby would be youngest in its academic year at school, which we always hoped to avoid (back in the day when we were so naiive we thought we had some control over the process)... so it's got to happen this month, hasn't it?!?!

Hee hee wombat I too remember those days of thinking we had some element of control over the timing! Both times we aimed for March and dcs are September and August respectively . Fwiw, dd (august baby) is the youngest and littlest in the whole school and she is keeping up with the others, full of confidence and absolutely loving it, so I wouldn't fret about it too much!

Updiffage this month would indeed scupper Xmas plans, which surely makes it more likely, but then again it would mean bfp before my due date (last chance) so I'm thinking that would be too lucky. Fx for us all x

tunnocks it's not over yet, problem is pg and af symptoms are too similar!! Chin up x

Hi ladies - well she got me, AF arrived as usual 30 mins after POAS. Have been busy doing the big shift most of the morning which is not so easy with a small boy trailing around asking "do you want to play with me?" feeling very down again, all the usual stuff so won't go through it again?

Am on borrowed iPad so can't do list so can someone update stats

LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD1

Fertilityfriend set up my new cycle stats, didn't know wheher to laugh or cry to see that my predicted ovulation is day before birthday when i have invited friends around for lunch and next period due day after Christmas. That's just ripe for huge expectation and disappointment isn't it. am very tempted not to even try this month as I'm not sure I can face those dates with the added emotional baggage.

great news Dachs on your 6 little successes. Fx for you this week.

It's 12 dpo for me and the brown stuff has almost all gone but I think it was too heavy to be implantation bleeding so I'm expecting AF over the next day or so (due on Tues according to FF) which gives me a 29 day cycle - much better than 42! No point in symptom spotting - I have all the usual AF/early pg stuff going on so you never can tell which is rubbish. Temps are still 0.5 above cover line but have dropped by 0.1 for the past 2 days - is this a significant difference?

Enjoy your Saturday ladies :)

velvet will keep my fx it is early symptoms..

ladybee sorry she got you . Hope you're ok x

Saturdays List

MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD41
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD32 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 or 35 CD33
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD31
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD26
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL28 CD26
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD25
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 1 UCL29 CD24
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD22
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 21
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD21
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL28 CD19
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD19
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD16
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD16
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 4 UCL 27 CD13
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD12
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD12
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD10
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD9
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD3
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD2
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD1

WTTC

Hairytriangle
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
HidingInTheBackRow TTC#1 MC#1 Oct 2010
OrangeToeNails TTC#1 MC ERPC 15 Oct

MIA
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post mc#1)(PCOS)
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oc
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

xposts Ladybee sorry she got you

Taking a break from work and swi to catch up! Pleased to hear such promising news from dachs, fingers crossed! I would definitely not mind twins either. Would mean no more ttc stress ever again. Have twin brothers so does run in the family.

Izzy hope you get lucky before due date. I know that I'll be much less upset by the date if I am diffed again. If I manage it this month I'll have the 12 week scan before due date if it worked out. Would be worth a sober Xmas for that. With any luck the cbfm will help!

Mummy A hope you have a good journey and all the best with the op, hope it is not too painful or unpleasant and you have a quick recovery

Just wanted to send a little wave, I'm ok thanks just trying to stop myself from full-on mentalling so it's taking all of my concentration.... Am convinced AF is on her way as period pain type cramping is getting stronger and boobs have deflated :( will be back for a proper catch up in next couple of days. Just a quickie tho, v v excited for dach defo push for two, twins would be amazing!!!

velvet I'd say being still 0.5 degrees above cover at 12dpo is pretty good. I've never had implantation bleeding so don't know what that would be. I've got my fingers crossed for you though.

dachs I completely agree with going for twins. I know it's more risky but I think they'd observe you so carefully. I do remember when DS was a newborn turning to DH and saying 'I can't believe we joked about wanting twins', but having talked to parents of twins I think you just get on with it, like you do with a singleton, because you have no choice. Anyway, this is all jumping the gun, one step at a time huh? Hope everything continues well, and remember, all it takes is one.

Today was hard. Moving DS into his big boy room was something I'd planned when I got pg earlier this year. It just really underlined the passing of time and how we've been trying for over a year with nothing but two failed pregnancies. It also stirred up the old conversations about what we want to do in terms of staying in the UK/returning to NZ and what impact that has on what we do with the house etc. It just feels like this year has been a complete washout, and that's so depressing.

And there are piles of things EVERYWHERE now, including on our bed...so better go shift things so I can climb into bed. We've decided to run away from the chaos for a while tomorrow and go to the Nat His museum.

LadyBee sorry that AF got to you, and you're feeling so down about the year. Quite understandable though.

Great news dachs on the eggs.

Keep concentrating on non mentalling Fondant, I'm right there with you

now I've marked my spot on the new thread can you ladies please slow down

Just popping in to say hello and woop woop to dachs and the six eggs! A friend of mine chose to put one back and wishes she'd gone for two. She has a gorgeous ds now though. Fingers crossed for some more good news next week :)
We're watching X Factor on delay this eve so have yet to see what delights Wagner has in store this week...

Ladies, just confirming that thanks to temps, opk's and furtling I have in fact ovulated and am now officially on the 2ww

Now where are those brazil nuts?

Morning all,
dachs Whoop whoop !! Thats great news ! 9 thats fab ! an eeekkkkkkk to the prospect of twins. I would be so scared lol.
pink PLEASE POAS !!!!!!!!!!!!! I have such a good feeling for you !!!!!!!

Sorry to all those with hideous BFN's...they really do suck dont they

Right well, I am going to take your advice and contact the GP tomorrow morning. I work in the hospital I hope to give birth in so will hand over the referral to antenatal myself. I know how things " get lost " .
Im ok. Feeling not hungry and faintly nauseous but not much really. I am having abdominal discomfort though. Like AF pains I suppose. No not pains, discomfort was right. Lots of stuff happening " downthere " keep thinking AF has arrive .

So today just taking it easy, sorting out the girls room and doing washing I think. I will get the ball rolling tommmorrow. thanks ladies !

Wiggle...... The beauty of watching xf the next day is that you can fast forward Wagner!

@ nicks His singing sounds like it's being played on fast-forward anyway. The music kind of runs away with him and he jabbers along trying to keep up! V entertaining though. I have a feeling he is getting the student vote! Hurray for the 2ww too! This one feels like the 2 month wait to me. How can I only be 9dpo after aaaalll this time...

Grrr I hate Google!! Have been sneezing with a runny nose for 4 days with not other cold/flu symptoms so I googled it and there is such a thing as pregnancy rhinitis! Where is that fish??

Will someone POAS soon so that I dont have to until next week!

ladybee sorry she got you. Sucks with birthday and Xmas coming up

I'm tempted to start ttc in new year. From OPK+ I should be due next fri. Assuming it happens. Don't like the thought of 1st BFN for xmas, but can't bear the thought of waiting. How long did everyone wait?

dachs fx for tomorrow/weds

any news from pink ?

velvet I hope it is a pg symptom :)

Hello all, sorry betweener no news here! Not gonna poas until thurs tho if no AF by then as BFNs take me an entire day to get over, as my rage on Friday might have shown!! Can't believe I'm on CD 34-no symptoms tho except being knackered and needing a pee twice last night which I'm not sure count!! Oh and all time high on the temps today although that might be because I usually sleep with mouth open but think last night it might have been shut... Anyone out there temp using fanjo temp rather than mouth?? Was thinking it might cut down the fluctuations I see but it is a bit gross, ESP during AF!!!!

Hehe velvet fx it's a sign!!!

orange I waited for one AF after I got the BFN and then started ttc. I don't think you need to but I wanted to be sure all the gunk had flushed out iyswim.

Yay for nix sounds like a nice early ov!

mamap you about yet?? Any news??? Suspense is killing me!!