Congratulations to Jlo2, Mij, nicky6, dannyg, soozze, mum2boys2girls and Queenfee and anyone else I've missed on the safe arrival of your bundles.
Jlo2 I hope all the scares are behind you, that was an ordeal you had on your hands.
And thanks to all of you for all your good wishes, you have no idea what an overwhelming sense of relief it was to see my boy for the first time alive and kicking! I feel I can handle anything now and the scans seem more manageable.
I was also pleasantly surprised by the c-section. Not as dreadful as I had imagined, although I'd still pick natural every time if I could.
I did find the spinal block a bit surreal, watching someone move my legs in different positions and not being able to feel it was weird beyond belief and also with dh wiggling my toes in turn in recovery saying 'really you can't feel this'!!
I managed to get skin to skin about 40 mins after birth in recovery which was lovely and straight onto the breast.
Also I had convinced myself I was going to have to have a blood transfusion as all I kept hearing was my high risk of blood loss but it was only 600ml. I had some advice from a friend beforehand to keep up my iron levels so I have been eating red meat and black pudding by the truck load the previous weeks which seem to have worked.
My only disappointment came when after having not eaten for 24 hrs I was presented with a small roll and yoghurt for dinner when what I really wanted was to eat the hind leg of a donkey! Luckily after seeing my face the care assistant brought me another plate of food, bless her!
The staff at the hosp were brilliant, the reputation for post natal care there has been rubbish but I cannot fault them while I was there.
I was so pleased to be let home after two nights in, my recovery has been great and dh has been brilliant in his support.
dd is wonderful with her little brother and so protective, when he cries she strokes him and says 'it's ok, I'm here'! She is also chief cotton wool ball holder at nappy change time which as she will tell you is very important!
Phoenix I had to get my Arnica 200 online, I couldn't find any high street shops that sold at that strength. Still not sure on how many I should take a day are you?
Anyway enough from me, good luck to all those due now, hang in there for those later in the month, get your feet up as much as you can while you can!
x