Hello Ladies!
I've been trying to write a post for days and days and it just isn't working out to plan, so I'm just winging it now. Sorry for the lack of many personals!
SK my Eric also has bad baby acne, and my MIL was saying it was a milk rash, I was feeling rather guilty that I wasn't washing him enough until I read your post about Jacob's baby acne and that it's caused by mummy hormones in the baby's system. My DS1 had it as well, but don't remember it being as bad! Eric also has boobies - he has swelling and lumps under his nipples! I read online that this is also from mummy hormones so poor Eric must have got a big dose from me. I plan to call the health visitor about it tomorrow just to see what she has to say about it, but I think it's fairly common from what I read online and should go away in a couple of weeks.
Sassles well done on getting that job, that's excellent news! So sorry that Samuel has a skin infection, I hope it's clearing up ok.
Hollyoaks and any others struggling a bit with the older DCs, we're having a bit of dissension coming out now that MIL has gone home. My DS1 told me today that he wishes the baby could go back in my tummy! I'm not sure how I'll cope when DH goes back to work, I thank my lucky stars he's still off for 3 more weeks. Hats off to all of you who have been on your own lately, and especially to you Itshappened doing it on your own. It's a real shame Florence's dad isn't interested in seeing her.
ML I am so excited to hear about Olivia cooing and smiling! I can't wait to see Eric smile, he is so nearly, but I doubt we'll see a real one for a couple more weeks. I think once you start getting real emotive reactions out of them it is really fun. I think my DS1 will appreciate this in the baby especially.
I am feeling very emotional and tired, I knew that I would, but it's still hard to cope with. I just keep telling myself that these interrupted nights are only temporary and it will be a distant memory in a few more weeks (fingers crossed). Most mornings lately it's been DS1 waking us up at crazy early hours that is causing most of the problems!
Eric is 3 weeks old and is feeding very well, but I think we're having the growth spurt as he wants to marathon feed the past few evenings. I've not expressed for a couple of days as he's drinking it all! Our nights are mixed, one night he wants to feed every 2 hours, the next he might go 3 or nearly 4 hours between feeds. Sometimes I can get him to settle in the moses basket for part of the night and sometimes he just wants to be in bed with me and DH. He settles better in the basket when he has the dummy, but TBH some nights I'm too tired to keep putting it back in his mouth when it falls out so I just keep him in bed with me. In general, Eric is a lovely chilled out baby, and he seems to use me as a laxative, as every time I feed him he grunts very loudly and forcefully pushes out squelchy poos that sound like comedy sound effects! He's also remarkably good at bringing up his wind, unlike DS1 who was very hard to get to burp. I'm not sure how much Eric weighs now, must be at least 12 lbs, but he's busting out of his 0-3 month sized clothes and is mainly wearing 3-6 month sizes! Won't be long until we've outgrown size 2 nappies as well, glad I didn't stock up now!
I'm meant to start going to physio for my separated stomach muscles soon. Not looking forward to finding the time and effort for that, but I know I must do it if I want to recover properly.
DS1's birthday was a success, the train cake came out well, I only finished it just in time!(if you'd like to see it, the photos are here.) He has just discovered Ben 10, so as I had to learn all the trains' names in Thomas and Friends, I now have to remember the aliens names from Ben 10! Makes me glad I have 2 boys and can make good use of what I've learned about these things! Alimouse it is great that you are enjoying your son and that your older son didn't mind sharing his birthday with the baby!
Still no word from Homebirthmummy4, I hope that everything went well with the induction. It's been about a week now, just wondering when everyone would like to move to a postnatal thread?
I can see that most of you are busy/shattered like I am so the thread has slowed down quite a bit. I am still reading with interest, especially on my mobile whilst I'm feeding Eric at 3am! I'll try to post shorter ones more often when I can!
Yesterday I was watching football with the boys, cheering for my homeland (USA) with my DS1 while DH and Eric supported England. Half of the house is pleased with the result, I think we got lucky!
I hope all of you are doing ok and enjoying your beautiful babies as much as I am!