TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

Gosh there's an awful lot of chat today, had a scoot through but it'll take far to long to catch up on everything. What inspired this weight conversation?!
I'm feeling much brighter today, despite still not sleeping too well, but I feel more positive than yesterday. I hate those down days, but I guess we all have to go through them

Right, whose next to test, where are we all in the grand scheme of cd? I'm cd 9 so I'm about to start bding ......well not right now.....hmmm we both work at home at the moment though!!!

Strike1 - no bd when you should be working, naughty naughty, i bet its much more fun sneeking in the day.

cd20

i think maddyd telling us how light she is started the convo off. i think

Strike1 - I'm glad you are feeling brighter today, Hun. Those down days are buggers aren't they. I just know it going to be one of those days the minute I wake up. Shall I find a joke to tell you??

The weight convo was brought up by me I'm afraid. Mentioned wanting to be 8 stone like HK and MAddy (oh I'd love to be 8 stone again!)

Oh HC, BTW, I was a WW leader before I had DS3!! If you need any advice I don't mind you asking

I seem to have got tubby (like that work it sound cute) since my mc. so I'm really trying to pack in as much exercise as possible this month so that I can be nice a fit for getting pg, which WILL happen soon! My problem is wine (not in the AA sense) but a do enjoy a few glasses in the evening. Going to stop completly this month though cause it's easier. Got a Christening (Arghhh) on Sunday so I may need a glass or two that day, then I'm TT till I get af of bfp. Also a bit of a take away fan! But we all have our weakness!

oo, i like a take away too - yummy. Anice chinese mmmmmmm. But take away equals wine! I've started limiting my intake to just Saturday nights and special occasions. Had got a bit dependant on it after MC. Not, as you say Strike, AA dependant, but it helped me sleep and I felt happy for a little while. But i've eased up now, so hope that helps with weight issue.

no what you mean about the wine. Strike1 - I had a real down day yesterday too. Sorry to you all if I came across as miss mopey. Have cheered up a lot today. Feeling all sorts of symptons twinges in all the right areas so keep my hopes up.

Right I am cd23, 5ft 6 - and no idea what I weigh as have no scales at hoime - due to my obsessive nature. Did go down to a size 10 after DS but started to put on normal PG weight with mc. Another reason why it seems so unfair!!!

Oh and I think I might be the only Londoner?

Missmibaby, I'm in sw london (ish, it's the burbs really) Twickenham, where are you? Figers crossed for symptoms, when are you going to test?

Just come back from running about in my hamster wheel (that's what I like to call the gym) working at home means that if I don't do that I don't go outside some days!!

CD25 today, caved in and did a test. There is a vvv feint pink line. Called the First Response help line to check if there was any way a negative result could produce a v faint line, lady said no and that if you're testing 4 days B4 AF due that is what you should expect. Gone into shock. Will test again at the weekend, can't tell dh yet, it's too soon. Don't know what to do with myself, dd is having nap. Will be buying more tests later. Oh my god, very strange feeling, too scared to be excited, and line was so, so feint. Need to see a strong line. I am 5ft 8 and about 8 st, I have been trying to put on weight and can't seem to, I do wonder if being quite thin had anything to do with prev MC. Am going to eat some pies.

Excellent news auntynon!! A line is a line!!!

AUNTYNON Boots have a buy 1 get 1 free offer on First Response - stock up. I did a FR test on Monday - v faint line too. then no line yesterday. going to test again on CD 28. V. excited for you.
Strike1 I'm in SE London.

auntynon - thats brilliant, you know that means you're pregnant don;t you!!!!! cngratulations. i'd go out and get another 120 tests and do them all well doen hunny bun. excellent

p.s. auntynin, you can have some of my weight if you like

Defo going to Boots later. Trying to be calm. With dd I felt so ill at 6 weeks with sickness/tiredness etc, with 2nd pregnancy that ended in mc at 8 weeks I never felt 'pregnant' Will be rejoicing at any signs of nausea!

If I really have concieved it has happened very quickly, it almost seems to good to be true, don't want to count chicks B4 hatched.

good way of thinking auntynon i would be the same, how pregnant are you then?? when was your last af?

Diddle, my sister has been trying of off load some of her weight, she goes to ww and has the most amazing boobs and cleavage, we look like laurel and hardy next to one another, she's big but in proportion, she has curves where you want them. My 2yr dd has more curves than me!

Diddle, last AF was 28th Aug, very early days, MC was 31st July.

Actually more like jessica rabbit and olive oil!

thats makes you 3 1/2 weeks.

WOW-WEEEEE!!! Another BFP!!!!! This is a fantastic thread!!

CONGRATULATIONS Auntynon!! What fabby news!!!!! Really, really for you, hun.

Diddle, you can't have a new thread for 6 months when DH finally comes to his senses and lets us have another!!!!

Missmibaby - We are all entitled to down days, and we are here for each other when we do. Let it all out, hun! Glad you're feeling better today though Oh, and where in SE london are you?

Oh coathanger you voted for a new one you nutcase.

I know I did! But changed my mind, seeing as this one is SOOOOOOOOOO lucky!!

Auntynon we're practically on the same cycle - think I'm two days behind you.

CH I'm in Lewisham, you anywhere near?

How are the other BFPs feeling today btw