Hand hold. No heartbeat 38+5 being induced currently.

[MisssC3025]

Hi all..

Just need some people to talk to. My baby was diagnosed with a lethal condition at 20wks. We decided to carry to term knowing that he may pass away in utero... which has been the case for us.. we found out yesterday after experiencing no movement 😭😔 (38wks +5)

Came into hosp this morn to start induction process. Have had two lots of misoprostol. Cervix examination at 4pm suggested that my cervix is still posterior.

After first tablet was inserted at 12pm I started getting bad cramps like period pain. Since getting my second they're much stronger. My back is achey!! Have so far just had paracetamol.

It's an ongoing dull painful ache and my tummy tightens every now and then. This is my first pregnancy so no idea how contractions should feel!

Any advice support would be grateful. Obviously if things progress I may not be able to message but at the moment I'd really like some people to talk to.

Anyone with similar experiences 💙💙

I’m so so sorry, thinking of you during this difficult time 💐

I’m so sorry that you’re having to go through this. Thinking of you.

Lighting a candle for you and your beautiful little man. Welcome, little one x

I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Your posts convey your bravery and love for your baby though, and the strength which will see you through labour. I have no advice, I can't imagine what you're experiencing, but know that I am here thinking of you, alongside all of the other women on this thread, lending our strength and love to you.

Sending love and a handhold

I’ve just lit a candle too 🕯
I pray our words and unity somehow comfort you.

So much love coming your way from this thread. I’ll be thinking of you tonight. Brave, brave woman. Enjoy the time you do get with him; my friend went through the same and said that she and her husband lay down either side of their baby for hours, just being with her.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Wishing you all the best

You’re not alone Op, there are so many posters here sending love and strength your way. I hope you take advantage of all the pain relief and other support available and remember that people who have experienced similar loss will be here afterwards too you’re an incredible Mum.

I was very moved by the post of a PP above who gave birth to twin boys at 30 weeks. I'm sure that has helped you more than anything I can say.

You are a wonderful strong mother and no one can take that away from you. I will be thinking of you going forward and wishing you happier times, never forgetting your baby boy.

Thinking of you and your baby

I'm so sorry. Wishing you love and strength OP.

I'm so sorry. You're a wonderful mum and your courage and that of the other mum who also shared her story is hard to comprehend.

I hope that you can spend time with your baby soon and that your labour goes well.

You will always be his mother
He will always be your son
You will always love him.

I hope that in the hours to come, and as your beautiful son is delivered, that you somehow feel all the love and comfort everyone here is sending you. That you make those moments to cherish. That however long you have together, that this time will be perfect.

What you are going through now, is only possible because of your love and your strength. Hold onto that. Believe in yourself now and afterwards. In the darkest of times our light shines brightest, of that I am certain.

❤️

Thinking of you OP

I'm so sorry. Stay strong x

Hope every moment with your beautiful boy is as precious as it can be... so very sorry

Another handhold here OP

I’m thinking & praying for peace & strength for you. You sound remarkable & your baby is blessed and have you as his mummy xxx

Oh love, sending you another virtual handhold. You courageous lady

I am so sorry you are going through this. Sending you all the strength in the world.

thinking of you this evening. Take care

You can cry on my shoulder or sob . Whatever you need. Xxxx

Your post brought a lump to my throat. You’re so brave.

There are thousands of women standing right behind you. You can do this.

What is your son’s name x

I'm so sorry.

I am so very sorry, big handhold from me