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Hand hold please?

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SunnySusan83 · 18/12/2022 20:26

Looking for a hand hold. My 8 yo daughter has clearly got flu and has been the illest I have ever seen her for 5-6 days. 40+ temps, cough and now full of snot. She lays on the sofa all day and now we're on day 5 and she says she can't eat, and that it hurts her stomach to drink. She was sick in the night last night very forcefully. It was green due to empty stomach with white chunks. She burst tiny blood vessels around her mouth being sick. Usually this happens around her eyes. It caught us by surprise as her first bought it sickness. I phoned 111 both yesterday and after she'd been sick today. Both times they've said it's flu and to manage at home.

Earlier on she seemed a bit perkier and got out of bed to lie on the sofa, she said she felt better for a while but then had a sudden bout of forceful sickness again. This was completely unexpected and she hasn't eaten any thing today, although we've managed to keep fluids up with little sips.

When she was sick it was white / clear froth but then tiny black / dark red blood clots / specks. This is clearly what they were. There weren't many, maybe 20-30 floating around, so it didn't make up most of the vomit - although there wasn't much.

Of course I phoned 111 straight back and have now been waiting 4 hours for a call back. They are extremely busy and are saying they may not even be able to get to us throughout the night.

Online there are varying bits of information. Some saying medical emergency, some saying viral. She is now sleeping peacefully as absolutely exhausted. She says her tummy hurts when you ask but isn't clawing the walls or crying, she's able to rest and chat and smile a bit - but eating is a hard no and drinking only because I tell her to.

It's a scary time at the moment and feels like it's so very hard to access help. I'm doing my best listening to 111 as I know the local children's hospital is saying an 8 hour wait and she's so tired and weak I really don't want to do that unless I have to.

Can anyone provide reassurance if their child has had this? Obviously awaiting 111, will call the GP tomorrow and if it happens again tonight will be straight to A&E. please help 😓😓😓😓😓

OP posts:
Shutthegatepeter · 19/12/2022 20:18

Aww OP, what a night you’ve had. I hope your dd is feeling better and I hope you are too. My little boy is currently very poorly with flu like symptoms, there’s so much going around at the moment. Wishing your dd a speedy recovery.

mulberrybag5 · 20/12/2022 07:35

Thinking of you xxx

hopskijump · 20/12/2022 10:04

@SunnySusan83 How is she doing today? Really hope there's been an improvement, don't forget to look after yourself as well

SunnySusan83 · 20/12/2022 10:12

Hi everyone. We're home now, after ultrasounds and chest x rays. Something showed up on the chest x rays so they gave us 10 days antibiotics. They have said it was a somewhat unusual case but they believe 'infective' either viral or bacterial, they couldn't tell.
She has slept for 17.5 hours and is up and about today, although no appetite yet.
Mentally, it's going to take some time to recover for me. A lot went on at the hospital that I found traumatising but I'm not going to go into details as I don't think it was anyone's fault or would be constructive or appear I was moaning. So for me, it's baby steps too.

Thanks so much to everyone for the hand hold, you came through in a dark hour!

I'm going to leave this post here now, but hope I can do the same for one of you in the future x

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Eatentoomanyroses · 20/12/2022 11:41

Aaaw @SunnySusan83 I’m glad she’s home and I really feel for you, nothing else than a sick child and feeling helpless

lorisparkle · 20/12/2022 12:11

Good to hear you are home with antibiotics for your dc. Hope she feels better soon. Make sure you do have an opportunity to talk about what happened. It is good to get things out.

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