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Due April 2009 - Episode 10 - Fanjo Warriors demand Padded Purple rooms......Great Expectations!

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KittyCatIsGettingFat · 02/02/2009 12:29

New thread for us all! How many days this time?? {grin}

Anyone for a homemade choc-chip cookie?

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NuttyTaff · 05/02/2009 16:38

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Bleuravin · 05/02/2009 16:39

i know; but i've been in bed for 16 hours already...surely that's all the 'relaxing' one can take? and like i said, i'm headachey from doing nothing... asnd the ribs don't feel any different...

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 16:41

LOL Nutty you are scary! Although bet DD does as she is told when she is faced with situations like that!!!

conkertree · 05/02/2009 16:41

oh dear nutty - that was a harsh post. but i guess you are the authority on being stuck on the sofa for half the pg.

think we need a joke or something to lighten the mood.

have a 45 minute bus journey to look forward to now. normally dh and ds pick me up, but think ds has been in the car enough today so i said i'd get the bus but i hate it - always end up feeling really sick.

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 16:43

I know bleu, if I was you I would be in agony from the pure boredom but Nutty is right, you really really do have to try and take things easy until the pain has gone, the worst thing you can do is persevere (like you have been for the past week or two) and end up like this for the rest of your pregnancy!!!

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 16:45

Nutty and Boff are definitely the authority on this!!!

Bleu, will your DH be home soon to entertain you?

So did we decide on a new thread title?

B52s · 05/02/2009 16:46

Don't think I've even been on this episode yet. I lurk nearly daily to see what's going on. Barbarelly you must be getting excited now. 4 weeks!!! Bleu - take it easy. I heard swimming feels fine while you do it but it's after when the pain comes and the damage is done.

Love this snow - working (?) from home today looking after 2 year old, who keeps saying 'Mummy, chair, work.' So it's worse than being in the office! But have got a surprising amount done today, he seems to understand I can't play all day.

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 16:47

Oh B52 LOL at your DS! He will make a very good company boss when he is older!!!

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BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 17:15

oooh I do not like clients!!!

OOh do you know what I really fancy - one of those SHAKEAWAYS - Does anyone have them near them - where they basically make ice cream milkshakes with anything you want - so malteser or twix or berry - I would like a chocolate hobnob one!!! Yum...

See we need springy's wedding plans to keep us all occupied!

Bleu - what are the invites for your sis wedding like? When is she getting married and where?

Nutty how is your b-day going - have DH and DD been out in the snow???

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 17:19

I feel a bit like Puzzle - chatting away to myself...

Barbarella - I think you are having 2 blue and 1 pink! (for no other reason than I imagine a crazy house with boys all playing sports and this one little pink baby being the apple of daddy's eye) xxx

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 17:21

Hellloooooo Don't all leave me now!!

ooh Springy you must be home from food / menu planning soon!

BabyBolat · 05/02/2009 17:23

la la la, la la la la la la la, la la la, la la la la la la...

Ok come on girls....

Bleuravin · 05/02/2009 17:33

I was off buying books with next weeks pocket money for fear of being stuck in bed for the rest of my life...

Bleuravin · 05/02/2009 17:36

Sister's invites... well i actually haven't made samples yet... she's not getting married until next year so i have a little time. Once I get through the 'baby' projects and my other sister's wrap that i'm weaving (no currently since i cann't weave while on my back -no fear) I'll get to the samples... She's alreay bugging me about them though.
I was thinking vellum and embossed paper or real lace

Bleuravin · 05/02/2009 18:00

Hmmm Shakeways? They sound an awfully lot like Dairy Queen 'blizzards'...Ice cream with candy bar pieces in them...They make things a little more like McFlurries though (Dairy queen did them first), thicker, need a spoon to eat them. During Thanksgiving time they make a pumpkin pie flavored one. mmmmmm

SpringySunshine · 05/02/2009 18:10

We couldn't go to the restaurant because of the snow

But I am now staying here on the Thursday night with my family, sharing a room with my sister, with a lady coming to do my hair & make up in the morning if all goes well. & it is literally a stone's throw away from the registry office. Haha, no IL rubbish for me.

First babies in 4 weeks! Exciting! I'm really looking forward to seeing everyone's photos (although I swear, if everyone pops before me & I'm left just admiring photos with a bulging 44 week tummy...)

SpringySunshine · 05/02/2009 18:12

Also, I've never heard of Shakeaways. I am clearly deprived!

What are your clients doing, BB? They'd better not be stressing out a heavily pregnant lady...

Bleuravin · 05/02/2009 18:15

Looks nice Springy Good that you're putting your foot down.

SpringySunshine · 05/02/2009 18:16

Pfft, we've not even dealt with the post-wedding hotel issue yet

BoffinMum · 05/02/2009 18:24

Bleu, do as Nutty says. You have to get in the zone, girl. My current gruelling schedule:

7am Wake up, medication, tea, read hypnobirthing book and listen to CD
8am Breakfast (currently 2 weetabix with hot milk, crispbread with Bertolli lite and plum jam)
8.30am Boys go off to school. Warm bath with Neil's Yard unguent.
9.00 TV, MN, do a few emails, maybe hospital visit.
10.30-11.00 Snack (fruit, yoghurt, digestive biscuits)
11.00 TV
12.00 Lunch (soup, sandwich/crispbread)
12.30 TV, MN, Medication, possibly improving literature, 30 mins academic work, edit wikipedia entries
2.00 Wonder where the day has gone. TV, MN, quick 40 winks
4.00 Boys come home, music practice, watch TV with them, MN.
6.00 Medication
7.00 Dinner
8.00 DH comes home!!!! TV
10.30 Bed after another exhausting day

BoffinMum · 05/02/2009 18:37

Now the report on the ante-natal clinic.

I think I was seen by someone who was an imposter!! He was supposed to be a senior registrar and hadn't read my notes. He asked me why I was there. I explained I had been admitted with SPD last week, and that this was a follow-up appointment to discuss progress and so on. He then told me there was nothing that could be done for SPD, I only had 9 weeks to go, and I just had to put up with it, what did I expect.

No discussion of drug regime or anything!! Or arrangements for delivery!!

I responded by saying, "Oh, I'll just jump off a bridge now then, shall I?" He then went out and came back in with a hand held doppler. He palpated my belly wrongly and judged the position of the baby incorrectly, and then held the doppler near my fanjo area to try to get a heartbeat (which surprise, surprise didn't work!) What this had to do with SPD I have no idea.

He then said he was going to get another doppler machine (!) and my midwife asked him to organise it so we could see the consultant. He said she wasn't there. We insisted. He walked out and I flicked V-signs behind his back because he was a wanker(somewhat immature that last bit, I admit. Glad DH wasn't there or I would have been badly told off!) Consultant came about 10 minutes later and was lovely (she is brilliant) and talked me through the drugs regime, gave me oromorph in case it was useful, arranged for my thyroid bloods to be done so I wouldn't have to go back for another appointment, said I could go back into hospital at any time if I needed a break from it all, said she was happy for me to have a home birth as long as I had had all the right drugs advice and informed the neonatal team in case we needed them on standby, etc etc. Really it was top class care.

But the big question is ... who the hell was the other guy????

And do I get a fanjo warrior badge for flicking v-signs or is that too passive aggressive and pathetic??

SpringySunshine · 05/02/2009 18:45

Frankly, Boffin, I think you'd have been much better off slapping him around the face with said v-signs. But I certainly wouldn't have been telling you off! What's wrong with that man? Did he just wake up this morning & decide to be a doctor today? Actually, that reminds me of a surgeon who worked at the hospital where my mum used to nurse - he was there for about 3 months, operating on people before they realised that he wasn't at all medically trained & was, in fact, a hairdresser. I suppose he was good with scissors, or whatever, but really... How terrifying. He apparently got away with it by pretty much just letting everyone else take over little bits & saying 'oh, sorry, I'm tired today...', etc. I imagine they were a lot more thorough with checking references or whatever in future. Maybe your hospital isn't?

The consultant does sound brilliant, though. Are you still definitely intending to homebirth at this point?

NuttyTaff · 05/02/2009 18:56

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SpringySunshine · 05/02/2009 19:01

Not a career path you fancy then, Nutty?

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