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DUE SEPTEMBER 2010: SECOND TRIMESTER ALREADY!

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Love2Dance · 11/03/2010 23:32

Hellooooo? Anyone there? Night ZZZzzz.

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comixminx · 12/03/2010 08:02

Yay for new thread!

bananastew · 12/03/2010 08:31

Ooooh! a new thread! hold on, I'll just get the list! Can't forget that!!

bananastew · 12/03/2010 08:44

Here it is!

Inzidoodle #2 EDD 26/08/10 Scotland
MerryMagpie #1 EDD 28/08/10
comixminx #1 EDD 28/08/10 Oxford
Foxyjbro99 #3 EDD 29/08/10 Shropshire
lilypad72 #1 EDD 30/8/10
mcfee #2 EDD 31/08/10
BooStar #1 EDD 01/09/10 New Forest
Stickhasgrownup #3 EDD 02/09/10 SE London
NovemberAli #1 EDD 02/09/10 Nottingham
lillyfc #4 EDD 02/09/10 East Sussex
Babyshoes #2 EDD 02/09/10
ChocolateCalculator #2 02/09/10
swordfishtrombones #3 EDD 02/09/10 SE London
bananastew #2 edd 02/09/10
flippertygibbet# edd 03/09/10
IlariaS #1 EDD 03/09/10
jbakedbean #2 edd 04/09/10
patito #2 EDD 04/09/10
Cakeandfinewine #2 EDD 05/09/10 Staffordshire
Mellousol #1 EDD 05/09/10
Monstermuncher #2 EDD 05/09/10 Glasgow
ciacia #2 EDD 05/09/10
Eleanora #1 EDD 06/09/10
monkeymiss #2 07/09/10
EmmaLM #1 EDD 07/09/10
heather1980 #3 EDD 07/09/10 manchester
eggonlegs #2 EDD 08/09/10
TTTrouble #2 EDD 10/09/10
Surreygirl #2 EDD 10/09/10
LB1981 #1 EDD 10/09/10 NE London
susiey#3 edd 12/09/10 n.london
upsoearly #2 EDD 13/09/10
Cityangel #2 EDD 15/09/10 London
Love2Dance #2 EDD 15/09/10 London
MadameG #1 EDD 16/09/10 London
CathN #1 EDD 16/09/10 London
MudandRoses #2 16/09/10
ArcticFox #1 EDD 16/09/10
Bloominnorah #2 EDD 17/09/10 Scotland
WhiteRoses #1 EDD 17/09/10
cazza41 #1 EDD 17/09/10
Mellymooks #2 EDD 17/09/10
Willthecatbejealous #1 EDD 17/09/10 Leeds
OhFuck #2 EDD 18/09/10 Scotland
LadyRabbit #1 EDD 18/09/10
jaysfourth #4 EDD 19/09/10
Irishgal1 #1 EDD tbc
MammyG #3 EDD 21/09/10 Ireland
HellysBelles #1 EDD 22/9/10 SW London
Nandos #2 and #3 EDD 22/9/10 London
JodeyLea #1 EDD 24/9/10 Birmingham
SkattyKatty #2 EDD 25/09/10
Sunface #3 EDD 25/09/10
Popsy1 EDD 26/09/10
Bellabelly #3 and #4 EDD 26/09/10 W Kent
RunningGuerita #1 EDD 26/09/10
MummyFifi #1 EDD 27/09/10
Bessie123 EDD 29/09/10

I did just catch up on the previous thread but can't remember all the names just yet so,

welcome newbies!

good news on the scans!

The new maternity policy sounds really unfair!

We had a moses basket for ds but borrowed it. It was useful and i'll be borrowing one again but i'm also going to get a crib this time tho because they're bigger and last longer and with ds still in the cot I'm hoping new baby can stay in the crib until ds is ready to go into a bed.

The tiredness seems to have kicked in again! I flipped a bit at DH lastnight. He was late picking Ds up because he was in Magnet looking at kitchens! I had a little rant about how tired I am, growing a baby, looking after a baby, going to work, keeping the house & sorting out the move! I gently pointed out the fact that none of us have any clothes to wear because they're all in the ironing pile & that I would love to go looking for kitchens! He spent the rest of the evening cooking my tea and ironing!!

Monstermuncher · 12/03/2010 09:08

Wow we are here already. So who's got a bump then? I've had to make the move into maternity trousers but to be honest it just seems like a load of wobbly blubber not an actual baby in there ..

Bananastew I'm still tired too although I am pleased to say that the nausea seems to have finally gone

upsoearly · 12/03/2010 09:14

Just joining the new thread. Welcome everyone new.

I'm like you Monstermuncher - big tummy, but it's far too wobbly to be baby-related - think it's probably just cake and chocolate.

Finally feeling less tired now, and since we've had the nuchal scan and all seems to be well I'm beginning to relax into this pregnancy a bit.

Jaysfourth · 12/03/2010 10:41

Sat waiting for NT scan...... Ooooooooo

mellymooks · 12/03/2010 10:45

Hello lovely ones!!
My bump is quite clear now, think I need to get all my mat clothes out of the loft.
Got a cold at the mo so haven't made it into work but my MIL here so she's been looking after DD it's been lovely to have a proper rest.

Feeling peckish going to raid the cupboards.

Jaysfourth · 12/03/2010 11:42

No NT scan for me..... Am 16+3 as opposed to 12 weeks...... I knew it I knew it I knew it......that's why I hv felt it move AND why I heard heartbeat.... I told the MW i was unsure.... Did they listen. No am a bit cross, but kinda happy I am further on than I though....spk later x

bellabelly · 12/03/2010 12:01

Oh wow jaysfourth! That's a whole month ahead?! Blimey, what's your new EDD?

DH has day off work today and I have had a lie-in - bliss! Off to view a couple of houses in a mo, we are renting at the moment and hoping to buy somewhere of our own before September comes around...

I can definitely feel my bump now but sadly there is so much flab on top that I do just look porky rather than pregnant. I like to think that an extra layer or two of flab helps to prevent stretchmarks

LadyRabbit · 12/03/2010 15:29

Jaysfourth are you going to leave us now and go to the August people? Don't go! You may be late and end up with a Sept baby anyway, and let those of us further down the list know what we're in for....

Would it do any harm to keep on taking my folic acid/vit. supplement? I'm using the Femibion one and my bloods all came back looking good so now I'm thinking it can't hurt to keep taking it, right? I'm not taking an iron supplement and bloods say I'm fine. (Plus me + iron supplements = loo issues. Would rather avoid.)

I've already bought a moses basket - John Lewis had them on special. And some baby dungarees and a little hat. I am restraining myself..... desperate to go mad but got ages to go...

Swordfishtrombones · 12/03/2010 15:34

Aha! here you all are! Thanks for starting the new thread Love2Dance.

By the way, you say you are self-employed and won't get maternity pay. Do you know about Maternity Allowance? As long as you have been paying your NI contributions you can claim Maternity Allowance which is pretty much the same as SMP. I was VERY relieved to find out about it as I work freelance and am self-employed. Check out the direct.gov.uk site.

Welcome to all the newbies!

Jaysfourth - sorry you didn't get your scan but how brilliant to have a month taken off your pregnancy just like that . I wouldn't mind a bit of fast-forwarding.

I got some sort of stomach bug on wednesday night. I think it was punishment for saying my morning sickness had gone! I was puking all night and most of yesterday and had to resort to sucking ice cubes as even water made me throw up. Yuk. I'm sure the baby will be fine, but it's such a worry when I feel so dehydrated. Anyway, I've managed some food and drinks today and fingers crossed the DDs don't get it. Not nice.

I'm still in my normal jeans but they are getting a bit tight (especially straight from the wash!) so today I am letting my poor tummy recover by wearing some hilarious materniry leggings which come up to my bust! Since I was sick my stomach has shrunk again (clearly it was stomach and not baby making it bulge) so they look all baggy and pathetic. Comfy though.

mellymooks · 12/03/2010 15:36

ladyrabbit I took folic acid and vits throughout my last pregancy my midwife said it was fine.

Jaysfourth wow! that's a big difference. Don't leave us though eh? We're just all getting to know each other!!

Swordfishtrombones · 12/03/2010 15:43

Who was asking about moses baskets? Was it ArcticFox (sorry -can't be bothered to go back through old thread!)?

I was really lucky as my mum had kept a crib and moses basket that were mine (or possibly my sister's) when we babies, and they've been passed around all my nieces and nephews and my two babies. Blimey - they were value for money! I liked the wicker crib for the first few months being by my bed, and since we had a downstairs the moses basket was great too for popping a sleeping baby in. But they are only for a few months realistically so beg, borrow or steal one if you can! Also, you might get a pushchair with a carrycot which can double up as well. We have a Phil & Ted's and the cocoon was just like a moses basket. Also chances are the baby will fall asleep in teh pram so it's nice to be able to transfer them without waking them up.

I do think the main thing to remember is that you are allowed to go to the shops once you have a baby! I was so desperate to get everything for DD1 and it really wasn't necessary. A few little babygros and vests, socks and hats etc (I did get newborn sizes but both of mine lasted about 2 weeks in those, so I'd suggest getting 0-3 months, or very few newborn things anyway), towels, muslin squares, and a place to sleep. That's really all they need to start with if you are going to breastfeed. Oh, and nappies. Lots of nappies!

Ahhh, I'm looking forward to getting the bags of baby clothes back from my nephew who had them last!

ooosabeauta · 12/03/2010 15:49

Hello all again, newbie here, not added to list as I'm having a bit of a superstitious week, don't know how long before I'm feeling a bit more confident...

What a wonderful thing to happen Jaysfourth! And I think August is a lovely time to have a birthday - garden parties and running around in the sun!

Sorry to hear you've been sick swordfish. I'm paranoid about getting bugs at the moment and had to politely(ish) ask one of my friends not to bring her ill toddler round yesterday, as I just couldn't face the thought of another thing to cope with on top of general exhaustion. Hope you're feeling much better.

ooosabeauta · 12/03/2010 15:54

Yes it was ArcticFox. Having read yours and someone else's post on Moses baskets I'd have to agree - things that some people found indispensable I didn't need, but I couldn't live without some things like bouncy chairs, which others never used. I don't think I'd have got a shower in the first month without one!

Swordfishtrombones · 12/03/2010 16:01

Welcome oosabeauta - and thanks. Yes, feeling much better today (well enough to mumsnet anyway!).

Is this your second? Hope you feel like adding yourself to the list very soon.

We never had a bouncy chair, but we did have a rocker chair that could be used from birth which was very similar and I seem to remember ours was pretty much in the bathroom too! It also folded flat so was really useful to take to other people's houses as well or for weekends away.

ooosabeauta · 12/03/2010 16:31

Yes our bouncy chair lived in the bathroom and I then bought a second for downstairs so that I could go to the loo! I even had to take it apart and pack it in my suitcase to go on a plane when he was 7 months - quite a clingy cuddly baby. He was my first so this would be my second.

I'm gearing myself up for the list. Definitely by 20 weeks, if I get there, God-willing (you see my issue...)

weirdbird · 12/03/2010 19:12

Well I have a bump and can only fit in my normal trousers now by using a expander thingy, but can still get the zipped up.

I have had to break out my maternity tops as my bust has already expanded to such a rate I have gone up 3 cup sizes and I just can't get anything to go over the things, or not without looking like I am auditioning for a role as the buxom wench!

I am still exhausted but it is slowly starting to improve I have actually cooked proper food this week, have made spag bol and a veg lasagne amongst other things and my eldest had a friend home to play after school, there is no way I could have managed that 2 weeks ago.

weirdbird · 12/03/2010 19:25

Oh and I am self employed and will be claiming maternity allowance, as long as you have been paying your class 2 NI contributions you are entitled to claim.

The direct gov website says this:

If you are self-employed and do not have a small earnings exception certificate, for any week covered by a Class 2 NI contribution you will be treated as having enough earnings to result in the standard rate of MA, payable at the end of the week covered by a Class 2 NI contribution. This means that:

From 9 April 2007 treated as earning £125.28
From 7 April 2008 treated as earning £130.20
From 6 April 2009 treated as earning £136.73
Jobcentre Plus will ask HM Revenue & Customs to confirm the information you give about your Class 2 NI contributions on your MA claim form.

You can claim MA when you reach the 14th week before the week in which your baby is due (the 27th week of pregnancy). Ask Jobcentre Plus for a MA Claim pack

You must provide Jobcentre Plus with medical evidence of the date your baby is due. Your doctor or midwife will give you a maternity certificate (form MATB1) after you reach the 20th week before the week in which your baby is due (the 21st week of pregnancy). It cannot be given to you any sooner. Your midwife will usually give you this at your next ante-natal appointment from the 21st week of your pregnancy.

If you are self-employed proof of earnings are not required to establish the rate of MA. However, on receipt of your MA1 claim form Jobcentre Plus will check with HM Revenue & Customs to see if you have been registered as self-employed and/or whether Class 2 NI contributions have been paid or if a small earnings exception certficate is in place.

Hope that helps anyone who is self employed, the advice does differ if you are also employed directly or will have been for any time during your pregnancy!

Jaysfourth · 12/03/2010 19:37

Hi all
not read posts in depth yet, been too busy telling people about impending baby, and how dates have got mixed up etc etc.

Basically my EDD is now the 24th August....but i have been 7-16 days late with all mine, so i will stay here if thats ok Like i said, couldn't have the NT scan, but did have bloods taken and should have the results next week....fingers crossed.

Will catch up and be back after my Pizza

Welcome to all newbies and hi to everyone

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LadyRabbit · 12/03/2010 20:16

Swordfishtrombones aw, I love that you had the crib from your baby days for your own ones. Apart from our Christening gown I don't think I'll be able to get my hands on anything as old as me! Yes, I forgot I will actually have a retail life after baby - but for some reason I seem to treat it as a reason to stockpile, batten down the hatches and never leave once baby has arrived....

weirdbird ta for the self-employed info. Very useful.

Does anyone know when you can get the health in pregnancy grant?

weirdbird · 12/03/2010 20:43

"Does anyone know when you can get the health in pregnancy grant?"

I do, lol

You have to be at least 25 weeks to claim it, you get a cloim form from your GP or Midwife once you are 25 weeks, they need to sign it there and then and then you get 31 days to submit the application.

Yes, can you tell I have been researching what I am entitled too quite extensively!

MammyG · 12/03/2010 21:59

Wow a new thread!
Jaysfourth - how cool! would love to flash forward a month. Feel like I should be further a long or time is just crawling! Goes to show how on the ball your instincts were too!

Have no bump yet just evening bloat. Really want a bump tho! something very reassuring about it.

Got 3 hours sleep last night, boys so out of sorts with bad cold! Have eaten my weight in junk food today - quite disgusting - a real bottomless-pit-for-a-stomach day! And funnily enough first day in weeks I havent thrown up!

Thank Crunchie its Friday - lie on tomorrow! Yipee!

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