Minipie, Amanda, and others whose OH is not on board, I really feel for you. Sometimes guys just need a bit of time to grow up catch up to us.
My DH was not so sure last year when I was already broody. He did know that he wanted children, but didn't think we were quite ready. I realised that part of the problem was that he had never really been around children. His siblings are very close to him in age, so they grew up together, and he has no nieces/nephews yet. Only a couple of his friends have children, and he hardly ever sees them. I, in contrast, have always been around children, babysitting my own siblings and also working as a babysitter as a teenager. Loads of my friends have kids, and I think I took it for granted that everyone might have the same perspective as me.
I think it really helped that a few months ago, we babysat a friend's newborn baby for an evening. DH realised he could hold a baby without dropping him, fed him, and enjoyed cuddling him. I think he also really enjoyed seeing how I interacted with the baby. I can be a bit uptight sometimes but I am really in my element with children, and I think it was some relief to DH to see that I could be relaxed about it. From that stage on, our conversations about TTC became much less abstract, and I've now managed to move our original TTC plan up by 2 years!
Have your OHs had any chance to interact with babies/children? Maybe there is a fear of the unknown at play here?
nannyl, please let us know how you get on with the Clear Blue Fertility Monitor. I've decided to see how it goes for a few months, but may look into that at some stage depending on how easily this comes for us.
JustShagging, well done on the 5K! To me, running is only a few degrees away from torture, so I'm well impressed! Good luck sorting out your potential move to Bath.
Bebejones, glad your party went well! Good luck with your mum - is she dropping hints about grandchildren yet? I know mine is, although to her credit, they have been mostly subtle so far.
Okay, back to work!