Phew- what a busy day! but I don't feel like I have even done anything 
Thanks so much for all of your messages of support yesterday. I am feeling much better today and feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders .I am not worrying about my cycles anymore as I feel I have taken control and now things are going to be sorted out whereas before I was just worrying and going crazy in my own little brain! Plus, on reflection the doctor did not seem too worried about the multi-cycstic ovary and said that the cyst on my left ovary would hopefully disappear. I think I am quite a cyst-y person as have had one on my kidney before that disappeared so am keeping fingers crossed... either way, the doctor said she would get me ovulating if it turned out that, that?s what the problem was so I am just going to relax and trust her! When my ERTD arrives I?m not going to use my CBFM, I think the problem this month was perhaps that it detected the hormone surge but because of the multiple follicles on my right ovary none of them got big enough to hatch so hence no actual ovulation. Thanks garden for helping me to understand! I am not going to temp and am not going to worry about when I am ovulating as I might not be. Instead, I am going to SWI every other day throughout my cycle and just try to chill out. To help with this I have booked my first session of reflexology for tomorrow so hopefully that will leave me all zen like 
- I am also going to try and do more exercise and drink less I love having a plan, incase you couldn?t tell :) Enough about me anyway as I am VERY boring
zippys Thanks for coming back to let us know you are ok. We?ve all been missing you. You are sounding really positive about ICSI and you never know, as you said it only takes one little spermy and as they are being boosted by all of those lovely vits..... I can?t remember if you said before that you have private medical insurance? If you do, does it cover ICSI? Come back soon and update us sweet xxxx
kkas I?ve been around long enough to remember you talking about your dh before. So sorry that you are going through it again. I think it does sound like an emotional issue, like the poor guy has got himself into a bit of a viscious cycle like you said. I think that the fact it seems to be an emotional issue means that couples counselling could really help you guys as he seems to be putting lots of pressure on himself. I don?t have any experience myself but friends of mine have been and it has really helped.
kurly Try to stay positive honey. Your doctor said it was very unlikely that you had any of the things that can cause a false positive and he certainly wouldn?t have mentioned it of you hadn?t of directly asked him. Try to stop googling too [hypocrite emoticon] as all is still well and is going to stay that way :) Did the doctor say anymore about dating your pregnancy?
bellaI still want to be in the christmas club! I am picturing you in it too :) Any signs of your ERTD arriving yet? have you a date in mind when you might tentatively POAS? Well done for gyming today, you put me to shame! I didn?t comment about your house in Kent yesterday, but how lovely to be able to get out of London at the weekend! When do you think you will move there permanently? Desperate for my ?gap year? too! Enjoy your yummy lunch!
crazy Thanks for the link honey. You haven?t actually left us have you? You must stay! Miss you and your chatter :) Definitely buy Mad Men- You?ll LOVE the clothes even more when you watch the series.
raspberry good symptoms!!!!! YOu are very restrained to wait until Thursday to retest- hope you enjoyed your pole dancing!
lanky We are cyst twins! What day are you going back for your scan next week? I?m sure it will have cleared up and gone away. No, she didn?t mention ERTD. I wish I had asked but I forgot to. I might phone up in a week or so if it?s still not here and see what she can suggest as I am eager to get those bloods done asap. I do feel like it is on it?s way due to the hideously sore nips which always come about a week before ERTD arrives but who knows with my body these days! I am planning to book the Fat Buck for Friday lunch so glad you said it was nice at that time. I?ll be back in the UK on the 1st October for a flying visit to a friends wedding where Mr. Flick is best man and then again for Christmas and then sometime in the summer. As for long term... we?re not sure. Our contract was for two years but we can extend it for another two years. We think definitely four years in total (so three more) but we sometimes talk about being here for six in total.... not sure! Thanks for asking about my headache- I actually woke up with it today but rubbing some magic 4head on has kept it at bay all day. It is the sort of sicky headache I get just before ERTD so I hope that means it?s on it?s way but as I said above... who knows?!
I remember that someone asked me whether the wedding I am going to in December is at the Fat Buck as well but I can?t find that post so sorry to whoever asked but No, the wedding is in a converted ten mins drive away from the Fat Buck.
garden Your explanation really helped- thanks lovely. I think I must be a bit like you as I have had regular cycles which indicates ovulation but then I have also has long ones and I remember your ovulation being described as irregular but not absent. I have been reading today and there is a higher than average chance of multiple pregnancies (as in twins etc, not more than one pregnancy!) with multi- follicles/cysts on ovaries as a couple can sometimes get big enough to pop in a cycle....EEEKKK. Definitely think you should chuck in your client so you can spend more time on here! LOVE you sozzled post too, where had you been? Have you rescheduled your scan for tomorrow or are you just going to wait it out?
Where is cave?!
womanly Thanks so much for your detailed advice lovely. It really made me feel better to know that PCOS is so common and that most women don?t even know they have it. Can I ask you a question about running? Do you/have you always enjoyed it? I think I need to start doing something other than swimming but I just hate running. Am wondering if I might grow to like it if I persevere?
cherry the Three Follicles loves you too. Don?t leave us! Have you any new symptoms and have you made a doctors appointment yet? Still so excited for you!
higheels Good luck today with phoning the clinic. Be firm and assertive- maybe write down all you want to say and have it front of you when you phone. Sorry you had such a crap appointment yesterday and heard that pile of poo about relaxing again 
Excited to hear about your acupuncture on Thurs and have fingers crossed for you and garden to ovulate this month.
tomboy fingers crossed that you are on for BFP number 6 of September :) What makes you think that you had an anovulatory cycle this time? Perhaps your eggy was just a bit shy and popped out late?
alienOuch to the small chairs! Mr. Flick moans about that too, being a 6ft1 male! Still keeping fingers crossed for you despite the vanishing of sore boobs. Hope you have a good day today with the little darlings!
toria Great news on your dh backing down in housework row! You have him well trained!
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