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Due May 2010: Into the third trimester we go, can the bumps get any bigger?

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MarquiseDeMerteuil · 02/02/2010 14:19

So here's the continuation of the thread previously known as Due May 2010: Where we get a 'bloom' just in time for the christmas mayhem???
Let's see if this one lasts up until the first birth... Knowing how chatty we can be, I doubt it!

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pigleychez · 20/02/2010 14:33

Kateyjane- Hope things can start improving for you now.

SK- Hope you are having a better day today. Hate days like that when they are just being complete monkeys! DD has her days am im sooo glad when DH comes home!

Rachel- Love the bump pic
I too have the GTT next week. Dreading it!

Hollyoaks- Glad your consultant appointment went well.

Pamlet- A cleaner sounds fab. Im planning to work on DH for one

Squirtsmum- Big relief that everything is k with LO's heart.
think about a birthplan but id say def be open minded as you never know how things are going to turn out on the day.

DH has a hobby of playing Online Poker. He generally does quite well and often wins a few hundred pounds. Well last night he played a big tournament and ended up coming second. He won £5,000!! Fantastic We need a new front door as the one we inherited when we moved is yellowy and old pvc. A new one will make all the difference. So tempted to Jet off on a exotic holiday somewhere with the money but dont think the long flight with DD would be much fun!

Just baked Carrot muffins in an attempt to eat something nice but abit healthy (its got carrots in!- doesnt that count!). Have eaten so much choc in the past few days its unreal!

Sweetpeasmum · 20/02/2010 14:41

Pigley - congrats to you and your hubby on the win. Are you sure you don't even fancy a tiny wafer thin holiday???

itshappenedagain · 20/02/2010 14:56

hello!

pigley- fantastic about the win...im sure you will find uses for the money!

well my mum should arrive in about 1.5 hours and the house is like a new pin...just about to put the bins out and flop n the sofa! DS has been fab and played (mainly by himself) most of the day, although he did help me clean all the windows. i do feel much better now its all done, just the ironing to do tonight then you wouldnt know we even lived here.

ill be glad when scholl reopens on tuesday so i can get more doen whilst Ds is at nursery, including washing baby clothes and putting some in the hospital bag, just have to buy more nursing bras then the bag should be complete! yeah!

well think i may take Ds for a quick trip to the park or around the block on his bike.

take care all

mustbemadno3 · 20/02/2010 18:24

congratulations on the win pigley how lovely.

Re the preganancy grant do you get a letter to say the money has gone in or do you have to check your bank statement?

Had a lovely day today my sis had the kids so me and dh went to lots of baby shops and just about brought everything just need to buy some baby clothes but unsure of size as last dc were very small and 0-3 were too big! Mind you the size of my bump and Im measuring a week bigger suggests this one may be bigger! Had a nice lunch and nice to have a day together.

I am in the cramp club too lots of cramps early morning in toes and calves.
Hope everyone is feeling o.k?

littleowls · 20/02/2010 18:27

Hello all,

Squirt - Good news about LOs heart. I have been thinking about a birth plan and what I would like to happen but I want to be open minded too.

Pigley - that's great about the win! The carrot muffins sound yummy, I have been a bit of a chocolate fiend at the moment. Back on the oranges and grapes next week when I go back to work!

Sweetpea - A cleaner sounds like such a good idea. I find that when I clean, I get into a huge bad mood and start getting stressed. DH would never go for a cleaner. Pamelat, you should definitely get one!

Itshappened - what are you packing for LO in your bag? I've got nappies and a blanket so far...

I've had a truly lazy day. Now I'm starting to feel guilty that I haven't hoovered or mopped the floors at least. So much needs to be done. Hope this nesting thing kicks in soon!

Hope everyone else has had a good weekend x

pigleychez · 20/02/2010 20:56

Happenedagain- Enjoy your mum staying

Mustbemad- fab shopping day!

Few what a day!! Out shopping this morning... All that money to spend and we only bought DD some cheap books! Oh well, shes happy!

Baby has been so active all day. DH has been amazed watching it. The foot sticking out the top of my bump is most uncomfortable though!

DH and I are in complete shock tonight. BIL has just rang saying that they are expecting. My SIL is 10 weeks pregnant. This has come so much out of the blue, they are both late 30's, not married, been together for about 15 years and SIL doesnt seem maternal in the slightest. I think she will be a fab mum but just cannot picture her with a bump or baby. Both of us just keep chuckling as that was the last thing we expected to hear when they rung tonight! Pure and utter
Really pleased for them though. DD and this one will have a little cousin! I bet my MIL is doing cartwheels as she had almost written them off ever having kids or getting married!

Think I need a stiff drink!

Sweetpeasmum · 20/02/2010 21:20

Littleowls - sounds like you need a cleaner too! I didn't have to persuade DH at all, he had a cleaner when he was single and living alone. I think he would have been able to accept that we needed one though - I don't think I'm that nice when I'm stressed and I would have gone on strike sooner or later.

I've had a bit of a dull day trying to finish off my OU assignment and have enjoyed reading what everyone else has been up to. I think I'll finish this assignment, go on our holiday and then start the preparing, nesting and general rearranging of the house.

Hope you are all having a more exciting evening where ever you are. Take care x

cupcakefairy · 21/02/2010 12:11

Hi all

rachel that is such a lovely pic! Your ds is really cute. I think your bump is perfectly normal sized! People can be so rude with their questions and comments I get the weirdest shufflings in my belly too it always makes me laugh like lo is trying to make more room for itself

pigley how fab about your winnings! Very Loving the sound of carrot muffins too. My dh is v into baking- he has made the most yummy tray bake this weekend, mmm, and a white chocolate cheesecake which we're taking to my bf's for her birthday celebration later

sweetpea what OU course are you doing? I just finished a short one on creative writing & loved it

We finally bought some baby stuff yesterday and it does make me quite excited! Lots of teeny clothes and muslin squares

Also got a maternity tankini in Mothercare which I hope to wear in the birthing pool (yes I'm a prude!)

MarquiseDeMerteuil · 21/02/2010 12:18

Hi all! Pigley - what a fantastic windfall, enjoy spending it! And great news about your BIL and SIL expecting too - such an amazing weekend for you!

Pameleat- definitely go for the cleaner, you won't regret it! Ours only comes once a fortnight, which saves on the cost a bit, as there's only the two of us at the moment and we don't generate much mess, but I might increase it to weekly when I go back to work after the maternity leave.

I'm planning to take a year off work, and just realised that this means that this week will be my last February week at work for two years!! Hadn't really thought about it like that before!

Mustbemad - sounds like you had a great day yesterday. I'm slowly ticking things off my list of things to get, but still have quite a way to go. You sound really organised!

We did manage to clear out the room that's going to be the nursery yesterday though, and it's now empty and waiting for the nursery furniture to arrive, can't wait to get it sorted. Still need to choose some curtains and sort the decoration out too.

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Sweetpeasmum · 21/02/2010 13:42

cupcakefairy - I'm doing the last module of an MBA and will be glad to finish in April. I started it in Nov 06, before DS was on the cards, and have muddled along with it ever since! I have enjoyed it but am quite looking forward to not feeling guilty for not doing any work at weekends.

I'm very of all the cakes and goodies. There are none in this house as I've been on the computer all the time. Probably just as well, I would sit here munching through the day otherwise.

DS (2.3) chose his clothes today and is currently wearing 2 jumpers and 3 pairs of dinosaur pants over his nappy. Very sweet, if a little odd.

Enjoy the rest of the weekend. x

brightredballoon · 21/02/2010 15:50

Hi everyone

Well done on the win Piglez, what a lovely time to win the money - you can get whatever you like for your new little one.

I went in the loft to get the baby things down only to discover we have had a leak in the roof that has caused some damp and so the only things I have been able to salvage are some clothes and blankets. So, now we have to (unexpectedly) do some shoping such as moses basket, car seat, newborn clothes and blankets etc. Eeek will need to get my head in gear and start thinking what sort/colour etc I would like.

Single figures for me now as I am 30+1 now it feels like the pregnany is going really quickly.

Hope everyone is ok

littleowls · 21/02/2010 16:10

Afternoon all,

BRB - I hadn't thought of it like that! I am 30+3 today so I'm in single figures too eek!

Having a lazy weekend. I made a concerted effort today so scrubbed the worktops and mopped the kitchen floor. I am embarrassed to say I have just had a breakdown! I had finished my jobs and decided to make a cup of tea. Clutching a two cups in one hand and my oranges in the other I went through to the sitting room. As I was placing them down on the table, I missed and one cup spilled over the table and onto my arm. DH laughed and I ran upstairs crying! I wept for at least 20 minutes, when I calmed down I thought about my oranges that I was going to eat and started again. This is completely irrational for me, now I just feel silly.

Hope everyone else is well and happy x

TwentiethCenturyHeffa · 21/02/2010 21:16

Pigley - congrats on the win, that's amazing! Congratulations to your BIL and SIL too.

SquirtsMum - do you play World of Warcraft? You said you cancelled the wrong Warcraft account, just wondering if you're another WoW player Glad your LO is OK.

Rachel - at your bump. Looks very neat though.

We've been doing DD's new bedroom up all weekend so we can move her into it (and into a bed). Looks fab although there's still more tidying to do.

brightredballoon · 22/02/2010 07:27

Quick question, for those with moses baskets, is yours a palm leaf or maize? I don't know the difference, they all look the same to me!

Car seats - the infant carrier one, which brand do you have? I used to have a maxi cosi cabrio and it was great, the kids didn't outgrow it until a year old. This time I don't really need it to fit to my pram chassis.

I sound like this is my first child but I have a lot on my plate at the moment so any advice is very welcomed as I dont have the time I did before to really look into them all (plus I don't belong to Which anymore).

Thanks girls.

TwentiethCenturyHeffa · 22/02/2010 09:36

BRB - I've just checked online and our Moses basket is dressed corn rusk ( here )

No idea what the difference is but it's a lovely basket, very happy with it. I must get it down from the attic for this one. They're all padded and lined on the inside anyway.

We have a Maxi-Cosi Cabrio and very happy with it. It lasted DD for ages and still looks in good condition.

Know what you mean about not having the time to research things any more!

sweetkitty · 22/02/2010 10:28

Morning all I'm having a rubbish time of it just now, after Friday when I just had a horrible day, I was in tears by the time DP came in at 8pm. Saturday I was just so so sore and then yesterday we went to see a car and it was OK but didn't really float my boat, it seemed very big and I think the reality of driving a 7 seater sank in, I wanted to really like it but couldn't. Was in a lot of pain yesterday as well and just couldn't be bothered with anything, everytime I sat down it seemed I had to get back up again, DP was great and was doing everything so it's not that. I really did not want to get up this morning I think I am just stressed and everything is getting on top of me, plus the hormones too. Almost 10 weeks to go but it seems a long way off. DD1 is unhappy at school as well just now, friend problems so going to have to try and sort that.

Sorry that's my moan over for today, did buy a lovely baby blue Tigger blanket in the sale in Asda today, very cute.

pigley - that's great news about the win how are you going to spend it???

brightred - I haven't a clue what our moses basket is made of, this will be it's fourth and final outing, I got a new mattress last time so going to keep it for this time, well will see what kind of state it is in from being up the loft. Car seats, we have a M&P Primo Viaggio, would like an Isofix but they are expensive.

littleowls - oh don't worry I cry over everything just now, pregnancy is a great time to be irrational and blame it on the hormones.

Am so of all this decorating going on, I am supposed to be sorting out getting an architect out to have a look at what we can do with the house. Luckily cost isn't that big an issue but the stress and upheavel is my main worry but we so need a bigger house. Maybe by the time DS is one he might have his own room to move into. I don't put mine into their own room before one but it would be nice to have somewhere to store all the baby bits and bobs.

Cleaner - I SO need to sort this out as well or at least someone to do the ironing for me.

Right am off you will all be glad to know

pigleychez · 22/02/2010 11:17

BRB- What a pain about the leak! I must admit that was one of my fears of getting the stuff out of the loft.
Although part of me would love to go out shopping for all that stuff again

Moses basket- ours looks similar to Heffa's. Like she said its all padded anyway so dont think it makes much difference.

Carseat- We have the one that goes with our travel system. We hardly ever used it on the frame though as I prefered DD to be flat in the carrycot.

Littleowls- Hormones have alot to pay for!! We are all allowed a little cry every now and again

SK- Sorry you are feeling down
Hope you manage to find a car you like. Im slowly getting used to the size of mine.. Cant imagine anything bigger!
Hope DD1 isnt too unhappy Poor thing

re our win- Well nothing too exciting really. DH would like a new laptop, which I think we can allow as he did win it!
We also plan to get a new front door. We were waiting till Dh got his next bonus but no need now. DH had also been saving for time off when baby arrives. Hes going to take 3 weeks off which will be fab! Should be pretty settled into routines etc with the two when he goes back to work.

Pretty much finished the nursery now. Just small things to sort out. DH was very sweet yesterday. He put a pic up for me and did a bit of pottering in there. He put the newborn nappies we bought into the nappy stacker and came downstairs with one, cooing over how tiny it was Bless.
Ive put a couple of pics on my profile.

Told my parents about the new cousin, but ended up shocking my mum as she thought I was saying my sister was pregnant again!

Bump has been so uncomfortable again last night. Its keeps strecthing out and poking its feet out the top of my bump.

Really should be cleaning out the fish tank but its not the greatest job and I keep putting it off. Poor Bob and Fred though are making me feel guilty!

LuckyC · 22/02/2010 11:59

sweetkitty thanks for the links and advice about breastfeeding and memorylapse also. Bloody glad I do not have to 'prepare nipples' and will now confess that it was my mother who told me this!

Kateyjane sorry to hear you have bene having a rough time - please keep us in the loop. What were your symptoms for the anaemia and underactive thyroid? Itching sounds like hell, tbh. Poor you! Hang in there! Every day is another day closer.

Realised I missed my 28-week app - suddenly time is flying past. I am starting to stress about getting stuff ready in time. Yesterday, in one of our two free weekends before end of March, we went off to hit mothercare and the baby warehouse, and instead spent four hours on the side of the road after the accursed car broke down in a very expensive-sounding way. memorylapse and other experts I need help! Cannot work out which pram/travel system to go for. Please let me know your top 3? My only thing is that it's fairly tough so I can go on country walks.

Off to dentist as stupid failed root canal is infected again, ow ow. Think will be antibiotics, which I have managed to avoid so far this pregnancy.

squirts very happy all well with the baby

pigley woooohooooooo your DH is a star, well done him. Yes to very very very small holiday at least???

pamelat · 22/02/2010 13:05

Pigley congrats on the win

Sweet kitty I feel similar. When I was pregnant with DD, i remember feeling quite calm/content/excited and even a little smug with myself but with this pregnancy (DS to be) I feel fraught, tired, tearful and generally frazzled. I feel like I am a rubbish mum to DD and that I wont be able to cope when DS comes along

At the same time, I then feel guilty as comparatively (to the rest of the world) I probably lead quite a straight foward life, supportive DH, nice house (no money!, nice job. I am just finding life very hard for no particular reason.

I dont think not sleeping is helping me . On the days when I come to work, I am ok really (ie today) but on my days off with DD and even at the weekends with her, I am really really struggling. She just whines and frets at me constantly , which is probably my fault anyway,bless her.

kateyjane · 22/02/2010 13:54

Congratulations on the win Pigley - also very impressed and of your lovely nursery pictures on FB.

SK - Sorry you are feeling so down. I can empathise with the whole buying a 7 seater issue! We've only managed to save about 3,000 so whatever we can afford will be utterly awful I imagine. Take care of yourself and hope you are feeling better soon.

BRB - How awful about your leak. My cot mattress had been nibbled by mice after 6 months in the garage. It is really annoying to have to buy new though, when the old things were perfectly fine.

Littleowl - Hope you're okay

Squirts - Really good news about LO's heart.

Pamelat - I feel very similar to you. Tired and frazzled is a very good description.

Memory and Forces - Hope you are both doing okay.

LuckyC - Thank you for asking. It is difficult to differentiate exactly what symptoms are caused by what to be honest. I don't think the thyroid thing is an issue as such. The anaemia causes breathlessness, plus hearing my pulse in my ear? (if you know what I mean), plus sores on my tongue and general tiredness. The worse thing is the OC - can't remember the last time I slept properly, just want to lie in the bath and cry all night. Can't ever remember feeling like this in my life.(sorry for moaning) In terms of prams I love my icandy Apple.

Hope everyone has a good week

pamelat · 22/02/2010 13:58

Hello kateyjane - the lack of sleep is awful and am sure its affecting my mood. I am averaging 4 hours a night. I get to sleep ok (usually) wake about 2am and fall back to sleep about 6am, to be up by 7am anyway

I have a funny sensation in my ears too, its like I am on an aeroplane, quiet disorientating really.

I had put it down to low blood pressure, but not sure its that?

kateyjane · 22/02/2010 14:05

Hi pamelat - it's awful isn't it. I don't feel like a fully functioning person at the moment.

It might be worth mentioning your ears to the GP? Sorry I'm not much help. Look after yourself amd try to have little naps if you can.

MarquiseDeMerteuil · 22/02/2010 14:11

Pigley fab pics, nursery looks great!

LuckyC that sounds completely infuriating with the car breaking down! I am not a pram expert, but when we were looking for ours, I loved the look of the M&P 03 Sport, but as we're in the city and need something very compact, it wasn't really suitable for our us. Would definitely have got it if we were in the countryside though.

Apologies in advance, but I'm about to have a massive rant about a really irritating doctor's appointment I had this morning. Free to skip the rest of this post if you want! Just need to vent!

About 3 weeks ago my GP sent me for blood tests because she was slightly concerned about the sugar levels in my urine, and my mum has type 2 diabetes. (Not sure why she didn't refer me for a proper GTT, but that's a separate issue!) When I called the surgery for the results I was told they had all come back normal, except the cholesterol, which was very slightly raised, but they didn't need to see me. Then last week the surgery called and said they wanted to see me to discuss the results, so I had to make an appointment for this morning.

Anyway, when I went in this morning, I first had to wait until 10.30 for my 9.50 appointment . Then it was with a completely different Dr to the one who ordered the tests, who sat with her back to me practically the entire time. She told me that the results were all fine (liver function, kidneys, blood sugar, iron levels), but cholesterol was slightly raised. She then said, "so basically you need to eat more healthily and do more exercise". But she didn't once ask what my diet is currently like (it's generally quite good) or what exercise I do at the moment (I think I do a reasonable amount: walk at least 1 mile every day, see personal trainer 1x per week and do yoga 1x per week). And then she suggested that I take up running , at which point I pointed out that most advice says it's not a good idea to take up running when pregnant. "Oh", she said, "are you pregnant?" . (This is the Doctor who confirmed my pregnancy test for me and first referred me to the midwife! ). So she hadn't noticed - either from looking at me or in my notes - that I was pg. Jeez. So she then changed her tune and said obviously don't start running now, but just eat more healthily. Then she asked if I was taking folic acid, so I said I had taken it up to 12 weeks and had been under the impression it wasn't necessary after that. Only then did she actually turn round and look at me and ask how many weeks pregnant I am. Rubbish.

Couldn't believe she was lecturing me about healthy eating and exercise when, of the two people in the room, and despite one of those two being nearly 7 months pregnant, she was quite obviously the only one of us whose BMI is above normal. (Yes, I know BMI doesn't have anything to do with cholesterol, but it still annoyed me!)

A complete and utter waste of a morning.

Rant over. Sorry!

Hope you're all having more productive days than me so far. I have to say that I am full of admiration for those of you who are juggling preparing for this baby and daily life generally with looking after small children! I don't know how you manage it.

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MarquiseDeMerteuil · 22/02/2010 14:18

Pamelat - Just read your comment about your ears which you must have posted while I was composing my rather over-long rant. I have just started having trouble equalizing my ear pressure too, feels like when you're landing in a plane, or when you're scuba diving.

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kateyjane · 22/02/2010 14:38

MDM - about your trip to the GP, what a ridiculous waste of time. You would think that they would actually take the time to have a quick look at your notes first wouldn't you. I can't complain at the moment, but in the past I have wondered how the NHS manages to function at all? Some of the ways in which they work are so inefficient - for everyone!
Anyway hope you have a better afternoon

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