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WhiteRoses · 13/01/2010 20:46

...now the "Crazy Baby Ladies"!

Had the idea to start this thread because, after getting my BFP on Monday, it suddenly dawned on me that I was going to lose contact with a lot of lovely people. I feel sad every time anyone leaves (though obviously happy for you that you've got your BFP) and thought this might be a nice idea, so that we can continue to keep in touch. After all, we've been through a lot together, haven't we?!

Also, I felt a bit out of my depth on the other threads, where it seemed like most of the members had already had children. There didn't seem to be a "first-timers" thread on here. (Unless I missed it!)

So here goes!

CURRENT GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21Aug - EDD?
Kaystar - BFP 27Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12Sep - EDD?
Fulhamgirl - BFP 18Sep - EDD?
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13Oct - EDD?
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14 Oct - EDD?
Spirael - BFP 7 Nov - EDD?
Curlycasper - BFP 11 Nov - EDD?
TishTosh21 - BFP ??? - EDD?
EmsieRo - BFP 16 Nov - EDD?
vix206 - BFP 8 Dec - EDD?
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9 Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16 Dec - EDD?
NovemberAli - BFP 24 Dec - EDD?
Eleanora - BFP 28 Dec - EDD?
whiteroses - BFP 11 Jan - EDD 25th Sept
hamsterlover - BFP 11 Jan - EDD?

FUTURE GRADUATES:

addie81
aly323
blueberry noo
Bunnygirl
Calyx
Capricorn76
ceebs05
chalky3
chancewouldbeafinething
chico193
CJ2007
cla ireinthecommunity
DrewsGirl
evilgiraffe
fudgecat
Hobnob
Homebound
Honeymoo
Kaloki
kkas
Mada meG
mrscinco
mumnerves
Muser
Pidgin
pixiestix
Sevans
Sky27
sparklyrainbow
Stellybelly
Worr isomHeart
YorkshireTeaDrinker
Zippys

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
pixiestix · 09/02/2010 13:04

Ozzie - that sounds great, it is obviously all going to feed up your little one, not as excess weight, and you will get a really cute chubster at the end of all this!! Babies are really the only people who can work arm-fat-creases arent they?
I'm ravenous too at the moment, but its all going to ward off morning sickness, seeing as the baby is only the size of a blueberry! I am expecting my weight to soar with the amount I'm eating.

Worrisome - I'm glad your situation is providing some positivity at a really horrible time for your SIL. How is she doing this week?

Addie - I hadn't heard of that pink book, I will check it out. At the moment I am permanently attached to my What to Expect. I have the Mumsnet Guide to Pregnancy aswell but [whispers] its actually a bit crap, and not very informative. But don't tell MNHQ!

Chance - I cant give you any advice on the docs as, despite having two scan now, I haven't actually been to my GPs yet!! I'm going to make an appointment in the next couple of weeks, but after the comments I have heard on here - like receptionists saying "Oh there's no point in going for a few weeks yet, you might lose it" - I decided to leave it a little while. I kind of feel like I'm doing ok on my own at the minute.

Well, I went for my follow up scan yesterday, although I haven't had any pain for a couple of weeks. They reassured me about the spotting and said that it didnt look like anything to worry about. And they found a heartbeat during the scan!!!
The only thing that worried me (there is always something!) is that the baby measured 6+1 rather than 6+5 which was what I was expecting. DH reckons that I am mad, but at this stage to go back four days seems massive. I just want to get to the magic 12 weeks and now it feels further away than ever! But the nurse said that everything looked good, so I'm trying to remember that, as I wish my life away!

pixiestix · 09/02/2010 13:08

Updated list with my new, pushed back, due date

CURRENT_GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May
Fulhamgirl - BFP 18th Sep - EDD? - Girl - Lilly
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - EDD?
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD?
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24 August
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD?
whiteroses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 20th Sep
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD?
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 3rd October
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
sparklyrainbow - BFP 23rd Jan - EDD?
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8 Oct
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 7th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD?

FUTURE_GRADUATES:

aly323
blueberrynoo
Bunnygirl
Calyx
Capricorn76
chalky3
chico 193
CJ2007
claireinthecommunity
DrewsGirl
evilgiraffe
fudgecat
Hermya 321
Homebound
Honeymoo
HopingGotASnowDayInTheEnd
Kaloki
kkas
mrscinco
mumnerves
Muser
Pidgi n
Sevans
Sky27
Stellybelly
YorkshireTeaDrinker
Zippys

Ladyemmalou83 · 09/02/2010 13:33

I havent been on Mumsnet for ages, glad I did pop back on and see this group. I loved being in the 1st time frolickers group, so many great girlies. To fill you in, im 21 weeks 2moro with a little girl who were naming Erin. Have been in and out of hospital with HG, but things are starting to settle now. Have managed a whole month at work without having to take a day off for sickness. Im just starting to look pregnant rather than fat, and it already feels like my bump is public property, lol. I have an anterior placenta so been a bit slow to feel movements, but they are there now. How is everyone these days? (I shall go back and read the thread fully)

CURRENT_GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May
Fulhamgirl - BFP 18th Sep - EDD? - Girl - Lilly
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd June - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD?
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24 August
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD?
whiteroses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 20th Sep
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD?
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 3rd October
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
sparklyrainbow - BFP 23rd Jan - EDD?
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8 Oct
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 7th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD?

FUTURE_GRADUATES:

aly323
blueberrynoo
Bunnygirl
Calyx
Capricorn76
chalky3
chico 193
CJ2007
claireinthecommunity
DrewsGirl
evilgiraffe
fudgecat
Hermya 321
Homebound
Honeymoo
HopingGotASnowDayInTheEnd
Kaloki
kkas
mrscinco
mumnerves
Muser
Pidgi n
Sevans
Sky27
Stellybelly
YorkshireTeaDrinker
Zippys

WhiteRoses · 09/02/2010 15:20

Hi,

Been a while since I've been on. Sorry. Just been really tired and queasy and have had a lot on my plate recently - short staffed at work, family birthdays, family in hospital... All a bit mad. Anyway. Time for a catch-up.

Addie - no, I don't intend to have the swine flu vaccine. Basic reasoning is that they say that millions of people have already had it but it was only brought into the UK in August, wasn't it? Well, in that case, women vaccinated during the first trimester haven't even had their babies yet, so HOW can they know it's safe? And even then, if they had had seemingly healthy babies, they don't know the long-term effects. I.e. what happens when those babies are five, ten, fifty, even?

Anyway, aside from all that, say I did trust them... The NHS itself states that if you do get swine flu in pregnancy, "your immune system still functions and the risk of complications is very small. Most pregnant women will only have mild symptoms." Also, "Most pregnant women will have only mild symptoms and recover within a week." It does state that "there is evidence from previous flu pandemics that pregnant women are more likely to develop complications." (Just an observation, but that evidence isn't specific to Swine Flu...) By "complications", they mean "pneumonia/dificulty in breathing/dehydration". I've already been badly dehydrated during the course of this pregnancy, and was told it's very common, as a result of severe morning sickness. The treatment was straighttforward enough (I was put on a drip) so to be honest, that one wouldn't really concern me too much. And as for the other two, (quoting the NHS again) "these are more likely to happen in the second and third trimester". (So why are they recommending the vaccine during the first trimester? I don't get it.) Then they go on to say; "If a pregnant woman develops a complication of swine flu, such as pneumonia, there is a small chance this will lead to premature labour or miscarriage." (SMALL chance.) And, finally, "There is not yet enough information to know precisely how likely these birth risks are."

It's up to each and every person to make their own mind up, but personally, I've found nothing to convince me yet that it's a good idea. I spoke to my own midwife about it, and she said that while they're saying it's safe at any stage of pregnancy, the further into pregnancy, the safer it'll be. She also pointed out that even if I decided against the vaccine now, I'd be welcome to change my mind at any point at all. (I.e. if I want to wait till 12wks, that's fine.) And then the other thing I thought is that we'll soon be leaving winter behind us, which is also bound to reduce the risk. Oh, and nobody has made any suggestion at all (as far as I can see) that the current strain of Swine Flu is any worse than normal flu. Who's panicking about that? I just don't get it...

As I say though, each to their own! I'll make you sorry you asked though! Lol!

Hobnob - SUCH a relief that all was well! What a frightnening time. But great to get the scan, eh? Have you told anyone else now? My DH seemed to think that after our 6+5 scan, we'd tell everyone... Think I initially said I wanted to wait till after the first scan. Should really have phrased it better and said I wanted to wait till 12wks! Lol!

How's the sickness now?

Worrisome - sorry to hear about your SIL. How awful! But glad to hear you and the bean are doing okay and things are getting better. x

Chance - I totally know what you mean about wanting that peace of mind. Is your appointment on Thursday?

Pixie - wonderful news about your scan. I know what you mean about going backwards though - I went from 7+1 to 6+5. That meant I was in week 7 instead of week 8! Rotten! Still. All's well and that's the main thing. And according to my midwife, they go by the 12wk scan anywway for an EDD, cause at around 6wks, it's more difficult to be accurate.

Madame - good news about your scan too. Not so good about how you feel. I'm the same though. Wish the next few weeks would just fly by so we could get back to normal. Can't believe I took it all for granted before!

Ozzie - great about your scan too (lots of scans over the past few days!) Really looking forward to seeing your picture.

Chance - I haven't even read the free book the midwife gave me. Been far too sick and tired! Hopefully in a few weeks I'll be asking you for recommendations!

Desperate - exciting times indeed! I can't wait to get a bump and stop looking fat! Lol!

November - how frustrating not having a scan date... I got mine through about 6wks early... Wonder what's up with the delay?

Emma - good to hear from you and that things are going well. What a lovely name! I can't wait to find out what I'm having.

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Ladyemmalou83 · 09/02/2010 15:46

Well Ive just caught up on all the news. Sorry to hear so many of you have had sickness. I have Hyperemesis so I can sympathise with that all day sickness, and being hooked up to a drip. Roses did you find that your blood and pee no longer belonged to you? Everytime I had a nurse come in to my room she would want one of the other.

It was last wednesday that I had the 20 weeks scan, and was totally amazing watching her wriggle around on the screen. When they got to the sex bit I was just sat gawping at the screen waiting for them to tell me it was a boy. When she said there was no bits I almost cried. I got my bounty pack at the booking in appointment at 8 weeks, but my midwife friend told me they tend to give them out at the 12 week scan.

I seemed to only have pops or bubbles for about 4 weeks, bit litterally in the last week Im starting to feel 'proper' movement. Even as Im writing this I can feel movement, its so fun, just brings a massive smile to my face.

Pix glad your scan went well. I was admitted with a suspected eptopic at 5 1/2 weeks, and they scanned me a week later. They put me back nearly 2 weeks, but by time the 12 week scan came I was only behind by 3 days, and the 20 week scan put me perfect for my dates. My bean is just over 11ozs at the moment. According to some online weight guesser thing, she should be about 7lbs 14ozs when she is born (we'll see).

Congratulations to all the first time frolickers on your BFP, and good luck to our future graduates

pixiestix · 09/02/2010 16:37

LadyEm - its so good to hear from you! You were one of our most prolific posters on the Frolickers thread, and I thought we'd lost you forever! I can't believe you are 21 weeks already - so exciting!!! And the name Erin is just gorgeous

Has anyone heard anything from FulhamGirl - I don't think she knows about this thread, and she would love it!

Just to add to what Roses was saying about the SF jab - I was totally put off it when I found out that up until last summer the drug companies who issue these jabs could be sued if they had any horrible side effects. (So, for example, the victims of Thalidomide have received compensation for their injuries) Before the Swine Flu jab came out the drug companies asked for the law to be changed so that they could not be held accountable in law if anything went wrong. So now they get off scot free (and keep all their profits) regardless of what the long term side affects of the jab are. It all sounds highly dodgy and there is NO WAY I am having it!!

Rant over!

Ladyemmalou83 · 09/02/2010 17:08

Ahhh thanks Pix Im honoured. I truely loved that thread. I even have a snapshot of the post I wrote anoucing Id got a BFP in my babies facebook photos, thats how much I loved it. I miss updating the lists with what CDs we were all on... (I know im sad)

I always wondered what happened to Bluesnowfalcon? We both got our BFP close together. I remember seeing her in the June group but after that I havent heard from her in ages.

I decided against the SF jab, I know its personal choice and all that, but I just dont feel there has been enough testing on it. Ive already had swine flu so Im hoping I have some immunity to it...who knows.

Oh its good to be back on MN [ grin]

addie81 · 09/02/2010 19:54

thanks for the swine flu advice, I think I won't have it either. Seems like the safest option at the moment. My nausea is (fingers crossed) starting to get under control. I still feel sick all the time but if I eat the right things regularly I am not actually sick, and I am only having to wake up once to eat in the night (instead of every hour!), so I am less fed up than I was this time last week. I am having an early scan a week on wednesday, so I am crossing my fingers till then. Sorry to hear about the nausea white roses, hopefully over the next couple of weeks we will get over the worst of it and then it will gradually tail off until we hit the magic 12 week milestone. Hope everyone else is keeping well. A x

DesperateHousewife21 · 09/02/2010 20:04

Hi everyone,

Just dropping by to say hi and I am still following this thread. Hope everyone is doing well, im moving on Thurs so everything hear is a bit hectic.

Will hopefully be back on in a few days with some more interesting posts.

3 weeks today til my 20 week scan!

Ozziegirly · 09/02/2010 22:20

I'm still undecided about the SF jab too - it won't be winter here until I am over 6 months pregnant, and it didn't seem to spread in the same way over here as it did in the UK. I'm so careful with what I eat and drink (apart from Doritos which I am craving - mmm salty goodness!) so it seems madness to add a vaccine to my body.

I dunno, I'll see what they say as we move towards winter. It's 38 degrees here at the moment, so I don't think any virus can survive.

pixie - you're right about cute arm creases!

Today I have brought into work ryvita, a pear, a plum, a carrot and cheese sandwiches - surely that will see me through the day?

Last night for dinner I had a jacket potato with cheese, a whole corn on the cob, brocolli and peas and I was still snaffling around the kitchen for something else later! Normally I would have just have the jacket potato.

Still, I figure as long as I'm not filling up on cake it probably isn't too bad. I"m keeping a careful watch on my weight to make sure that I actually am burning it off, rather than storing it.

It's basically like my metabolism has gone back to how it was when I was 14! I used to eat like a horse and was really skinny, but it hasn't been like that for about 10 years.

It's FAB.

Ozziegirly · 10/02/2010 02:06

Oo, got my test results back today - my risk of downs/other is 1:5648.

Great news!

I told the woman on reception that she had made my day and she said it was always good to pass on happy news

So now I can tell everyone and just relax and enjoy!

kkas · 10/02/2010 09:23

just butting in from stalking lurking to say i'm so happy to hear your news ozzie

and hi hi! to ladyemma. i really missed you when you left our frolickers thread but am so happy to hear you are doing well! i almost cried when i saw erin elizabeth. what a lovely lovely name!!!

WhiteRoses · 10/02/2010 11:10

Lol, Emma! Yes, they wanted everything! Funny too though, cause every time anyone went to the loo, they were leaving samples, and, more than once, I got asked had I left the latest one, when I hadn't! I think they had more bodily fluids from us than they knew what to do with!

How wonderful to be able to feel your baby move! I can't wait for that!

Pixie - there's so much about these vaccines and the companies who make them that's just SO dodgey. And then the way it's all reported (or not reported) in the media is just plain scary. It's hard to know who to trust. I have three people with autism in my family, as well as having spent my whole adult life working with autistic children and adults, so I've seen a lot of research that's frightening. Anyway, talking about all of this causes arguments, and I don't want to argue with anyone, so each to their own, but I'm personally very wary.

Addie - that's good to hear that you're starting to feel better. I seem to have a new symptom - heartburn. Always fun. It'll all be worth it in the end, it'll all be worth it in the end.... Need to keep telling myself that! Lol! No, in just a few more weeks we'll be feeling great, shopping for lovely new maternity clothes, and talking babies to anyone who'll listen!

Hi Desperate - ugh, how stressful! Still, you'll be all settled in in no time! Bet you're living for your scan! Are you finding out the gender?

I was having a read through another thread on here yesterday, about that. Whether to find out the gender, and whether to tell people if you do. What are all your thoughts? I don't see the point in not knowing, personally. Or in keeping it to ourselves when we do find out. But, funnily, I think I'd like to keep quiet about the name... Weird..? What do you reckon?

God, Ozzie! No wonder you're not putting on weight - eating so healthily! Are you a vegetarian?

Oooh! Excellent news about your results! Now you can get that picture up!

Hi Kkas!

So, I've already been on the Frolicker's thread and asked, but I'll ask you too... Did anyone watch "One Born Every Minute" on Channel 4 last night? If so, what did you think of that guy, Steve?! Wasn't he awful?! I'd have DH kicked out if he behaved like that! And what did you reckon about that same couple having their 18yr old son present? Was it just DH and I who thought that was weird?

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DesperateHousewife21 · 10/02/2010 11:39

Yeah we are going to find out the gender so will be telling everyone as soon as I know!

Ive got so much to do today and im not even dressed yet, still in my pjs
At least its sunny outside today!

WhiteRoses · 10/02/2010 13:07

Hi Desperate - also still in pjs! Us pregnant women really know how to let ourselves go, don't we?!

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fulhamgirl · 10/02/2010 14:28

Omg guys ive found u all lol!!

Talk about the dumb blonde tagging along.

How are we all guys its soooooooo nice to see u all on here now I dont feel to guilty about talking about my pregnancy hopefully kkas will be joining us very soon.

My expected due date guys is the 30th May so im nearly 25 weeks.
I feel her kick loads but today she has been a little quiet but ive felt her. She is prob having more of a sleepy day.

Ive been so stressed out with work though boss not to understanding!! Ive gotta be careful im not stressing out to much or I might hurt her !!

Other than that my pregnancy has been really good very sick at first then over xmas I was great. Now tiredness and sickness grad making its apperance again but 15 weeks left to go ive gotta expect it really to start happening.

So how u guys all finding it? Have u found it feels like youve always been preggers? Feels like its been ages and still got a long way to go.

Missed u all xxxxx

Ladyemmalou83 · 10/02/2010 21:07

Oh its nice to see everyone coming together again . Hiya Kkas and Fulhamgirl (waving frantically)

Really enjoyed 'one born every minute'. DH actually watched the whole thing. He hasnt watched anything baby related since the Amanda Holden programme, which scared him. He now thinks its ok to play with gloves when we go to hospital. Oh dear! Im having DH and my mum with me when I give birth, together they are a nightmare pair because they get on too well and are always messing around, I could see it being a repeat of the dad and son laughing. He has been warned though, I might not tolerate in whilst in pain

Fulham I agree feels like I've preggers for ages. Quite liking that im past the half way point, ok I know I'll get stupidly big from now on, but less time to go, yay!

Ozziegirly · 11/02/2010 03:35

Whiteroses no I"m not veggie but DH was out so I couldn't be bothered to do a proper meal, hence my fallback of jacket p.

Today I had leftover chilli for lunch, with a pear and a plum and I am considering going to the cafe downstairs for a choccy cupcake....

fulham nice to "see" you again, and Ladyemmalou, it seems ages since you guys got your BFPs!

I told my work yesterday (well, one of the partners and the office manager) and although I know that the partner has emailed the other partners, I haven't had a SINGLE person come in to congratulate me.

They are a right miserable bunch here though. One of the girls got married last year and they didn't even do a card!

So I think I can rule out a nice send off when I go.

Ah well, it's only work people. They are rather a boring lot to be honest, not a single hobby between them apart from going out drinking as far as I can tell! Where I used to work, if you were getting married or going on maternity leave, the partners would pay for all the girls to go for tea at a posh London hotel and you got got 500 pounds! Ah well, at least if I am ever in charge I will know how not to act.

One of the (unmarried, childless) partners even said "I could never give birth, I would have to have a c-section, my bits are for fun only" and emoticon. Being v bitchy for a moment, but the chances of her ever finding a man and actually having a baby are pretty slim though, so I don't think she needs to worry. Sorry, dreadfully horrid of me.

Anyhoo - I"m happy and DH is very happy and who cares what a lot of work bores think!?!

fulhamgirl · 11/02/2010 10:28

Heya lady (wave's frantically back), and to everyone else. Missed u all I wondered if we would all be reunited !!

omg ozzie- Well I am over the moon for u I really am !! Work people can be really funny I mean I have such a supportive team who take and intrest especailly now im starting to look like a beach ball lol. But my mnanager is the one im having trouble with . Its one problem after another. They want me out asap because im more of a problem.
Get this right that have taken my maternity chair away from saying its not theirs anymore so on a well uncomfortable chair now but I wont be defeated. Some people can be very jealous but at the end of the day u only have to put up with them for so long and u have something so special at the end of it so stick ya fingers up them girl.
Just come and speak to us lot we will cheer u up !!

Defo feels like ive been preggers for ages. Im still in my second trimester I go into my third on 27th November bring on the sickness and tiredness stage again.

Has anyone given much thought to thier maternity leave or if u are going to go back to work after?
Im going on April the 16th having 2 weeks holidy so with that it takes me up to the may bank holiday which should be included so should get full wage for that month. Prob be regreating leaving that late as im getting tired already but means I have more time off with Lily !!

Sorry to hear some of u are suffereing at the min it will pass mine did after about 14 weeks. But it wasent nice having to keep running back and forth all the time to throw up. Its starting again now though so as u guys come into your blooming stages I will be going into looking extreamly unwell and fat poor people sitting next to me or near me on the train lol!!

My friend have just given birth 10 weeks early as well so its kinda scary.

Hi desperate Hope the move goes well for u I moved house when I was 6 weeks preggers not nice at all can be very stressful but good luck !! Will u find out the gender?

Addie I did have the swine flu jab in the second trimester. I had a scan 6 weeks after my second scan and the baby was perfect. All fingers all toes moving loads all her measurments were fine but white has a very valied point u cant be 100% sureand to be honest I was very worried that it had effected her so my second scan I couldnt sleep for a few weeks thinking about if it had effected her but she was fine. 50/50 really.

Awww what a lovely name emma.

Thanks pix- for thinking of me. I couldnt find it anywhere!! How are u hun?

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chancewouldbeafinething · 11/02/2010 17:28

Just back from my first appt at the Doc's - I was a bit worried after the tales of you guys being told it was too early, so when i booked in i didnt say why just went in to see my normal doc.

She was lovely, told me its never too early (NHS guidlines she gave me says see your doctor 2 weeks after your missed period) I didnt even have to plead my case for an early scan, she referred me straight away! I think I got lucky
So I am just waiting for the call to confirm the scan which should be done in the next week, and my booking appt will follow a week or so later.
I got a EDD 11/10/10, and i am 5+5 today (I thought I was less than that)

It's all very exciting, waiting for DH who is back from Finland today to talk about it, then I think I am going to call my mum in Oz and tell her.

Ozzie & fulham you work with really mean people! I cant believe they took your chair away, you should so complain to HR as they are obviously not taking your care seriously. Ozzie not all Aussie's are like that I promise! I am a manager in a hotel and I have 4 staff pregnant at the moment, compared to you guys they get treated like queens. It works both ways though...i am expecting it back in the near future

Sorry havent looked through all the other posts yet, hope everyone is feeling better xxxxx

WhiteRoses · 11/02/2010 19:50

Hi Fulham! Nice to see you here! I sometimes feel guilty mentioning pregnancy over on the conception board too, like I'm gloating or rubbing it in, but I always remember you popping back every now and again when I was still TTC and I LOVED your posts. Really interesting and gave me hope. Anyway, I suppose now they can come and stalk us, like we do them!

Sorry to hear you're starting to feel a bit rubbish again. Hopefully it won't be as bad though, eh? And at least with this stage, the end is in sight, as you say.

How's your boss not being supportive? That's really rotten.

I kinda know what you mean about always being pregnant. It's only been 8wks (I've only known for 4 and a half!) but it seems such a big part of my life now. Feel like everything I think about comes back to being pregnant! Lol!

Emma - I'm sure your DH won't be THAT bad! (Mine's been warned he's out on his ear if he starts! Lol!) Nice that he and your mum have such a good relationship.

Who are other people having as birth partners, incidently? I want just DH and I there. Don't mind people knowing I'm in labour, but don't want them waiting outside. When baby's born (and we've had time to get to know him/her a bit), they can all come up and visit. It'll probably be within the first few hours anyway, but I really want that first little bit to be just the three of us.

Ozzie - "choccy cupcake" - you ARE human! Lol! And lol at your bitchiness! (It's allowed!) They do sound like a right miserable bunch of gits. And what a STUPID thing to say ("bits are for fun only")

Fulham - the chair... I don't get it... ???

Lol! "Im still in my second trimester I go into my third on 27th November" - no wonder you feel you've been pregnant forever!

I think I'm going to give up work altogether once our baby is born. I know it sounds very old fashioned, but DH and I both feel that we want our baby to be raised by us, rather than by grandparents/childminders. And he earns more, so it makes sense for me to stay at home. (Lucky me!) Well, that's the plan anyway. Mind you, if I go back for three months after maternity leave, even part-time, I get much better maternity pay. So that's tempting... I could take holidays during the three months too, and try and time it with when DH is also off... Still. We'll see. Early days yet. But both of our mums were SAHMs and although neither of our families had all that much money, as adults, we agree we wouldnt have wanted it any other way. And besides, DH's wage is pretty decent, so we certainly won't be hard up or anything. And there'll be nothing stopping me going back to work once the baby's at school. Or taking up childminding myself is another option that crossed our minds... Early days!

Chance - that's great news about your appointment. I'm sorry for scaring you. My doctor was lovely too, and it was only one bitchy midwife who made a dig. Since then, everyone's been great. So I'm sorry! I should've been more sensitive, instead of just whinging away like I did!

I am SO pleased for you about your scan though.

So does your mum not know about the pregnancy yet or are you just waiting to tell her about your appointment?

My MIL is the main one who still doesn't know... Will tell her soon though. She's just had a lot on her plate at the moment and that's the only real reason we haven't yet said.

CURRENTGRADUATES:_

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May
Fulhamgirl - BFP 18th Sep - EDD 30th May - Girl - Lilly
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD?
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24 Aug
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD?
whiteroses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 20th Sep
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD?
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 3rd Oct
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
sparklyrainbow - BFP 23rd Jan - EDD?
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8 Oct
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 7th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 11th Oct

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OP posts:
CurlyCasper · 11/02/2010 20:00

i lost you for a bit, but now i've found you again. I promise i'll try to catch up! but i am trying to get more work done these days!

Ozziegirly · 11/02/2010 22:06

Whiteroses - I actually didn't have the cupcake in the end - however, I have just had my weekly treat, which is a McDonald's sausage and egg muffin!

I really love their evil fatty greasiness and it keeps me going for hours, but I know they are bad so I keep it for a Friday morning treat only!

So I'm not all goody two shoes...

fulham I can't believe they took away your chair - that is so petty! If I were you, I would be indulging in a bit of passive agressive "oh, my back is so painful, if only I had my chair back.... I may need to get a Dr's note for some time off as it's so painful"

As for working after the baby - my plan at the moment is to go back part time when the baby is about 9 months old, hopefully doing 2 days in the office and 1 at home, then slowly build up to a bit more.

We'll see. I like the idea of being a SAHM, but also I have studied and worked for a long time to get my job, and I quite enjoy it (people aside), but I'm happy to re-asses when the baby comes.

chance really pleased your first appointment went well too, great news.

WorrisomeHeart · 12/02/2010 09:58

Hi all

Sorry for the further silence but SIL made another attempt this week so it's all been a bit horrible. Am now in bed with a yucky head cold and tbh am feeling very much like not wanting to think about anything other than the baby so decided to come on here to have a little stress-free time and catch up with you all!

chance fab that the docs appt went well and that you had no problem with the scan referral. I had my appt on Tuesday which was great and am now 6+1 so over halfway to 12 weeks yay!

ozzie I second the endless hunger symptom although over the last couple of days a new version has been added - gnawing hunger followed by waves of nausea if I don't eat immediately!! Jacobs cream crackers, sugar snap peas and bananas are my current saviours and don't make me feel like I'm having second meals! Oh and congrats on the great result for downs, that's such brilliant news!

pixie fab news about the heartbeat!

roses I have to agree with you about the swine flu vaccine. I feel really quite anti having it but am going to discuss with the m/w at first appt. However I don't know if she will be able to change my mind.

ladyemmalou how exciting to be able to feel movement! One of the books says that week 7 is when the bean will start moving but obviously it's way too weeny to feel - I can't wait until I have a knee or elbow stickng out! (you all might have to remind me I said that when I'm moaning about jabs in the ribs!)

addie great to hear you're feeling better and getting control of the sickness. As you say, not too long now until (hopefully) it'll be a distant memory!

fulhamgirl am at them taking away your chair - is there someone that you can complain to? Thats awful!

Oh and updated stats as my EDD was 'confirmed' at the docs - addie just realised that puts us on the same day!!

CURRENT_GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May
Fulhamgirl - BFP 18th Sep - EDD 30th May - Girl - Lilly
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD?
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24 Aug
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD?
whiteroses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 20th Sep
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD?
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 3rd Oct
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
sparklyrainbow - BFP 23rd Jan - EDD?
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8 Oct
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 8th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 11th Oct

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Hermya 321
Homebound
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Kaloki
kkas
mrscinco
mumnerves
Muser
Pidgi n
Sevans
Sky27
Stellybelly
YorkshireTeaDrinker
Zippys

Oh it's so nice to be back on here - will try and stay more up to date. It's lovely to focus on me and the bean and forget all the other crap. Have a lovely weekend all!

fulhamgirl · 12/02/2010 11:58

Morning guys.

Im defo not getting the chair back they have told me I need to get a cushion lol!! Im giving up nothing more I can do!!

Ive been treated very differently to be honest to my other college and its because its a new tax year in April and im intiled to holiday so they are trying to get rid of me before then making me uncomfortbale I will not bee beaten though!! !!

I have my mum and Finacee with me as my birthing parters im allowed 2. I need my mum but I also want him there as well as long as he dont act like an idiot lol I can see a few tears falling though he puts on the hard act but deep down he is a big blubba!!

On a more serious note guys ive gotta go hospital at 4 im getting bad pains in my side as what I can describe as a stich. Ive called my midwife explain as well ive not felt her much over the last few days I mean I have but she normally moves loads.
So now ive gotta go and get everything checked out. A little nervous but im ok ive felt her move today thats the main thing!!
Midwife thinks it could be braxton Hicks but I need to be checked over !!

I will keep u all updated. Hope I havent gone into labour its far to early !!

xxxx