Mum has driven me nuts this morning, absolutely bleddy nuts. First she phoned me , while l was in the bath , l had to get out to answer and get back in again and l hate doing that so it wasn't a good start hmm . She said ' How is Dd2 getting on in work ? . I said 'Aw love her she's missing work terribly , she misses her workmates and the craic' . Mum said 'she must be missing getting up and down in work , being mobile' as if she was a lazy fat pig because she is working from home. She then in the same breath said 'Poor Harvey, fancy he's 27 stone'. I was fuming. Harvey has Prader Willi syndrome, the poor boy always feels starving hungry, it's a terrible syndrome. Honestly she is so bleddy ignorant and unkind. I despair l really do. So then we had to do shopping for them. Not a problem with that but we get up there and the fridge is full of stuff that isn't wrapped properly , ham gone dry, sausages left open for 2 days, l had to throw the lot out . The bins were overflowing , she had fallen in the bathroom again, thankfully she was ok , couldn't find her phone, her hearing aids, her purse, the paper, God knows where her teeth were , her meds had been mixed up, same old, same old hmm . Her mobile when we found it, was wiped of most of the numbers again , l don't know wth she is doing to it . Had to check her phone to see who had left messages, 12 in total and who had tried to phone her, 28 phone numbers and all because it is my SIL birthday and l sent her flowers off Mum and she hasn't spoken to Mum since she went there 16 weeks ago because she didn't agree with her going and it was all my fault according to my SIL apparently. l should have told her and stopped her, so Mum is looking all the time to see if sil has rung her, Mum has rung the SIL/Brothers house 6 times this morning hmm hmm. I feel sad for her because she worships them and they don't GAF about her. Had to phone Bob's Dd then, I am totally deaf my left side and l was leaving a message saying l was at his address and it is a Welsh Name, Mum interrupted my message to tell me l was saying the address wrong and was mispronouncing it, when l ended the call immediately because l couldn't hear what she was saying , l said 'Mum don't interupt me while l am leaving a message', she put her head down as if l had hit her and damaged her is some way. Totally overreacting when she should have said 'oh darling l am sorry you can't hear me speaking and use the phone'. Mum asked me to see if Bob could have his eyes tested when Specsavers came to do Mum . So when l rung Bob's daughter she said yes that's fine & confided in me that Bob had broken the power washer the week before, had it repaired only last week , then he has broken it yet again this week , she wasn't very happy with him lol. She said she is going to buy him an electric Karcher one she is fed up of repairing it hmm. She is so lucky that she ONLY has to do that for him because we do everything else ! Then l put the phone down and Mum pipes up with' l am so glad you are friends with Bob's daughter now' as if l hadn't been friends with her and it was my fault. Bob's daughter was very rude to me when Mum first went to stay and we spoke via text but l didn't reply to her last very abrupt rude text.
I took several nice cards up for the next few birthdays etc for Mum to give to ppl. Mum only filled in my Dd2 card which isn't until 4 weeks away and she wrote it to my other Dd1 ! She just doesn't listen!
However I promise l am not the pooh troll smile the worst thing was, Mum had managed somehow to give herself a glycerine suppository, how the hell she did that l really don't know because her hands are riddled with arthritis & she was sat with the mess under her, on Bob's sofa for the whole time l was there and just as we were going she decides to tell me, 2 hours later ! So l had to clean her up & change her clothes without Bob finding out. l mean how am l supposed to do that when he is sat by the side of her, the poor bgr! Then she says, 'leave the clothes there l will see to them later' .Fully knowing that she won't do them, she is unable to do them physically, that either l do them now, or they will be left there for me to do tomorrow! She is not constipated at all, TRUST ME l WON'T GO INTO IT BUT I KNOW hmm .l told her 'you are getting like an old person who is obsessed with their bowels Mum' I mean FFS! I was really irritated today and she makes me feel like a nasty person & l really don't like it sad.