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My local radio station was discussing breast feeding in a restaurant last night, and the DJ said..........................................

193 replies

waterfalls · 07/07/2006 12:22

Yes I know its natural, but so is taking a pee and I would'nt do that in the middle of the restaurant, the mothers should do it in the bathroom

I wonder how many complaint letters he can expect in the next few days.

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kittywits · 13/07/2006 11:34

Isn't it AWFUL that we even have to have this discussion? I've heard .T Blair is to pass a law that allows women to feed in public without being harrased or made to feel bad. I've always fed my kids wherever I happened to be if they were hungry. I find crop tops with fat blubbery bellies oozing out over the top offensive.

tiktok · 13/07/2006 11:54

kittywits, no sign that any law is likely to be passed in the near future for England....it is only Scotland who have a law.

LadyTophamHatt · 13/07/2006 12:03

thisis the reply I had...

Good afternoon,

Thankyou for your recent email to Wyvern FM, regarding Late Night Love with Graham Torrington and I can assure you that your email has been fully read and considered.

Late Night Love is put together by an external production team who are not directly under Wyvern FM's 'minute by minute' management.

However, I have listened back to the item to which you refer and am glad to report that it doesn't break any Ofcom guidelines (the radio regulator). Graham is not a counsellor or judge and jury and as a professional radio presenter, has a duty to ensure that all opinions are heard on a particular subject.

The piece you heard was a conversation between himself and a caller (not a one man 'rant'!) in which he drew out her opinions on breastfeeding by playing devil's advocate. She was a strong caller and held her side of the argument and I have no doubt had many hundreds of calls, backing her. However, without the 'devil's advocate' part, the subject might never have made it to air (a subject that I am sure you will agree, deserves frank discussion) or the major points that the caller was capable of making would never have fully been told.

If this particular subject had been covered as a monologue from the presenter without any soliciting for callers and/or frank discussion, I would uphold your complaint. However, as a frank late night balanced discussion from different points of view, it went well beyond a simple radio show and became something that people could talk about, debate and examine their own personal feelings.

There is no hidden agenda in these kind of shows so feel free to phone up Late Night Love and put your point of view when you hear something you would like to discuss. It's what the programme is all about.

I hope this clears any misunderstandings up and thankyou for listening to Wyvern FM.

Gelfling · 13/07/2006 12:28

I breastfed my dd for 18months and never once had any comments when I fed her while we were out and about. Was quite miffed actually - would have loved for somebody to say something so I could get in my spiel about it being the most natural thing in the world

alexsmum · 13/07/2006 12:40

the only comment i ever had when b/fing the dss' was from my pil who kind of expected me to go and sit in the bedroom while feeding-in my own home!!!!!!
i soon showed them i had no intention of doing that!
my bil would come into the room ,see i was b/fing and just walk out blushing like mad, and yet i remember them saying ' oh look at him having a lovely sleep.what will you do about feeding him?' when i was actually feeding at the time!

themoon66 · 13/07/2006 12:42

alexmum - you just reminded me that my PiL expected me to go upstairs in my own house to b/f when they were visiting. It was with first DD, so I never thought it was wrong, I just did it. Second LO got fed wherever, whenever, coz I was more confident and bolshy by then.

alexsmum · 13/07/2006 13:00

they were also very surprised that we changed his nappy downstairs . i think downstairs was just for clean, sleeping babies and all the 'action' so to speak was to happen upsatirs. stuff that!
they soon got to know me better!!!!

LadyTophamHatt · 13/07/2006 13:05

I'm hoping to BF this baby and I really really Really hope someone says something to me about not doing it wherever I am.

God...I'll love it!!!

LTH with excessives hormones is something that most people fear

Ellbell · 13/07/2006 13:07

My dad was clearly uncomfortable about me bf dd2, and used to leave the room on some pretext whenever I started getting ready to feed her. Poor guy must have been awash with cups of tea by the end of the week I spent staying with them! LOL! But, bless him, even he (he's 73, and pretty unreconstructed...) knew better than to say anything - even when I fed her in the cafe in M&S when he was with me! (Guess what? He went and bought another cuppa! )

Seriously though, am horrified by some of the views on here. Blimey!

Ellbell · 13/07/2006 13:07

My dad was clearly uncomfortable about me bf dd2, and used to leave the room on some pretext whenever I started getting ready to feed her. Poor guy must have been awash with cups of tea by the end of the week I spent staying with them! LOL! But, bless him, even he (he's 73, and pretty unreconstructed...) knew better than to say anything - even when I fed her in the cafe in M&S when he was with me! (Guess what? He went and bought another cuppa! )

Seriously though, am horrified by some of the views on here. Blimey!

BornBerry · 13/07/2006 14:51

You can also empower a mum by handing out a thank you for breastfeeding card when you see someone nursing. Lots of sites offer them to download and basically they just say how nice it is to see a mum feeding in public and that her doing so may empower other mums to come out of toilets!

Socci · 13/07/2006 16:29

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wherethewildthingsare · 14/07/2006 08:14

Pinched this from the kellymom site - it is true that if you slap a toddler in public, no-one would say a word, would they?

{http://borgman.enquirer.com/img/daily/1997/06/borgman060897_600x400.jpg\bf in public cartoon}

wherethewildthingsare · 14/07/2006 08:15

Sorry, early morning - try again!

cartoon here

jaamy · 14/07/2006 08:43

Ok everyone - lets all get down to the public loos for a slap up meal...no???...errrr I wonder why?
Grrrrrrr!
This man obviously hasn't got a wife/partner with children, it'll all change IF he ever does! Wasn't it nice of the PR person from Wyvern FM to cover his ar*e?

BornBerry · 14/07/2006 15:06

LOL @ the cartoon, brought a few to mind:
cartoon
the reverse

Theres a fab one regarding people complaining where she pops something over them instead of the baby on the offer to "cover up" but cant locate it.

LeahE · 14/07/2006 15:28

Hmm... given he says himself (or at least strongly implies) in his personal reply to LaDiDaDi that he doesn't approve of public breastfeeding, the studio's response that he was merely playing Devil's Advocate seems a little disingenuous.

sniff · 15/07/2006 06:06

personally thats a crap answer from him I dont like eating my dinner whilst people chat on mobiles smoke eat with there mouth open!! etc my baby does none of these she is very polite
I really dont see why it would put anyone of there food surely a screaming baby would be more irritating to listen to during your meal

somethingunderthebedisdrooling your answer is great I am storing that one in my brain for futher use as my DS is onlt 6 weeks old I am sure I will get to use it sooner or later!!!

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