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Due August 2009 - It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine!

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becksydee · 08/07/2009 13:38

thought i'd better start the new thread off before we completely filled up the old one!

link back to the previous thread here

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becksydee · 25/08/2009 22:45

i'm still here.

just back from my electroacupuncture session, feeling kind of pleasantly fuzzy a few niggles and tightenings going on, hopefully things will get moving in the next few days.

have decided not to be induced tomorrow. going to give it a few more days, maybe a week, see what happens. bit nervous about phoning the hospital and having that conversation but hopefully it'll be ok.

sleepy time now

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SmallScrewCap · 26/08/2009 06:03

Hey don't worry becksydee, in the last 2 weeks I have turned down 2 offered c-sections and 2 attempts to induce - I think once you get your "This is what I've decided" voice on you will be heard, unless it's an emergency!

Well after a breakfast of pineapple on Sunday, I tried the long walk to get labour going and only managed to go about 300 yards before finding a bench and asking DH to call us a taxi as I had disco inferno flashes going on in my eyes and pounding in my ears.

I went back into hospital, to find my BP was 160/110, they did a series and it wouldn't budge down, so was kept in and had yet more confusion about what to do about how to get him out. Cervix closed and his head appeared to have disengaged a little bit. By Monday afternoon and after listening to lots of advice from midwives, me and DH had a heart-to-heart and decided that it came down to waiting another week for natural labour but potentially getting iller, a VBAC with loads of intervention & potential EMCS anyway, or an elective section. We decided on the latter. Not my ideal scenario, but still a very long way from my worst one.

I am booked for later today and just feeling very proud to have safely carried this baby to 40+1, which is the most pregnant I have ever been!

Chrysanthamum · 26/08/2009 06:03

When was your edd becksyd?

becksydee · 26/08/2009 07:28

chrysanthamum - my EDD is today, so not i'm not overdue yet!

ssc - thanks for the reassurance best of luck for your ELCS later today, hope it's a good experience for you. you'll be snuggling your new baby by tonight, you lucky thing!

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mama2leah · 26/08/2009 10:26

hope it happens soon for all those waiting

Mimile · 26/08/2009 11:01

mmm - still here and barely a twinge, only the burning feeling of my stretchmarks widening to the size of the grand canyon
EDD was yesterday, went to see the consultant this morning - the head is still not engaged, so no sweep, and another appointment next week (another week! oh dear!) to check if things are moving south or not. Also talked about the possibility of CPD, cord prolapse etc if water went when head still high etc... Anyhow, if head not engaged, we will discuss section, which i had just not considered unless in emergency. [I remember confuzzled had a similar situation, no?] Otherwise, no induction before 42 wks. I am not sure I feel really happy about this.
Plenty to get my head round, I am even wondering whether all the tricks to get labour started are really safe considering the situation. Was thinking giving the evening primrose a go, on top of pineapple and curry, sex being just not an option right now. Ooooh so not...
But surely, this baby will come out at one point or another [hmmm]. Will book a second shiatsu / acupuncture session for tomorrow, you never know.... Good luck to all the other hanging on in here!

thoughtforms · 26/08/2009 12:09

I'm back, haven't been on this thread much lately, more on the GD ones - any news from Olivo?

Anyway, Holly Mary Lyn was born at 6.46 on Sunday morning, after I was induced on Thursday (1 x sweep, 3 x prostin, 1 x hook watery horribleness, 1 x pethidine for the pain (low dose), 1 x syntocin hell to speed things up, 1 x epidural as I couldn't cope (1.5 hours after syntocin), a tens machine I didn't realise the battery was making weaker but it was a godsend), and finally one urgent CS, and she arrived three days later.

7.5lb, and she's my little darling!

(Congrats to everyone else who's here now)

Photo on my profile, too...

Confuzzeled · 26/08/2009 13:49

Phew, I popped, woo hoo.

On Monday I held a friends tiny newborn baby, went for a walk up a big hill and had sex. So it was one of those things that did it for me.

Waters broke while I was asleep at 2am Tuesday morning, came into hospital at 3am because I couldn't feel any movement. Went home at 5am then back to hospital at 6am, up to labour suite at 6.30am with a diahydracodine tablet and some G&A. Had a few scary moments when they couldn't find his heartbeat and I lost it a bit. But I focused on the job and Jack was born at 7.59am, a rather large 9.7lbs.

He's full of mucus and puking like a pro, but also feeding well. I'm stuck in hospital with a cathiter till tomorrow.

Congrats to all those that have popped and good luck to those still waiting.

Mimile · 26/08/2009 13:59

Congratulations Confuzzled and Thoughtforms!!
Confuzzled - was it you who had a non-engaged baby? I'm all out trying to find out about what I can do about my overdue non-engaged baby that will avoid either a cs or an assisted rupture of membranes in theater...

Chrysanthamum · 26/08/2009 14:17

Congratulations Confuzzled and Thoughtforms!
I've now got 3 days until induction - here's hoping. I'm starting to like my daily pineapple!

Confuzzeled · 26/08/2009 17:25

Mimile- My boy engaged and then popped back out and in again. But I had excess fluid and he's my second so they weren't too fussed. Have you been down on your hands and knees cleaning the floor, I did my sitting room rug last week in the hope it would get my boy's head down.

Chrys- do you know anyone who's just had a baby, I do think thats what pushed me into labour.

cairns · 26/08/2009 17:58

Congratulations Confuzzled and Thoughtforms.

Sounds like you had a reasonably good Labour Confuzzled, and a good weight too.. well done.

Thoughtforms, yours sounds like an epic, but glad you are enjoying your little one now. It all makes up for it in the end doesn't it.

Not long to go now, for the rest of the August babies.... .... Not sure how I would be feeling if I was still left to go now...... i'e whether to tell baby to hang on in there for September or not , for us it wasn;t a factor on timing conceiving, but for some having a September baby is.

kitkatqueen · 26/08/2009 18:25

Confuzzled, thoughtforms! Congrats to you both!! Smallscrewcap, you have done a fantastic job of keeping your lo in the best place and actually you should feel mightily chuffed Good Luck!!

becksydee · 27/08/2009 14:32

congrats to confuzzled and thoughtforms!

i'm still at home - refused induction and rebooked for next wednesday instead. went into the hospital yesterday for monitoring and to make a plan, the midwife & obstetrician i saw were v chilled out about the whole thing and not at all worried - they don't even want me back in for monitoring. in fact the first thing the midwife asked me after looking at my notes and blood monitoring diary was 'so why are we inducing you?'

baby now has 6 days to make an appearance before i either let them induce me or go back in to try and buy some more time ... sterilised the breast pump the other day so will stick that on for a bit & hope it helps!

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ScummyMummy · 28/08/2009 10:35

Welcome to Holly and Jack!

It's been quite quiet on here lately, hasn't it? Hoping this is because everyone is in post-birth bliss state and too busy to post their birth announcements!

Forester · 28/08/2009 17:57

Birth announcement!

Hi - i gave birth to a gorgeous little girl on 6 August - Darcey. Unfortunately she needed an operation when she was 2 days old but she's all well now and we've had her home for a week.

i haven't had chance to catch up on the posts but congratulations to all new arrivals and good luck to those still waiting - not long now.

Chrysanthamum · 28/08/2009 20:49

Congratulations Forester and welcome Darcey. I have my induction tomorrow at 1pm

becksydee · 29/08/2009 10:37

congratulations forester

and good luck for today, chrysanthamum, hope everything goes well.

i'm still here waiting for this baby to make an appearance, getting grumpier by the minute!

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ScummyMummy · 29/08/2009 11:00

Congratulations, Forester. Glad Darcey is all recovered from her operation.

Good luck with the birth, chrysanthamum.

Hang in there, becks. Maybe you'll get to September and then baby Becksy will be the oldest in his/her year at school instead of the youngest!

YanknCock · 29/08/2009 11:58

Hello! Have finally made it back to MN!

Thanks to merryberry for making the announcement. I had the emergency section on Monday and was ready to come home on Wednesday afternoon.

Leo is 5 days old and feeding well, had his first 'real' poo last night and impressed us on his first night home with his ability to wee on his own head.

Congrats to everyone who has delivered already, and best of luck to everyone still waiting. As merryberry said, I am over the moon not to be pregnant anymore. SPD gone, still swollen in hands and feet but it seems to be coming down. Tendonitis a lot better, and I can finally poo despite the stupid amount of iron they are making me take! Staples came out yesterday and everything is healing nicely.

So it wasn't exactly the birth I'd wanted, but the hospital staff were so good about letting me have the choice about continuing to labour and not trying to scare me (though afterward they admitted being very relieved I'd agreed to the section when I did instead of carrying on!)

duchesse · 29/08/2009 19:08

Phew, finally made it to the bottom of the thread on my iPhone... Have mostly been updating my much shorter birth saga thread as a lot easier.

Not quite the straightforward home birth i'd expected after the last three for me. My waters broke first thing on Sunday morning and I merrily waited to go into labour and deliver later that day as had happened with the others.

Monday pm and still nothing so I pobbled in for some monitoring. Baby seemed fine, do I declined induction and went home to wait it out, as supposedly 95% of women will deliver within 48 hours of membrane rupture.

Spent a virtually sleepless night plagued by worries that the baby was going to be stillborn. Decided first thing on Tuesday morning to go in for induction instead of monitoring later that day. Had pessary tuesday pm, brought on a few very minor contractions (although it will kickstart labour in 70% of women apparently). I seemed to be joining a vanishingly small number of women by this stage.

By wednesday pm, still nothing and pessary thing fell down the loo, so it was time to go on a drip. After they had finshed stabbing me randomly to get a line in (6 attempts!), baby's heart rate had risen from 125 to 170 and was running a temperature. After three days of ruptured membranes, these things usually mean infection, so I had iv antibiotics first, followed by the synto.

Was 1cm dilated from Tuesday to Wednesday. Four hours of synto with very slighltly uncomfortable contractions brought me to 2 cm. Baby's was still high and she'd stopped reacting to contractions. They turned down the synto, cx died back and I felt an overwhelming to lie down and sleep.

At that point her heartbeat dropped to something stupidly low, the room was suddenly full of midwives trying to pick it up again and the obstetrician came in saying that she really thought it wise to do a c section NOW. I opted for a general as a lot quicker and already had a line up, was in theatre moments later.

Baby was born at 2am. Obs said she wishes she'd taken a picture as the baby was very impressively tangled in her cord. It looped around her body, then 5 times around her legs and thighs. Bottom line was there no way she making it out through mother nature's route alive. She had been bungee jumping and just couldn't reach my cervix let alone start labour off by pressing down it, hence the failure to progress.

So not quite the peaceful home birth If had in mind, but we're both safe even though the baby Is in nicu on antibiotics due to infection and breathing problems. She's on the mend though, weighed a healthy 7lbs 6 oz and is trying to feed from me a bit now. As yet nameless but possibly Matilda.

cairns · 30/08/2009 10:03

Congratulations Duchesse, YanknCock and Forester

Duchesse, wow that was a scary labour and am so glad for you that everything is now starting to work out. It is strange isn't it that your body must kind of tell you when something isn't right (ie that labour isn;t progressing how it should be), despite all of the drips etc they give you. Hope Matilda (?) is on the mend and home soon, I love that name by the way. It was on our shortlist if we had a girl.

Forester, hope Darcey is on the mend too, Poor mite having an operation so young.

I struggled with watching Benedict have lots of blood tests never mind lumbar punctures and operations!!

YanknCock glad your spd has started to improve and you are recovering well from the CS.

ScummyMummy · 30/08/2009 10:32

Oh my goodness, duchesse. So glad Matilda (if she stays a Matilda!)is ok. Hope she will be out of nicu v soon. I'm really sorry that things didn't go according to plan with the birth. Great that she's starting to feed. Many many congratulations.

Chrysanthamum · 30/08/2009 10:49

Congratulations Duchesse and welcome Matilda!
How harrowing for you though but I'm glad it all worked out in the end and that your baby is making progress.
I went for induction yesterday but hospital was too busy so I'm at home awaiting a phone call to go back in in the next few days

rightbobbydazzler · 31/08/2009 10:46

congrats duchesse!
finally popped sunday morning 12 hrs from waters breaking to delivery, predictably hurt like hell had gas and air and diamorphine planned hopsital birth but i dilated so quickly at home i was 8cm and climbing the walls by the time i was admitted.
cord extremely long like duchesses story and looped around babies body a few times although not the neck thankfully.
easier than my first two births of 31 and 24 hrs respectively so glad i caught a break this time and lovely to have my body back and no heartburn and ligament pain....
little girl 7lb 11oz- Jessica joins her two big brothers :-)
good luck to everyone out there who is still waiting xxx

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