"Because one descision in parenting DOES NOT give you the measure of that parent as a whole does it, which is what Sabire's posts, intentionally or not, have consistently implied."
No they don't. That's just what you've chosen to read into them.
It's the sort of accusation that's often leveled against people who raise concerns about formula feeding - that you do this because you lack compassion or the ability to take a long term view of parenting choices.
I think if you read back through my posts in fairness you must be able to see that I've not said or implied that whether you breastfeed or not is the sum total of your worth as a parent. I'm not stupid or callous - I know parents generally ALL do the very best they can for their babies, based on what they're physically and emotionally able to do, and the information that's given to them.
My concern is about the information and support that we're given in relation to this subject, and the way we undermine each other by constantly suggesting that the solution to breastfeeding problems is simply to stop breastfeeding.
If women are given non-evidence based information or no information at all about the differences between ff and af (as so many are at the moment) how can they even being to make an properly informed choice? And how can they realise their choices if they're not supported by people with the right skills?
I think I made my point quite clearly about what I was trying to say in relation to my PERSONAL experience of overcoming breastfeeding problems - maybe you skimmed over that particular post.