Hi there,
All the best Cote and Pula. Glad you're feeling better Jael and sending lots of labour vibes to those niggling or overdue!!
You might remember that I was really worried about giving birth as ds1 was 10lb and the labour quite difficult, well all I can say is that this labour was COMPLETELY different!!
I went to bed about 10.15pm on Friday night (Dh was in the spare room as apparently my snoring was sooo bad ) I read and a few mins later I felt a pop in my pelvis. I thought it was my SPD, but now believe it was my waters, although there was no gush! Then I started getting contractions every 7mins or so. It took me a few goes before I realised what it was. I then decided to have a bath and take some paracetamol, but that did nothing, so I came downstairs and used an online contraction monitor. I then realised that the contractions were every 3-5mins, by this point I had the Tens machine on. I phoned the labour ward who told me to go in, so phoned my parents and dad stayed to babysit and mum took Dh and I in (she used to work in this unit). It was only about 5-10min drive to the hospital! The midwife began clerking me in, but I wasn't a happy bunny - the contractions were really strong and I wanted an epidural!! Eventually the the midwife examined me and said that I couldn't have an epidural as I was 10cm and ready to give birth . Jasper was born not long after. I have to say I didn't cope well with the pain and was rather loud. So much so that mum told me later that I'd upset one of the other ladies giving birth in the room next to me I tore, the midwife thinks that its along my old episitomy scar. A couple of hours later I was upstairs in a single room (the perk of having my mum around!!)
I feel like I've been hit by a bus, but feel much better than after ds1's birth. Struggling to breastfeed, but it's getting better. My grandmother is telling all and sundry that she's disappointed that Jasper isn't a girl I'll let her off as a. she's 95 and b. she's not often wrong about the sex of a baby!!
For all those who haven't decided on a name - don't worry neither had we. Well we had a girl's name, so had to decide a boys one after he was born. I'm not 100% sure about his name, but was the same with ds1, I think it takes time to get used to!! Anyhow off to try and get some kip - good night all.