I don't think Coconutty was calling YOU cunty and wanky for using x's...she was just saying that to her, the use of them looks that way. Nothing personal to you. Calling her a cunt is personal.
It's a MN thing...no kisses, no , no use of the word "hun." It's just the culture of the site, been that way for years.
Also, fwiw, I thought this was a joke thread, which is why I posted the satsuma and goat. I've been on MN for officially over a year and I've not really seen people post photos of massive amounts of presents for their DCs, whether that is for birthdays, Christmas, or just because.
Nor have I seen holiday photos, or shopping "hauls." I think it's very much a new concept for Mumsnet and people are finding it difficult to adjust to.
I know the NM thread that was started a few days ago was in bad taste and has caused all of this to start so I know you're only coming here to defend yourselves and to carry on this new thing of posting photos, which is fine, different strokes for different folks.
I think the opinion I've formed from reading this thread is that by putting it all out there for internet strangers to see, it somehow takes the intimacy out of sharing the excitement and anticipation with just my family. I am quite happy with the amount I'll be getting for my DCs when I start but want the admiring of the piles of stuff to be shared with just my DH and I when we wrap it together nearer the time. I get stupidly excited about Christmas, and do the hampers and other ridiculously OTT things, but if I put photos of it all on MN it just, I dunno, takes the heart out of it. It does seem showy, as someone earlier said. This is just MY opinion of course, and I will now leave the thread for you all to enjoy in each other's photos.
In the spirit of Christmas, peace, love, and 