Well, I haven't managed to get much further over the weekend.
I did find a lovely wooden angel decoration to add to DB and DSIL's "Bride's Basket" collection - they are into wood. I can always use the ceramic one I had in my box for someone else.
I started the conversation with DM about Christmas events. We've agreed on us coming for evening dinner (well, that was kinda expected on both sides) and that we will have a birthday party for DD the following day (I half think she was hoping to be asked to host - but we need neutral ground between the 2 DGMs!). And she knows, and now knows that I know about elder DB coming home for Christmas (with DSIL and DNiece) - but we're both not to let others know until DB is ready much closer to the time (we think a DSis is likely to travel as well when she knows if it's feasible - which it may just about be).
I spent a pleasant couple of hours waiting for DD to finish her surfing lesson - surfing the web in a cosy coffee shop. (Twas miserable drizzle outdoors with a cold wind - quite like winter in fact
!). And checked on the dates for the Holiday Grand Plan starting (28th August). So I plan to go back onto that site today and printing off the calendars and starting my planning properly there.