Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 8)

[MummyAbroad]

A safe haven for those just off the mc rollercoaster and thinking about getting back on or are already on the TTC rollercoaster. Be warned these lovely ladies chat, and the thread moves lightening fast, but all are welcome to join in any time

For those who have just mc'd, there is great info about your first cycle here

If you want to add yourself into the stats, just copy and paste the lot, change everyones CD (cycle day) if necessary and add yourself in.
WTF = first cycle after mc
WTTC = waiting to TTC
CD = cycle day
UCL = usual cycle length

oops X posts mama

Hi Nurse, glad you decided to join us. I've added you to the stats list below under WTTC (waiting to try to conceive), but feel free to move yourself up to the 'active' list if you decide not to wait. There are lots of us on here who dived straight back in to the TTC game, but also others who waited for one AF post MC to be sure everything was fine and complete, and to give them some time emotionally to come to terms with their loss, so it's really up to you.

TUESDAYS LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD33 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 or 35 CD36
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD34
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD29
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL28 CD29
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 31 CD27
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 1 UCL29 CD27
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD25
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 24
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD24
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL28 CD22
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD22
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD19
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD19
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD18
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 4 UCL 27 CD16
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD15
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD15
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD12
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD6
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD4
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD4
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD2

WTTC

Hairytriangle
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
HidingInTheBackRow TTC#1 MC#1 Oct 2010
OrangeToeNails TTC#1 MC ERPC 15 Oct
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov

MIA
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post mc#1)(PCOS)
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oc
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

Opps x-posts with everyone :) See Nurse - I did warn you these ladies chatter A LOT!!!

Well I'm only seven days on from my erpc, and I think like hanging in the back row said I'm not going to try but not prevent so put me in the ttc bit. THanks for the warm welcome too x

Well I'm only seven days on from my erpc, and I think like hanging in the back row said I'm not going to try but not prevent so put me in the ttc bit. THanks for the warm welcome too x

Hi Nurse and welcome.

I didnt wait at all and got my BFP last week . I am terrified and scared but hopefully all will be well.

Good luck to you and these ladies will certainly look after you, and teach you a few things too !!!!!!!!!!!!!

pink any development ?

nurse sorry you're here but welcome to the thread! Sounds like you've had a really tough time My background is that I'm ttc#3 after a mmc at 16 weeks in July (baby had died at 14). I have DS aged 7 and DD aged 4 who, along with the support from these lovely ladies, are keeping me going

pink it ain't over till it's over! Interesting that it seems to be confirming ff timing, but fx she never really arrives

To all those considering acupuncture, can I just reiterate that my acupuncturist is fab? Because ff doesn't seem to pick up straight away on my "slow" LH surge, she had asked me to email daily charts to her so she can add her input and try to help pinpoint ovulation quicker and more accurately. Tbh it does feel a bit weird picking up an email today telling me to SWI tonight but it's great to have that support!

betweener - nothing now!!' WTF?! It's done this before tho that get pink then af takes her sweet time to rock up 2 days later.... Still another couple of days is fine as ties in better with DHs work trip next month. Oh and then chrimbo day would be test date, brilliant..... :(

pink . What are your temps doing?

Izz lol at your email from your accupuncturist. Do you think she'd cc DH too, or send a outlook meeting request to put it in your diaries??

PFF gaaah for AF messing you around!! Why won't our bodies play ball. Sooo frustrating!

I'm on CD 13 and temps are static (normal I have a pre-ov drop by now) and OPKs are showing absolutely no LH (normally I get a gradual increase). Humph. Am wondering if my newly re-actiivated gym habit is disrupting things? It's not like I'm running a daily marathon though, I've built up gradually and doing 30-40 mins at most at a time... where's the Oracle when I need her Mummya thinking of you and hoping it's all going really well!!

Dachs are you managing to stay stress free?

Hi aandrmum, inbetweener, mamap, velvet, nicks, apples, pretty, jam, kat, yrmotb, orange and anyone I've missed! xxx

izz still at the same level they've been all week but trying not to get my hopes up as they've been pretty misleading all month...

izz still at the same level they've been all week but trying not to get my hopes up as they've been pretty misleading all month...

wombo izz at the meeting request invite! Sure DH would love that! How fab that your acu is doing that for you! Whats her number, does she do consults !?!?!

wombpants at the lh surge or lack of. maybe it has disrupted it :(

pink IMPLANTATION !! No pressure!Temps still high?

velvet where are yours?! What are they doing?!

My chart at pre ov dipped, sky rocketed two days later (timed perfectly with LH surge) and cos DS had me up all night i temped early today and they had plummeted again... just shows they need to be after sound sleep, same ish time otherwise all hell breaks loose!

CROSS posts again. soz

betweener - nothing now!!' WTF?! It's done this before tho that get pink then af takes her sweet time to rock up 2 days later.... Still another couple of days is fine as ties in better with DHs work trip next month. Oh and then chrimbo day would be test date, brilliant..... :(

D-oh so incompetent with phone!! What I meant to post was my chart in case anyone's bored and wants to see the most misleading chart probably ever created....

Hey there

just popping in to let you know that AF got me last night/this morning so it's back to the bottom of the list again for me.

I knew this wasn't going to be my cycle as I was on the middle of Dartmoor without DH when I ovulated :)

TUESDAYS LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD33 BFP!!
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 or 35 CD36
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD34
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD29
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL28 CD29
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 1 UCL29 CD27
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD25
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 24
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD24
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL28 CD22
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD22
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD19
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD19
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD18
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 4 UCL 27 CD16
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD15
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD15
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD13
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD12
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD6
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD4
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD4
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 4 UCL 25-30 CD1

WTTC
Hairytriangle
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
HidingInTheBackRow TTC#1 MC#1 Oct 2010
OrangeToeNails TTC#1 MC ERPC 15 Oct
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov

MIA
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post mc#1)(PCOS)
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oc
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

I also thought you might be interested in hearing about my counselling.

My doctor referred me for fertitlity counselling after having the miscarriage so soon after the ectopic (March and July 2010). And because I burst into tears when I went to see her for my sicknote for work after the miscarriage.

I had my first session last week and it has been very intereting and useful. If anyone else gets offered counselling I would strongly recommend they go for it.

So far we've only really talked about my two lost pregnancies but we have also touched on my 'sense of self' and my relationship with DH and DS... I've got 5 more weeks in the first instance so i'm sure we'll cover everything.

My main 'actions' this week have been to write a complaint letter to the hospital over the treatment I received during my ectopic which she thought was dreadful and life-endangering. I've also got to think about the person I was before I had DS and decide if there are any aspects that I've discarded which perhaps I shouldn't have done. As a result I've bought two pairs of gorgeous high-heeled shoes and seven sexy lacy bras! I'm also going to commit to doing more with my running club!

Hello all,
I just had a phone call form the GP surgery. The lovely receptionist said that she had shown the bloods to the GP and that she had confirmed that I am indeed pg. She said the bloods were high so there was no doubt
She then said " so congratulations darling " and I burst into tears!! Its the first time anyone has said that to me in RL !!!!!!!!

PS: I had a feeling it was ok as I did another clear blue digital this morning and it has gone up to Pregnant 3+ !! It was juts lovely hearing it confirmed !

Thanks for letting me be happy here. Im trying not to be insensitive, just wanted to share.

pink yay its gone away !!!!!!!!! Its NOT over yet

By the way has anyone heard from jamface I see from the stats she is right behind pink in the due a BFP stakes !!!!Or have I missed something ?

Oh Hurrah for inbetweener . It must be such a relief to have it confirmed by someone else, now you can really believe it (if you see what I mean). And don't worry yourself about being insensitive. It is not in the least! In fact it is nice to see someone who has been through dificult times so happy and pregnant. It gives us all hope

Hi knitter. I'm glad your counselling went well. I really like the fact that they have got you doing practical things (though I don't think I have ever owned 7 bras in one go..ever!). I've had counselling a couple of times in the past (for different things) but never lasted more then a few sessions as it was all talk and I'm just not a sitting about talking kind of person. I just got bored and irritated listening to myself. Your counselling sounds much better!

Thank you hiding xxxx

seven bras knitter WOWZA lol !! I too do not even own seven bras now ! I have 2 white work bras, two black work bras, 1 white t -shirt bra thats going grey. God I really need to get some new undies !!!!!

betweener phew now you can chill! I didn't realise your mc was so recent, I thought you were on cycle 3?? This thread moves so fast tho I get confused....

Am spending most of my energy on not bursting into tears today :( zen hasevaporated and thought of another month of ttc feels v daunting right now....

I know what you mean hon, at the start of every cycle I am getting more and more ''here we go again'' and all the frustration bubbles up!! Big hug.

betweener fab news hon, hope you can now relax and enjoy the ride :)

Knitter you make me laugh you little minx

pink your chart looks good :) still high so thats good.

Looks like mine, how you post i will show you...tell me, tell me!

Is it poss i got my ov wrong? I got my 2 days of LH surge on cd18/19 plus lots other symptoms, and now on cd22 getting twitchy-fanjo again and thinking to self got it all wrong!! I was definate i had ov looking at temps but blardy hell, pinks looks the same as mine around day 16!

www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/index.php?redirect=/ttc/index.php&

dont know if you can access this pink?

bear in mind i didnt temp for a week mid cycle!