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Fab Feb 2009: holy shit, this is it

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chilledmama · 10/01/2009 22:09

Cause Swampster has a dirty mouth
Wouldn't hear me speaking that way...much
How do we delete threads????

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mumoverseas · 19/01/2009 07:24

KT, whats wrong with you woman? swimming AND exercise DVD. You should be reclining on a sofa like the rest of us!

MS, need to pick your brains (if not turned to mush like mine by pregnancy) Think it is you in Norfolk and (once again!) DH and I are thinking of re-locating up that neck of the woods when we return from Saudi. We've been looking on rightmove for months at various counties but Norfolk seems fabulous value for money. One place that keeps coming up is Diss as it seems really nice and rural. Think you said before you had family in that area?
We are looking for somewhere a little rural where there are nice schools that potentially we could walk to. When DC's 1 and 2 were young where we lived (and still have house) was very 'busy' and the first school very full. They had 3 reception classes each with around 36 kids all linked by an archway so essentially around 100 little darlins in a very small area. I therefore opted to send DS and DD to a private school but now we have DC3 and number 4 on way I just don't think its feasible. We are starting to think if we move to a nice little village somewhere with a lovely local school it would be so nice to have a normal life, walk the kids to school etc and not have to try to compete (and fail miserably) with the 4 x 4 brigade in the prep school playground (although I do have a 4 x 4!) Any advice ref areas?

rosieposey · 19/01/2009 08:14

Morning all. Well i slept like rubbish Poor DD3 has today off because she was up all night with earache so will take her to the doctors this morning as i think she has a dreaded ear infection ( she gets about two a year ). So sorry i am going to miss you all today as i was really looking forward to coming and had made up my mind last night but will definately make the next one with lo in tow!

Hope everyone else had a better night though. Is DH's birthday today so all of this talk of homemade baking and cakes is making me very i need to pull my finger out and get cooking.

LittleMissNorty · 19/01/2009 08:31

Morning all ....still feels like the middle of the night for me....I'm knackered this morning....went to bed at nearly 11....up at 12, 1.30 and 2.30 for indigestion / wees, 3.30 for the dog, 4.45 and then 6.30 for DD.....getting in practice for the sleep deprivation I think

I'm also 37 weeks now and officially full term....bring it on!!

Had a spend-up in Mothercare yesterday.....I didn't even need anything....its only 19 months since my last baby ....oh well, don't let things like that stop me

Have a good meet-up today guys.....take some pics of those bumps!

thehouseofmirth · 19/01/2009 08:49

Morning! Sorry you had bad night RosieP.

Just putting in a call to the RFH to make sure they've got enough cake...

nkweto · 19/01/2009 08:49

Morning all,

Thanks for the birth plan responses...hope all had a better nights sleep. Sorry to hear about your DAU experience Herb, hope you are feeling better..

Wont be able to make the meet up today, DS is full of cold and I am on the edge... don't think bringing the lurgy to a group of heavily pregnant ladies and their DC's would be very nice !

Hope you have a great time, and that we get to meet up after the LO's arrive..

dinkystinky · 19/01/2009 08:50

Morning all. Am still up for meet up so for those making it am indian, shoulder length black hair (with more than the odd grey hair in there), huge bump, wearing turquoise jumper, black trousers, brown uggs and a blue duffel coat type item. Will prob get there around 12.30. Nkweto - sorry you wont be able to make it; hope DS, and you, get over that cold as quickly as humanly possible...

LMN and Rosie - you had such terrible night's sleep. Hope you both manage to get some naps in today during the day today.

Questionkid and Pempe- sorry you're suffering so. Do you have a support band (you could try in Mothercare for one or I think a couple of the ladies on the thread have bands they dont get on with/use which they may be willing to lend you) which may help if is mild SPD. Otherwise I think the advise is to avoid any positions where your legs are not in parallel (eg sitting cross legged). Give your midwife a call to see if there is anything that can be done at this stage - though at least the end is well in sight for you.

MoS - your post made me laugh, am most definitely NOT a domestic goddess. Homemade fish fingers are one of the limited repertoire of very simple dishes I can make and sadly the marshmallow tea is not as lovely as it sounds (is basically green sludge made out of the leafs and nowhere near as yummy as actual marshmallows - though does seem to be helping me cough up the crap residing in my chest this morning, so at least it seems to be doing something).

KT - I love that you've got so much energy but it sounds like your body is telling you to take it abit easier with the backache as you'll need to conserve some of your energy for labour. Hot water bottle against my lower back was good for lower back ache when I was pregnant with DS (I was like you and exercised like a loon till around 38 weeks last time round - needless to say am not doing it this time round with a toddler and job to contend with too) as was someone pressing quite hard on my sacrum. Hope it goes away soon. And the shooting pains down below - they're another one of those delightful pregnancy symptoms no one ever tells you about in advance....

Chilled - oh my god, I'd have throttled DH if he did that! Fortunately DH (like me) is about as DIY-inclined as a parrot with a screwdriver so likelihood of a similar event occurring in the Dinky household is pretty slim....

littleboyblue · 19/01/2009 08:51

Morning. Ds has just got up!!!!!!! I've been awake for ages, been having sharp shooting pains through my back, they came every 2 mins and lasted about 40 mins but has calmed down now.
I'm on for today, in a bit of a rush, but meet not til 12:30? ish?
I will be wearing long black skirt and grey and black top that's now so tight it's see through but I don't care Not sure about what jacket yet...
I am about 5 foot 10, brown hair tied back, brown frame glasses and will have the small child pointing at everything whilst yelling "whassat? car" and me replying "no, that's a table/chair/lady (delete as appropriate).

laidbackinengland · 19/01/2009 09:00

Enjoy your meet up today lovely ladies !!

Oooggs - will definately do something Devon way in the Spring if you are up for it (bearing in mind we will have 8 children between us, we might just have to go and sit in a field with a bottle of vodka )

EEEEEEkkkkkkkk. My baby is due this week. I don't think she will arrive this week as I was so overdue with DS3 (hence putting my self on the Fab Feb board rather than January)- but you never know. I feel practically organised but not quite 'ready'.

I have a fun day of mopping floors and other household tasks. Now my mum has arrived, she is looking for lots of little jobs to do, so will give her a few choice jobs too.

Have a good day everyone.

thehouseofmirth · 19/01/2009 09:06

I'm going to try & arrive a bit earlier (11.30-12) as have decided to take DS off for a treat afterwards as our last Mum & Son hurrah before DS2 arrives. Had thought about the Eye but it was shut yeteday so may take boat up to Tower of London. So will need to leave 1.30-2-ish.

littleboyblue · 19/01/2009 09:06

Do you know what? Although part of me feels like we all know each other rather well (you all know more about certain things than my closest friends) I am really quite nervous about today

littleboyblue · 19/01/2009 09:08

THOM That sounds really nice. I was planning on getting there early as ds likes to have lunch early, but as we got up so late.... I think we'll start getting washed and dressed now, and leave here (middlesex) when ready, and get to RFH when we get there

lardybump · 19/01/2009 09:09

morning all. I wont be making it today, am in a lot of pain (again) and am feeling really down...

Hope you all have a lovely time though and I want to see lots of pics....

MarkStretch · 19/01/2009 09:09

MOS no problem, have you got an email address and then I can send you some info?

Ok here, except feeling knackered (as usual) and a few low down twinges. Was very uncomfortable walking dd into school this morning. I may take to the sofa.

MarkStretch · 19/01/2009 09:14

Oh and enjoy the meet up everyone!

Pempe · 19/01/2009 09:17

lardybump, you ok? am computer bound for the next few hours if you want to off load stuff to a stranger

McDreamy · 19/01/2009 09:19

Have a great meet up - wish I could come but I have my hospital appt this morning to get my section date!!!!

Catch up with you all later!

Lardy so sorry to hear you're not feeling great will be around and about most of the day (once I get back from hosp!).

swampster · 19/01/2009 09:24

Nkweto

KT - you are one of the naughty, naughty FB people who didn't fess up to your identity and would have got culled if MrsY hadn't got better things to do with her time - I have promoted you to glory made you an officer .

LittleMissNorty · 19/01/2009 09:27

You ok Lardy? I'm around today as well.....

lardybump · 19/01/2009 09:29

I am just suffering from SPD. Been using my crutches all weekend and resting as much as possiable but still woke up this morning in pain.... I am just getting fed up with being in pain all the time....

I never had any problems with dd's pg so it really is all new to me... I just want it over now and I am only 35 weeks so have at least another 5 weeks ahead of me....

I also feel so bad because DD is not getting as much good attention as she should because I cant do much and am very snappy at her..... She is very good as well and doesn't deserve it....

I am just feeling emotional again today and have not been sleeping very well so sorry to go on...

swampster · 19/01/2009 09:29

HoM, the London Aquarium is just there too and is a BIG favourite of my littlies.

LittleMissNorty · 19/01/2009 09:29

Hope you get a good date McDreamy

spottyshoes · 19/01/2009 09:31

Enjoy the meetup you lucky ladies

MrsY · 19/01/2009 09:34

lardy - if you need help with things, send me a message and I'd be heppy to help. I have a belt I can drop round until you get yours...

Meet-up ladies, I'll be wearing jeans with a long black tunic and a cardi over the top. Should be getting to RFH at about 12:30...

LittleMissNorty · 19/01/2009 09:35

Oh Lardy.....sounds horrible....I'm getting the normal aches and pains and that's enough....how old is your DD? I think I'm local to you, so if I can help, just shout.....don't think we're "friends" on FB....I'll go and "request". Can you take any stronger painkillers?

Right, off for a nap if I can get DD to have a sleep

littleboyblue · 19/01/2009 09:40

lardy Soory you are feeling so crap. If it makes you feel any better, my ds doesn't get half the attention he should at the moment either. Hope you feel better soon. x

Those going today, is there stuff on the menu for ds? Maybe a little pasta dish or something? He doesn't like bread so a sandwich is out, or should I pick up something on the way? Or let him eat cakes and muffins? He'd like that and won't do him any harm.....