I am so sorry this has happened. My heart breaks for you.
My twins died in utero at 30 weeks and I was induced. So I ll give you all the info that helped me in.
Labour did take longer, I think I needed up have three doses. The midwives will give you extra care, take it all. Don't think you have to cope with the pain, take whatever pain relief helps, I had gas and air and pethadin (didn't make me foggy, just calmed me down).
Move around if you want to, they don't need to monitor in the same way (you are the priority rather than your baby) so do what feels right, they let me go in shower for ages and use a birth ball.
I'm sorry if some of this is hard to read, but I couldn't find this information when it happened to me and it shocked me...
I don't know when you baby died, but my boys died 4 days before I have birth to them. They were beautiful, fully formed little babies, beautiful eyes, hair, toes...but they had turned a purple colour, in my head I thought they would look pink. Their skin was delicate, so I couldn't dress or bath them. I had to be careful with them. I don't know if this is usual as no talks about it but it did upset me.
As another poster said, take as many photos as you can, I am sure they will get you a cold cot. Take your time. Dress your beautiful baby if you can. The midwives did hand and foot prints, weighted my boys and made me a little tape measure with the length. They swaddled them up for me. Kiss your baby and talk to them.
I honestly have very fond memories of giving birth to my boys. It has taken time but I am proud of myself, it was the hardest thing I will ever do (I hope). It was time with them and birth made me feel normal and that they could have something normal, like other babies.
You are a mother and your baby is just as much a baby as anyone elses. You will do this. Take your time, take pain relief. Final 'tip' you have a teddy for your baby take it/get someone to get it, and let them snuggle. My boys teddies really helped afterwards...
God I am so sorry. Thinking of you.