Red do you live in Monmouthshire m'dear? Only Dewstow Gardens are not that far from me in Abergavenny. to my shame l have never been 
Just heard that our Best man had died. We never bothered after we all got married like you do ( he married twice ), kids , jobs , house, life but saw him now and again in the town, he became an alcoholic and was very poorly , not homeless or anything but very ill, tried to come off it a lot of times, such a shame, DH is shocked to his core bless him.
Right better shift after that bombshell, poor DH why do they always say they are alright and want to brush it under the carpet, MEN!!! 