Hello Frolickers,
Hope we are all ok, I am not 
I have a stinking cold and have finally given in and left work early to curl up on the sofa with honey and lemon, a hot water bottle and some s**t TV which is currently showing me someone giving birth, it looks fun. NOT.
However, I get bored easily so am going to take the opportunity to do a mammoth catch up on here. My DP thinks I am very sad but I don't care. I also text him a photo of me looking sad with my tigger hot water bottle and he replied with a picture of him at work on the loo. He's a real charmer sometimes 
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to all of you starting to coo over take that, I'm afraid it's rather lost on me. I was a boyzone girl followed by Five. I never really got that in to Take That but I know quite a lot of people who have been to see them in concert and had a great time so if you are a fan its most definitely worth going by the sound of it!
Truff you saying about getting your DH to a Take That concert - I tried to get my DP to come with me to see the Vagina Monologues on Saturday night as someone offered free tickets but he would not budge at all, not even when I threatened to leave him 
. He obviously doesn't love me as much as I thought he did.
hello highheels glad you are getting on well with the butterfly. I am still a bit scared of it but getting there. For some reason I seemed to have lost my pojo (rather than mojo - get it 
just of late and having done the gemini easy peasy the very first time have been struggling to do it ever since. Last night we did a spider climb. can't seem to find any videos of anyone doing it but its a transitional move and a bit weird looking but its good for getting into easy knees. I too love pole for the same reasons, every lesson I feel myself getting stronger its ace. Although last night one of the instructors was practicing a hip hold I think it was, lost her grip and fell from quite a height. it was a very scary moment but luckily she was ok and it was certainly a reminder of how dangerous it can be. Always respect the pole!!
toria sorry to hear about BFN, might be a bit early though to test even if you are 14 days past. I know nothing about temps because I cant quite face getting going on all that just yet. I am going to wait until Christmas then maybe give it a go but you are supposed to get warmer when pg I believe so if they are going up it must be good?
Florin hope ERTD sorts itself soon so you can get your tests done and get going and glad you are feeling positive.
HRH sorry to hear work is a nightmare. Week before last I had cystitis so decided to work from home which is not something I would normally do but I wasn't so ill I couldn't work but definitely could not have been in work but you wouldn't believe the panic! I spent all day fielding calls from people asking what was wrong! Nightmare, I'll just call in sick next time and be done with it.
tomboy your symptoms sound promising and as someone said to me earlier in the month, if you are pregnant you are pregnant, so leaving it a while until you find out wont do any harm, it just gives you less time to stress about things then so you are right to take a break from POAS. I find seeing a BFN more upsetting than getting my period to be honest. Fingers crossed for you!!
MissFlick sorry to hear about your headache. I get migraines and they are evil things, they nearly cripple me for a whole day then leave me drained for a couple of days after that. Really horrible. The worst of it is my mum and my nan used to get migraines when they were pregnant so I'm hoping it doesn't follow in the family. they get nose bleeds too......
josie I just read your post about taking a break. Hope you are ok lovely. It's a very hard decision to take. It nearly broke my heart back at the beginning of the year as my work was unsafe and DP and I were having a few problems but we decided to try again in June and we both feel so much more comfortable with it this time so if a break is what you feel you need to take then I'm sure it will be the right decision. Do hang around with us girls though, we will always be around for one another!
garden I am very excited for your impending shagathon too! Mr RBT would be knackered bless him but he'd give it a good go. We managed three times on Saturday but that was more frivolous than baby making so good luck!!
Womanly and Garden well done on the long runs, I love the idea of running but I just cant get into it. I go for a quick one of around 5/6k and im dying!!! Then I ache for a month and get totally put off doing it. There must be a way of building myself up gradually .
I had loads of EWCM today and yesterday. Got a SWI in last night which was nice but I also had EWCM last weekend too. I think we SWI at some point last weekend but deffo didn't do anything through the week until Saturday so I'm not sure what is going on. I'm not going to worry about it too much. I've missed the Christmas club and to be honest, if I'm not pregnant over christmas I wont worry to much, my dad makes the most awesome but lethally alcoholic mulled wine/punch ever so it will be nice to down a few pints. it also means that I will be ovulating on Christmas day ish so would be lovely to conceive a baby on Christmas day!! Oh the things I fill my little brain with to stop me being sad that each month wasn't my month. I am however getting excited about Christmas now. Im starting to feel a bit festive and so is DP. Its never good when DP starts to feel festive because he usually restrains me but if he starts off there is no hope for me!! Anyways, I am getting rather engrossed in my film so I'm off.
Happy Tuesday everyone xx