TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

HK - Deffo a small world. DH has family in Enfield too. Couple of aunties I think

Hear hear Ch. I agree, I'd rather be a few pounds heavier than too skinny.
Wills- Small world ot what! Ds1's grandparents live in Potters Bar and we used to live in Enfield.
Diddle- I was excatly the same. If I get down or bored I eat. If I let myself, I would be absolutely massive. I could eat for England! Anytime I'm feeling crappy I always turn to three things. Choc, crisps and ice cream!

We used to live near Chase Farm Hosp.
No idea why it typed twice. Weirdo computer.

Where are you now HK?

This is Brill. well i think so anyway
No sex tonight?

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so
much.
And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing.
I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their
heart.

FOR EXAMPLE
One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.
Well, the passion starts to heat up,
and she eventually says "I don't feel like it,I just want you to hold me."
I said "WHAT????!!! What was that?!"
So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...
"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me
to satisfy your physical needs as a man."
She responded to my puzzled look by saying,
"Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the
bedroom?"
Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with
her.
We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed
department store.
I walked around with her while she tried on several different very
expensive outfits.
She couldn't decide which one to take so I told her we'll just buy them
all.
She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes,
so I said lets get a pair for each outfit.
We went onto the jewellery department where she picked out a pair of
diamond earrings.
Let me tell you...she was so excited.
She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck.
I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis
bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis.
I think I threw her for a loop when I said,
"That's fine, honey."
She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.
Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said,
"I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier.
" I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out,
"No honey, I don't feel like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled
"WHAT???!!!"
I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while.
You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to
satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."
And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added,
"Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either.

ARRRRRRRR!!! LOL!!LOL!!LOL!!LOL!!!

Pmsl Maddy! Class!
Ch- Im in Kettering, Northamptonshire now.

Arr, see, now the world has gone and got big again. Don't know that part of the world at all

East Midlands hun. 68 miles north of London or could be 70 something. Anhow something like that lol.

Hahahahah Maddy - pmsl at that one!!!!

Diddle try this

ha ha, maddyd that is excellent
loved it

Oh love the joke but dh will love it more! Steriods are for an asthma attack in August. Getting highly annoyed but can't drop the last pill. Can't wait to get off but as I was on steriods during dd1 and dd2's pregnancies its not particularly worrying me. dd1 is tall and thin and dd2 is short with a tummy but absolutely beautiful!

Was just wondering Wills, coz I've been threatened with steroids for my crohn's. NO THANK YOU, MATEY!!!

Where's everybody gone??!!

Im off out now Coathanger But im sure someone will be alsong soon Bless

YOO-HOO!

Okay, Maddy. have a nice day

I'm all alone...

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wow you lot are so talkative its just took me half hour to catch up lol.

hellcat- about your ds talking, you could try signing like makaton to help with his frustration it worked wonders with my dd as she had speech problems. i do not think you should worry about speech this early, but signing can help them develop as you say the word whilst you sign it.

wills- i haven't contacted sands, i have thought about it but haven't been able to face it so far. maybe i will this week.

and on the weight issues i have put a stone on in the last 2 months! i think its because i moved house and there hasnt been much of a meal routine with all the stress of it all. i hate puting onweight as my boobs stay the same flat size its just my bum, hips and thighs that grow!

i should be ovulating beginning of next week - do you think i should do the deed everyday or shall i just go for quality and make sure we abstain untill the monment- iykwim

I know everyone has their own methods, but imho i think you should BD from the first day you can after AF has left, as often as possible, right up to and past your OV time. My philosphy is "go for it, girl!!!!!" Wear him out!!!

slinkstah - at the moment my hubbie and I are doing it every other day, since AF ended. fingers crossed it works