You know what, I keep my posts evidence-based yet I'm a 'militant nutter' and 'on a sick ego trip' and 'should be ashamed of myself.' How on /earth/ do you get to a point where you can say I 'want' formula fed babies to get cancer?
There's an awful lot of judginess and namecalling going on. I have absolutely not attacked or blamed mothers who formula feed. Your anger at me is very much misplaced when I haven't even expressed a personal opinion.
Here's what it is though:
Surveys repeatedly show the vast majority of new mothers intend and want to breastfeed. The majority of them stop much earlier than they wanted to.
If you make a free, informed choice to bottlefeed from the get-go, that's your choice. I'm not going to debate your choice with you.
However, the majority of women who eventually turn to bottlefeeding feel that they had no choice and were forced into it by circumstance.
This is bad for them and bad for their babies. So if I'm a 'militant nutter' for thinking this situation should be improved and working to improve it, then feel free to think that. I believe this is an issue in public health that really needs a lot of work and don't think stifling debate, education or information around it in an appropriate forum in order to spare feelings is helpful - we should be aware of the importance of breastfeeding in 'real' terms. Knowing the actual evidence makes us more likely to demand more from our caregivers than knowing a fuzzy message about 'breast being best.'
Most importantly, women are just not getting the actual support they need to establish and maintain breastfeeding. Not enough lactation counsellors and consultants in or out of hospitals Not enough information on where to get support when they leave hospital. Not enough educated doctors and caregivers who know how to recognise and treat common breastfeeding problems, who are prepared to work with women to find medication solutions and just tell them to stop breastfeeding.
Plus we live in a society where a lot of girls never see women breastfeeding.
There are big changes that should be made. Cultural and social changes are the hardest and most complex, but there are plenty of easier ones that could and should be made at government and NHS level to offer practical support and education to both women and their caregivers.