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Apparently the "technical term" is not breastfeeding nazi/mafia, but BREASTAPO

219 replies

emkana · 09/08/2005 19:23

...according to ridiculous, stupid article in Daily Mail today.

(Thought twice about posting this as I already posted a quote from the Mail on Sunday yesterday.
I do not buy that paper, just saw it at my in-laws on Sunday and in the library today. Phew!)

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harpsichordcarrier · 11/08/2005 15:25

I am laughing so much at this thread that my dd keeps asking if I am alright...
I must admit that I am very disappointed if mil doesn't have the DM for me to read at her house. It makes me so very nicely cross and superior - esp if there is one of those classic articles about women having let themselves go. They are my favourite.

Norks · 11/08/2005 15:31

Just want to go back to the "be allowed" thing - what would happen if they "weren't allowed"?

Prison? The stocks?

Norks · 11/08/2005 15:31

And another FFS comment from the Daily Rail readers:

I think breastfeeding in public smacks of arrogance: ?I want to do this, so the rest of you can put up with it?. As another reader suggested, why not express the milk into a bottle first? I felt very embarrassed when a woman chose a seat near me in a near empty restaurant and proceeded to breastfeed her baby. As other readers have pointed out, there are a lot of natural bodily functions that are not exhibited in public!

  • Caroline, London, UK
serah · 11/08/2005 15:40

does no one else have a wee in the street then?

milward · 11/08/2005 15:51

see plenty of men doing this!!

serah · 11/08/2005 15:58

they're allowed.... I mean, it's only a penis on display then isn't it? In all fairness, theres only a very few that aren't mistaken for a little finger.....

Cadmum · 11/08/2005 16:07

Serah!!! Please, could you keep your no-nos and all your other bits in your clothing? No more public Nork displays.

serah · 11/08/2005 16:12

Apologies Cadmum

slips the norks quietly back in.......

serah · 11/08/2005 16:12

but as for the no-no....

Caligula · 11/08/2005 16:21

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh! Why do I keep on going and looking at that site? It's driving me nuts. Full of comments by people who know literally nothing about breastfeeding. It drives me mental!!!!!

Cadmum · 11/08/2005 16:39

Serah, just to clarify:

No-nos=norks in your world...

monkeytrousers · 11/08/2005 16:42

Make a good t.shirt that

Cadmum · 11/08/2005 16:45

I would certainly buy one!

serah · 11/08/2005 16:49

ah. I thought you meant something else. That wouldn't make a good t-shirt...

monkeytrousers · 11/08/2005 16:55

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babaworshipper · 11/08/2005 16:56

lol at this thread! Norks akimbo I frequently feed on the move, on buses, in restaurants etc. But this is Scotland and no one can stop me ha ha!

Dearly hope that Caroline from London is not my preg SIL who is getting a pre-baby present of The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding!

kama · 11/08/2005 16:59

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Caligula · 11/08/2005 17:09

Yes I'd like to go backwards with Colin and throw him back into the sea whence all our ancestors emerged...

Gosh, isn't the Daily Mail fun. Has anyone ever done a study between its rising circulation and the rise of road rage?

hercules · 11/08/2005 17:10

The sad thing is you couldnt make up these comments if you tried.

hatstand · 11/08/2005 17:23

In case anyone is interested I emailed Hampton Court and got a response. i possibly should have read the articles first - I had got the impression that they were standing by their guns. The email I got today is complete backtracking.

Dear Madam/Sir,

I would like to add my voice to the no doubt many to express disgust and disappointment at your policy on breast-feeding at Hampton Court. I am
a mother of two small children and, as a resident of Kingston, a regular visitor to the Palace.

Breastfeeding is natural, good for babies, discreet, and mothers and their children should not be banished to private rooms to carry it out. Some mothers will prefer such rooms but all mothers should have the choice. If you knew anything about the feeding patterns and other demands of babies then you would realise that to feed a baby always in private, whilst
simultaneously living a life that involved shopping, caring for older children, school runs, family outings, fresh-air and exercise, and
sufficient adult company to stave off post-natal depression, is simply not possible.

Bringing up children is one of the most challenging aspects of life. Doing
it successully benefits the whole of society. It is very disappointing to find such an important part of my local community so lacking in
support.

I would ask you to reconsider your policy. Take a bold step in support of the babies and young mothers who visit you in droves. Let them be the
babies and mothers they are, wherever they are in this beautiful palace. It is, is it not, a national treasure, there for the enjoyment of all? I look forward to your response

Thank you for your email with reference to Hampton Court Palace's
breastfeeding policy.

Although we do have a 'Mother and Baby' room at the palace with
bottle warming and baby changing facilities, running hot and cold water
and chairs, its use by visitors is optional. If visitors choose to
breastfeed their babies in the palace or the gardens they are welcome to
do so, but regrettably this is not what was communicated to Ms Mikkelsen
when she was visiting the State Apartments. We sincerely regret any
upset Ms Mikkelsen experienced during her recent visit with her daughter
and subsequently we have made a public apology to her.

As a result of this unfortunate incident we have invited the National
Childbirth Trust to the palace to discuss our practices relating to
young children and the facilities provided for them so we can work
together to develop a policy which meets the needs of all our visitors.

Historic Royal Palaces welcomes visitors of all ages to the palaces
that we care for, including families with young children. We provide an
exciting and entertaining programme of events by costumed guides
throughout the year aimed at young visitors (but enjoyed by all age
groups) to enhance their experience of one of the nation's most
fascinating royal attractions, and we hope that families continue
enjoying visits to Hampton Court Palace.

Best wishes

Caligula · 11/08/2005 17:32

Great letter Hatstand! Much better than the half-crazed rant I sent them! (Think I might have had a dose of Daily Mail beforehand)

monkeytrousers · 11/08/2005 17:51

"I wish campaigners for breastfeeding in public would get over themselves. If a mother is so concerned about doing what's right for her baby - then stay at home and be a proper mother instead of dragging your tiny off spring around the supermarket, public house or stately home to feed. If you have to venture out - then please spare us.. Given it is an emotive subject - why thrust your flesh on complete strangers?

I do not see the parallel of scantily clad women and breast feeding mothers. I never breast fed in public - because I felt was a private function and I would have felt completely exposed in public - not to mention how unsettling it would have been for my baby."

  • Susie, Milton Keynes, UK

WAR ENSUES!

monkeytrousers · 11/08/2005 17:53

I tried again leaving my name as N.Ork, Bristol but I think they've cottoned on. How many other N.Orks have there been??

cod · 11/08/2005 17:59

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snafu · 11/08/2005 18:00

OMG. Are these people for real?

Susie in MK, I'm going to make it my personal mission in life to track you down and wave my norks in your face at every possible opportunity. Especially if you're eating sandwiches. You are a disgrace to sentient womankind and I bet you've got a mouth like a cat's bottom.