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Hand hold please?

131 replies

SunnySusan83 · 18/12/2022 20:26

Looking for a hand hold. My 8 yo daughter has clearly got flu and has been the illest I have ever seen her for 5-6 days. 40+ temps, cough and now full of snot. She lays on the sofa all day and now we're on day 5 and she says she can't eat, and that it hurts her stomach to drink. She was sick in the night last night very forcefully. It was green due to empty stomach with white chunks. She burst tiny blood vessels around her mouth being sick. Usually this happens around her eyes. It caught us by surprise as her first bought it sickness. I phoned 111 both yesterday and after she'd been sick today. Both times they've said it's flu and to manage at home.

Earlier on she seemed a bit perkier and got out of bed to lie on the sofa, she said she felt better for a while but then had a sudden bout of forceful sickness again. This was completely unexpected and she hasn't eaten any thing today, although we've managed to keep fluids up with little sips.

When she was sick it was white / clear froth but then tiny black / dark red blood clots / specks. This is clearly what they were. There weren't many, maybe 20-30 floating around, so it didn't make up most of the vomit - although there wasn't much.

Of course I phoned 111 straight back and have now been waiting 4 hours for a call back. They are extremely busy and are saying they may not even be able to get to us throughout the night.

Online there are varying bits of information. Some saying medical emergency, some saying viral. She is now sleeping peacefully as absolutely exhausted. She says her tummy hurts when you ask but isn't clawing the walls or crying, she's able to rest and chat and smile a bit - but eating is a hard no and drinking only because I tell her to.

It's a scary time at the moment and feels like it's so very hard to access help. I'm doing my best listening to 111 as I know the local children's hospital is saying an 8 hour wait and she's so tired and weak I really don't want to do that unless I have to.

Can anyone provide reassurance if their child has had this? Obviously awaiting 111, will call the GP tomorrow and if it happens again tonight will be straight to A&E. please help 😓😓😓😓😓

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RoseBucket · 18/12/2022 22:51

She might be dehydrated so you’re in the right place.

Maya678 · 18/12/2022 22:55

Hand hold from me too OP, really hoping you get seen soon. Thinking of you both.

PinkButtercups · 18/12/2022 22:57

Oh bless her!

I have two week old twins and my boy threw up green vomit and was a medical emergency. He was in the NICU and had to be transferred for a special X-ray to check for blockages etc in his stomach.

Obviously could be different from a baby to a child but you've done the right thing getting checked.

Green vomit isn't normal so don't let them dismiss her x

justasmalltownmum · 18/12/2022 22:58

Go to a and e

Sameshitdifferentdayx · 18/12/2022 23:01

justasmalltownmum · 18/12/2022 22:58

Go to a and e

OP is at A&E

spiderlight · 18/12/2022 23:04

Bless her heart. I hope you're seen soon.

Tabitha888 · 18/12/2022 23:05

Sending so much love to you op xx hope she's ok xxx

WorryMcGee · 18/12/2022 23:06

You’re in the right place. To reassure you a bit (I hope) I’m in the middle of chemo, have no immune system, and I had to go to A&E the other week - was waiting two hours, I didn’t catch anything there despite it being full of coughing and spluttering poorly people. It’s not a given that she’ll pick up something else and it’s best you’re there just in case. All the best ❤️

Lefleur · 18/12/2022 23:06

Sending you and your little girl lots of love and best wishes, thinking of you xxx

SunnySusan83 · 18/12/2022 23:18

Thank you all for you replies, it really means the world, I'm so upset and worried. We've been triaged now and my daughter was very forcibly sick whilst in there which was handy I suppose. A few tiny bits this time but more red, nothing that concerning. Nurse has put Emla cream straight on her though so I'm guessing it's a given she'll be having blood tests

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Luckymummytoone · 18/12/2022 23:23

Bless her how awful, hope she feels better soon. Never compare your needs to others ❤️ she sounds poorly ❤️‍🩹 I was the same with my son recently and he was the only one that actually needed extra tests and treatment even though he looked very mild compared to the poorly little ones x x

Perime · 18/12/2022 23:24

Glad to hear you've at least been triaged. You really are in the right place and did the right thing by taking her. I hope she gets her bloods taken quickly an you get some answers soon

SunnySusan83 · 18/12/2022 23:25

I've got PTSD from previous hospital stays with her as pathetic as that sounds. So I'm having real trouble not crying and remaining calm. I'm so worried about her as she was already undergoing tests for some scary things x

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Beansontoast45 · 18/12/2022 23:36

Friends daughter vomited blood after being unwell with flu. Turns out she had burst blood vessels in her throat (I think) anyway nothing to worry about. You have done the right thing going to A&E, you would never forgive yourself if you didn’t go and something happened.

Afterfire · 18/12/2022 23:42

I’m so sorry your little one is so unwell. I have a real phobia of hospitals due to my own chronic ill health and many admissions so I can only imagine how upsetting it must be when it’s your child in that situation but as hard as it is you need to be there and I’m sure they can help. Hope you get some answers and treatment soon.

Unsureofitall · 18/12/2022 23:48

Hi OP, I'm still awake and will be for a while. Hospitals are horrible, the few times I've taken my daughter there for her asthma, I've been a big bag of nerves. Try not to panic, you've been triaged and she will get the help she needs soonish. Did you bring anything with you to pass time ?

HowcanIhelp123 · 18/12/2022 23:55

I'm sorry she's so unwell! You did the right thing taking her to A&E. If she's not been keeping things down for at least 5 days now she must be so dehydrated. Hope she perks up

MyKitchenRules · 18/12/2022 23:56

You are doing the right thing being there. It's a long stretch of a high temp. And you know your own child best. Yes others may come and be seen before you. But if any changes please notify the staff.

They should have access to previous bloods or issues if you are worried.

SouperNoodle · 18/12/2022 23:58

Sending you a handhold and a hug. I hope she gets seen by a dr very very soon xx

SunnySusan83 · 18/12/2022 23:58

I bought my daughters iPad with me and my phone. That's it. She's thinking she's going to be sick again 😓 what the hell is going on?! Looking like she can't keep anything down now. Where has this come from? 😢

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Nosleepforthismum · 19/12/2022 00:07

Oh OP, big handhold here from me. Glad she’s been triaged now. Hopefully they can get to the bottom of it and at least give her something to make her feel better in the meantime. I’ve been to a&e so many times in the last few months with my DS so I know how awful the wait is, especially at the weekend.

ThelmaDinkley · 19/12/2022 00:07

You’re in the best place OP. I hope you get to see a dr soon and your dd gets better soon.

Bluekerfuffle · 19/12/2022 00:14

I hope she is seen soon and also is soon on the mend. It’s not a nice place to be for hours but I think you made the right decision just to be sure xx

Mince314s · 19/12/2022 00:17

If it makes you feel any better I spent some quality time in BCH a+e then wards with a small child recently and it was incredibly hard but once they decided something needed doing it was sorted quickly. I was absolutely terrified and cried so easily the whole time we were there which felt really embarrassing but it's not just you that has felt that way!! The stress and adrenaline wore me out for a few days after so would definitely recommend trying to take care of yourself as much as you can. This is a good time to accept help.

SunnySusan83 · 19/12/2022 00:24

Thank you all. I hope it's sorted quickly. I just want us all home and well and together x

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